…if wife is main breadwinner? I went back to a way lower paying job last year with my wife’s support and blessing. I love it. I moved back to this job as the result of a year long depression episode and a leave of absence from previous high stress position.

Two weeks ago wife says she wants divorce. No addiction, abuse or cheating. My depression really traumatized her. Anyway, I don’t make enough to live on my own. She’s offering certain support, but I need to know all that I can ask for. Any insight would be helpful. I’m working on getting a higher paying job frantically. Obviously I’m scared shitless.