What are your thoughts on this?

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-02-02T05:30:32+00:00

Give it to her. Let it go. Why hang on to it?
The sooner you can get rid of intimate stuff (or any other stuff you shared) with her, the quicker you will get over her.

suspicious_bag_1000 · 2026-02-01T16:26:03+00:00

A sensual object you used to share? I assume she wants to get sensual. Maybe she’s trying to tantalize you or maybe she wants to enjoy her own company. Either way, acknowledge the how it hurt and move on. Start thinking about who you’re going to share sensual objects with next

Expert-Raccoon6097 · 2026-02-01T13:50:26+00:00

You protect your sanity by not residing in the same home. If you choose to continue this charade you will pay the price.

EitherBedroom2341 · 2026-02-01T12:20:10+00:00

She’s trying to get a reaction. Find a distraction. Make sure she is under 25. Pay if you have to. It cures heartache.

MiloGoesToPorridge · 2026-02-01T04:38:35+00:00

I suspect she knew damn well where it was.

She probably wanted to rub a bit of salt in there.

Mine was like that too. Psychopaths the lot of them.

psychcaptain · 2026-01-31T22:08:41+00:00

You can tell her that while you are cohabitating under the same roof, it would make you feel uncomfortable if she pursued intimacy under your roof (especially if you are paying any or all of it).

She can move out if she wants to get her jollies off.

Anyway, I assume she is moving her emotional affair to a physical one if she has not already.

Wingnut8888 · 2026-01-31T20:59:02+00:00

She doesn’t give a single fuck about how you feel or that you’re grieving. In fact, it makes her resentment grow. Sooner you’re out of there, the better, because the things she does next will only increase in hurtfulness.

Maximum-Molasses-143 · 2026-01-31T20:52:09+00:00

Go grey rock or no contact on her.

Novel_Page_5510 · 2026-01-31T20:28:14+00:00

What I have learned from the past week is that a stbx is one of few people who know your insecurities, your vulnerabilities, and the best ways to leave you hurt and confused. Focus on you king and let her play the games.

bluephotoshop · 2026-01-31T20:26:50+00:00

This will do the trick: Whip your sensual object out and wack off in front of her.

Title	What are your thoughts on this?
Author	Puzzleheaded-Way3522
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	January 31, 2026 5:22 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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