What does it mean?

HistoricalRich280 · 2026-01-16T05:40:44+00:00

Means you have the upper hand if she can’t get control of her emotions. Run w that and move quick

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-01-16T04:05:52+00:00

Buckle up buddy, it's going to be a bumpy ride. Even if she didn't call you an ahole all it takes is one lawyer/friend/therapist/family member to totally derail an 'amicable' divorce.

tyyyy110 · 2026-01-16T00:00:17+00:00

in what context was this said?

MartyMcFly7 · 2026-01-15T21:51:21+00:00

Translation: "I'm angry, hurt, and afraid; but I don't want to appear weak, lest you take advantage. I had hopes and expectations -- realistic or not -- and those have not been met. I'm disappointed in myself. I invested time in something and feel stupid it didn't pay off. I'm afraid of what this means for my future and what people will think. If I hurt you, maybe it will make me feel better. Maybe it will make the situation feel less unfair."

warwww · 2026-01-15T18:51:11+00:00

Translation: You’re about to get accused of things you never did or said.

In short, you are about to become a narcissistic abuser who also abuses everything around him.

Heck, you’re going to be accused of abusing inanimate objects.

Remember that time you and her were in Home Depot and the shopping cart accidentally hit her on the heel?

Well you meant to that and in turn physically abused her and she had to endure weeks of therapy to combat the mental abuse that went along with it when you fake apologized and gaslit by saying “I’m sorry”.

RevolutionaryLaw8854 · 2026-01-15T18:42:20+00:00

Translation : “you’re life is going to be peaceful after I’m gone”

dystinct · 2026-01-15T18:04:01+00:00

Translation: You'll be sorry you didn't divorce her sooner.

Title	What does it mean?
Author	NoIdeasNoSolutions
Upvotes	12
Comments	10
Date	January 15, 2026 5:50 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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