“No, ALL lives matter!”

AigisxLabrys · 2024-12-10T19:15:12+00:00

They do.
They do.
They do.
“Discovering something that doesn’t exist!”
https://youtu.be/uKeKuaJ4nlw?si=Bal52GTrLHiziZnB
Why don’t you get your feminist ilk to lobby against circumcision?
“Discovering something that doesn’t exist!”
You would still call them dangerous.
Stop stigmatizing men defending themselves against women.
Appeal to emotion.
Stop erasing male rape victims and centering rape all around yourself.
Oh wow a stopped clock moment.
Piss off. You and your ilk would still hate us.

ActualInteraction0 · 2024-12-10T17:23:39+00:00

It's a "fix your own problems" sentiment, for problems an individual can hardly fix alone.

HunterRenegade09 · 2024-12-10T18:36:03+00:00

Such a cop out mechanism. Oh you don't like this, then tell some conceptual entity to sort it out. Wonder what would happen if somebody made similar statements about women.

alter_furz · 2024-12-10T17:36:02+00:00

she basically tells men to whine...

...and then goes to another sub and tells them to quit whining.

this dissonance is not an issue for her, she puts her emotions first.

she knows how men feel but it doesn't matter to her.

funnily enough that qualifies as "empathy" nowadays

MarionberryPrimary50 · 2024-12-10T20:25:34+00:00

I love how this person is telling men to stop victim blaming

And then proceeds to victim blame men for their issues

Evening-Hat3692 · 2024-12-10T18:43:51+00:00

This is just the usual gender critical slop that blames men’s problems on the primordial and non-Euclidean Eldritch horror that is “the patriarchy.”

You will never see a woman take accountability for the fact that all these troubled men are raised by neglectful and abusive women. Or accountability for the fact that women reward jaded, toxic men with positive reinforcement and sex.

Their entire argument hinges on the unchallenged assertion that women are perpetual victims. And the moment you break that assertion in half, their worldview crumbles like wet paper.

PlatformStriking6278 · 2024-12-10T18:08:30+00:00

After about the first five, they start to tackle issues that are undeniably exclusive to men and then it isn’t even defending their primary sentiment lmao.

ryandiy · 2024-12-10T20:09:58+00:00

It's so annoying when we want to complain to women and they give us solutions, as if we can't think of them ourselves.

Sometimes we just want to vent and get empathy, ladies. Is that such a foreign concept to your minds?

SomeSugondeseGuy · 2024-12-10T20:31:41+00:00

Fallacy of relative privation (also known as "appeal to worse problems" or "not as bad as") – dismissing an argument or complaint due to what are perceived to be more important problems.

EL_overthetransom · 2024-12-10T16:43:51+00:00

A woman will take everything but accountability.

SnooBeans9101 · 2024-12-10T18:27:25+00:00

They make it sound so simple and easy to achieve.

Nowadays I get charged for even come across in the wrong manner. It's hard to be risking for that.

BloomingBrains · 2024-12-11T06:02:40+00:00

Something tells me that if you said "Don't like women being raped, then just protest rape as a whole instead of talking about women getting raped specifically" he would call you sexist.

Funny how when its women suffering, its a women's issue. But when its men suffering, its a human issue.

Also, the entire problem in the first place is that these left wing policies that would help everyone are often held back by alienating men, therefore causing them to not vote for the party that could effect these changes in the first place. Congratulations feminists. Tirades like this are getting Trump elected.

And even then, that's assuming populist democrats would actually implement left wing policies, instead of just paying lip service to get the female vote.

PrimeWolf88 · 2024-12-10T23:48:54+00:00

They certainly don't like the argument that children and fetuses are their own beings when abortion gets mentioned...Then they're suddenly not living or independent beings at all - now it's a clump of cells that belongs to the mother.

TheSpaceDuck · 2024-12-11T19:39:31+00:00

I've always known feminists are only against portraying men as dangerous when it comes to very specific sub-groups of men, but this is the first time I see them admitting it openly. Reminds me of how "TERFs" are hated by feminists for treating men who transition into women the same way they treat all men.

Of course, either side could play the victim-blaming game like this. A few examples:

"You're against women being raped or harassed? Demand more and better funded police."

"You're against women not being treated seriously in the workplace? Stop depicting women as passive victims without accountability."

"You're angry about women doing most childcare? Protest for proper public funded childcare programs."

"You're angry at women earning less than men? Rally women to do more of the dangerous but well-paying jobs men do".

"You're angry at homophobia and gay men being seen as predators? Stop depicting men as predators."

"You're angry at 'toxic masculinity'? Stop silencing men who voice their issues."

These would be the mild ones, of course. I won't even get started on the equivalent of "men wouldn't suffer violence anymore if they refused to fight back" is, because then we'd be reaching levels of victim-blaming that are typically associated with violence and crime apologists. Which says a lot about who posted that.

And I won't even comment on the "we'd agree with you" part because we've all seen what they do the moment any effort is put into including men in the causes "they are fighting for". Or how their stance on topics like sexual assault changes the moment a woman is doing it.

Fallen-Shadow-1214 · 2024-12-11T03:44:29+00:00

Who’s out here complaining about ladies night? I’ve never heard that complaint in my life.

JJnanajuana · 2024-12-10T19:54:13+00:00

I don't get it, as someone aiming to help with mens issues I already do most of this and more.

Is she assuming we don't do this? Or complaining about the 'more'?

Mysterious-Citron875 · 2024-12-13T18:05:25+00:00

"It's all your fault and you should still obey us"

Initial_Zebra100 · 2024-12-10T16:51:16+00:00

Seems very reasonable, honestly.

Men really should be doing more. If we want things to change, we have to actually do something.

Misandry does exist, but it does fall on men to actively fight against the ideas addressed here and advocate ourselves.

Confident_Truck424 · 2024-12-10T16:46:41+00:00

Well, i don’t see anything false here

Title	“No, ALL lives matter!”
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	111
Comments	54
Date	December 10, 2024 4:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/everydaymisandry/comments/1hb5w2y/no_all_lives_matter/
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