Are normal men sexually attractive the same way women are to men?

doublepoly123 · 2026-03-02T20:16:40+00:00

Youre still deep into inceldom. What is a normal man? You have to rewire yourself.

watsername · 2026-03-02T20:54:57+00:00

Red pill forces a “hierarchy” of men in order to be relevant. In order for red pill to exist it HAS to put down a good chunk of men as inherently less “valuable”.

Which is why red pill isn’t actually for the benefit of men or women. It’s just another version of white supremacy and misogyny.

Irislynx · 2026-03-02T21:23:47+00:00

Look around at all the married men or men in ltr's. Are they all the top 1%....no. There are plenty of short ugly happily married men.

Afraid_Fondant_7903 · 2026-03-04T07:15:01+00:00

The average women is not in her 20s nor is she skinny with DDs

nofrickz · 2026-03-02T21:34:46+00:00

I hate when yall spew this "women are attracted to the top 1%" bullshit. None of yall ever asked actual women what they're into. You go based off what unhinged men say online. Step outside. Talk to the women in your family. Make friends with women. All of this extra bullshit is a hindrance to you. If you actually stepped into reality, you'll notice a lot of the Manosphere bullshit doesn't exist.

Pomeranian111 · 2026-03-02T22:52:24+00:00

OP! Think really hard what I'm about to say.

If you got a definitive answer would it truly make you happy?

You will find evidence to support your line of thinking and could find plenty to disprove it.

How is it helping you to think about any of this stuff? Just radically accept there will always be gender differences and start asking questions that will actually improve your life and things you can work on.

Afraid_Fondant_7903 · 2026-03-04T07:12:17+00:00

sydney sweeney is NOT on the same level as the average barista that is not what most women look like. the fact you believe this means you do not know what average women look like

Queen_Maxima · 2026-03-02T20:41:02+00:00

I find someone like Sydney Sweeney on the same level as the average barista or sever at a local restaurant

I think a handsome barista is more attractive than some celebrity because they can't hide behind the filter.

The most beautiful person in the world is usually that guy/girl from the store around the corner anyways

Also, you dont find almost every woman attractive. For one, you have preference for an age range, a range of body fat % and you probably like symmetry too

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2026-03-02T20:21:30+00:00

Regardless of the answer you get on attraction which is subjective, it is a fact that men are much more interested in casual sex than women are (for various reasons).

octave120 · 2026-03-02T22:32:55+00:00

My take is that men on average seem to care less about presenting themselves on an average weekday. We tend to spend less time on things like fashion, grooming, hair styling, skin care, fragrance, cosmetics, photography, etc. And while there’s nothing inherently wrong with that, it limits our experience in these areas, making us have a less thorough understanding of what does and does not look good on us. This makes us less likely to be attractive in casual social settings, and even less so on the limited selection of photos we have for our dating profile.

Early-Damage-6792 · 2026-03-02T20:25:43+00:00

trying to equate female to male attraction is a waste of time. men are more visual. and there is a standard of beauty for women. women are all over the place with it. don’t waste your time trying to understand just look your best and keep it moving

cozyemberheart · 2026-03-04T14:37:28+00:00

How about you think about what you actually want from a relationship. Do you just want to sleep with a lot of women or do you want an actual partner.

If you just want to sleep with women, then easy, find women who just want to sleep with men and not talk to you for the rest of your life and move along.

If you want an actual partner, it doesn't matter how many women are or are not "attracted" to you. They may not like how you look. They equally (and more likely) may not like how you behave. In either case, you only need to run into one woman who likes you enough to couple up. From what I can see, your own visual standards are limiting you more than anything else. How hot does a woman need to be for you. And if she wasn't hot, would you continue to look elsewhere while you're with a woman who loves you.

Anyway, look at yourself. Stop distracting yourself with things that are outside of your control. And the ultimate tip... stop looking for a "girl" based on your perception of their attraction to you and focus on making friends (ordinary friends) with women.

Men and the idea of "the friend zone" have ruined the ordinary and natural friendship and dating pattern for men. Not women. Men.

Make friends without trying to extract a sexual relationship out of it. Be direct if you'd like a date. Accept no for no. Move on. It's that easy.

Grow up basically.

Fik_456 · 2026-03-04T13:46:52+00:00

Nope. It is not even a incel bullcrap, it is life.

NegativeKarmaVegan · 2026-03-02T20:57:50+00:00

All the data I've seen points to the idea that women have a higher standard than men and think most men are unattractive, instead of a normal bell curve.

Title	Are normal men sexually attractive the same way women are to men?
Author	Haunting_Ad_4179
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Date	March 2, 2026 8:14 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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