Do not break up with your boyfriend if he's dabbling in red pill ideas If we really want to break down gender roles and get an understand on man and why they choose these dark roads to go down then we just can't go a 180 and dismiss them or just break up with damn if they find themselves gravitating towards this

For one thing he will probably prove the point in their heads and it shows the lack of nuance and understanding especially coming from the significant other

I'm not saying stay if he's abusive of course but I had a very abusive relationship to where my ex was a female variant of a red piller. I should have left sooner than what I did but I'm glad I stayed because I really tried to get an understanding on why she thought the way she did and of course it was because of her being hurt by men in her past

As I say that I could use all the toxic interviews and stuff she used against me that's justification for whatever idea I have but that will be disingenuous and hypocritical because I have always hated women in my life using other men as a way to beat me over the head if I'm not acting in any way they want

The same reason why a girl will go to extreme feminism is the same reason why a guy will go to Red pill

Both offer a very simplistic view of the world when you're usually young and filled with trauma already

I say that as both of EX male feminists and an ex red pill

Her people hurt people sometimes people are both genders carried away with new information

One of the biggest reasons why I no longer associated with feminism was because they weren't practicing what they were preaching which was that if we really do live in a world absolutely gender roles that we should start acting like it

Don't tell me you're an anti-racist or anti sexist but when I see you interacting with people your actions show that you're not as tolerant as you think you are.

I would really try to help your boyfriend prove the red feel wrong.

I don't think there's really anything better that can help cure a guy and his own lady telling him that his ideas are bs and she loves them regardless of XYZ

Something that has helped me is just realizing that not every woman is abusive and finding women who treat me better has really helped