can someone explain this to me

spiraldinosaur · 2022-09-04T14:30:08+00:00

No you're not overthinking. You're thinking the normal amount, which is enough to realise that these guys are absolutely full of shit.

alexbrove · 2022-09-04T09:40:49+00:00

There's nothing to explain. Everything in red pill is designed to convince you that all women are terrible.

If a woman has a well-paid career or good education = she is too modern and she's not worth dating

If she doesn't have a job = she must be a gold digger and she's not with dating

If she's not a hot babe with a rating of 8-10 = she's not worth dating

If she lives beyond the age of 30 = she has hit the wall and she's not worth dating

If she has a kid from a previous relationship or marriage = she's definitely not worth dating

If she's slept with anyone = she is too promiscuous

If she's a virgin, under the age of 25, she's submissive, she's an 8-10, and she's ready to give up her career, have kids for you and become a traditional wife = she might be worth dating and even marrying

If you follow red pill advice, and become an alpha and you spin plates, neg her and use dread game (basically just keep treating her like shit) = she will respect you

If she complains about the way you treat her = she is being emotional

If she gets fed up, realises that you're a complete narcissist and she decides to leave = she is obviously hypergamous and all women are like that.

Rhubarb_Fair · 2022-09-04T17:16:30+00:00

And dont forget the fact that if the man wants to divorce his wife after 20 years (because ya-know the wife "hit the wall" as EVERY SINGLE WOMAN DOES, even married women) he clearly shouldn't have to give up ANY of "HIS" money, even though the whole reason she quit her career was to look after him and his kids domestically, and now has little to no chance of ever building her own career. Sounds like a great deal for a woman, right? They should be jumping at the chance....

xvszero · 2022-09-04T21:33:32+00:00

I'll explain it: Red pill is sexist nonsense.

That's the only explanation needed.

Arose1316 · 2022-09-04T12:06:57+00:00

It's all such a hypocritical mind game. My ex-fiancé who became red-pilled used to say it was the man's job to "protect and provide". But by the end, it was him I was afraid of and he was financially/emotionally/physically/sexually abusing me...it's an insane rhetoric.

WikiMobileLinkBot · 2022-09-04T15:19:53+00:00

It's literally an indoctrination technique called "Doublethink": https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doublethink

Here's more examples: https://psychologenie.com/understanding-doublethink-with-examples

"The power of holding two contradictory beliefs in one’s mind simultaneously, and accepting both of them… To tell deliberate lies while genuinely believing in them, to forget any fact that has become inconvenient, and then, when it becomes necessary again, to draw it back from oblivion for just so long as it is needed, to deny the existence of objective reality and all the while to take account of the reality which one denies – all this is indispensably necessary. Even in using the word doublethink it is necessary to exercise doublethink. For by using the word one admits that one is tampering with reality; by a fresh act of doublethink one erases this knowledge; and so on indefinitely, with the lie always one leap ahead of the truth." -George Orwell, 1984

Naus1987 · 2022-09-04T18:49:04+00:00

Red pill has a lot of conflicting view points. I think some don’t mind being an atm as long as they can feel secure the woman won’t leave him.

There’s a lot of red pill people (that I’ve seen) who just want a traditional old school relationship that doesn’t end in divorce.

And then there’s others who thing divorce is inevitable, and they want the woman to pay for half, because they see it as a losing war anyways.

Ultimately, it’s just hurt men trying to find a cope.

SweelFor- · 2022-09-04T21:50:13+00:00

It doesn't make sense because it doesn't make sense, stop trying to make something stupid make sense it's pointless

Mantis_Manor · 2022-09-06T01:03:39+00:00

I'm new to both sides of this but I thought Red Pill was referring to women that wanted men to fill traditional roles but, didn't want to fill traditional roles themselves. I haven't really heard many complain strictly about providing, or being the ATM.

Title	can someone explain this to me
Author	The-Guy-In-Grey
Upvotes	27
Comments	38
Date	September 4, 2022 6:35 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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