Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to Cheat

HelenHavok · 2022-01-10T23:48:46+00:00

Wealthy people still marry for convenience. I knew someone who had a lucrative patent and entered into a business marriage with his spouse to access her family’s money to develop his patent (everyone was on the same page here and got what they wanted out of the agreement). There was an understanding that they would have a few kids together, but they largely led different romantic lives. When people marry for money, reputation, immigration, etc., the rules within the marriage are often different than people marrying for love. Infidelity can also be an acceptable exchange for whatever else the partners get out of the relationship. But it just isn’t true that cheating rich guys can do whatever they want and their marriage survives. A lot of them are on the second and third wives (or more!) due to their misbehavior (example: #45).

EntertainmentNeat592 · 2022-01-10T23:17:17+00:00

Red pill narratives are the perfect examples of play stupid games, get stupid results. Infidelity is one of the number one reason for women to divorce their husband, so most women don’t put up with cheating.

A rich man can believe he is allow to cheat because of his money all he wants, but his wife/gf is most likely not gonna tolerate it and leave. Yes, some women will tolerate it if he is providing a lifestyle to her but those women often cheat too. So, I don’t understand who says rich men are allow to cheat, like who is allowing it?

msinclaire · 2022-01-10T22:59:19+00:00

High value men have ethics and an obvious moral compass. Cheating in any form precludes those qualities.

jejuned · 2022-01-11T00:09:51+00:00

a lot of the people who ascribe to this ideology ("you can cheat if you're Good Enough") are generally the type of people who trap women in relationships via financial or psychological abuse and then go and fuck around on them. that's why "high value" men "get away" with cheating, because they've typically removed a lot of a woman's ability to make decisions for herself through some type of abuse. it's an inherently shit mindset

xvszero · 2022-01-11T02:50:25+00:00

Every single one of these idiots is just selling what asshole men want to hear, of course it doesn't make any sense.

Terrible-Ad3405 · 2022-01-10T23:46:38+00:00

If she tolerates your cheating, she doesn’t love you but your money. And she will eventually cheat too or leave your ass if she gets the cash out of divorce. People who respect each other don’t cheat without at least feeling horrible about it. Exceptions exist, but most women loose respect and admiration for a cheating spouse which leads to less satisfaction.

RedPillDetox · 2022-01-11T09:16:18+00:00

Lol, who would have thought? Women who rely on their rich husbands to provide them a very comfortable wealthy lifestyle often do not divorce their asses for cheating. So? If anything, the fact that a woman won't get mad or hurt at her husband's infidelity only goes to show she doesn't love him and he's just her "Beta bucks".

Gaddammitkyle · 2022-01-11T09:26:47+00:00

"Durr it should be okay for HVM to cheat because it's much harder for men to score than women"

"Durr cheating is the only way to keep your women in line, if she feels that she has you 100% she will lose interest"

"The fear of being replaced will make her more submissive and less likely to cheat"

"She is talking to her chads behind your back anyway, so let her know you've got a replacement ready too"

Many things I've heard from redpill vids on YT. It's basically one of those "Do to her what shes gonna do to you" bits.

Mriconicdev · 2022-01-10T22:27:02+00:00

It’s bull shit and really comes down to the woman in this case. I think whether you’re high value or not if your wife or gf have an understanding/agreement with each other that it’s okay for you to have sexual relationships with other women then that’s just what it is.

However I personally think high value is not only being on a certain level financially but also being there emotionally and making sure you’re checking every box not just the money aspect.

I also believe that SOME not all women will be more tolerable of a man going outside of the relationship sexually if he not only supports here financially but also makes sure all of her emotional needs are met too.

Not all women are gonna go for this no matter who you are but some will.

Terrible-Ad3405 · 2022-01-10T23:49:38+00:00

The only good thing about Kevin Samuel ist that he doesn’t mind a woman having a relatively high „body count“ as he also has a very high one. Meaning at least he doesn’t hold such super double standards towards a woman’s past. That’s what he said in one video. He expects her to be loyal in a relationship, to have grown or no kids, and to be submissive tho. I don’t like his „ideas“ but they are way worse red pill influencers like fresh and fit out there.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2022-01-11T02:32:42+00:00

Even the richest men in the world like Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos settle into boring marriages like the rest of us. So all those billions don't give them any more "options" than a middle class dude. At least that's what it looks like. Though I don't understand why such "filthy" rich men would even bother getting married. Surely they have enough to pay for mistresses and such.

Visible-Doughnut-782 · 2022-01-11T04:53:04+00:00

Depends what “high value” actually means.

If it just equates to being rich than the reality is a very wealthy man will simply have a massive amount of options when it comes to woman wanting to sleep with him. There is certainly truth to the idea that most people are only as faithful as their options. The difference is causal sex to most men is just an elevated form of masturbation. Expecting a guy with a million options not to cheat is not that different( from a male perspective) than expecting a guy with very limited options never to watch porn or masturbate once he is in a relationship.

If your definition of a “high value” man is fundamentally based on his moral compass or being a good person that it becomes a different scenario altogether.

Are Woman generally more attracted to rich men or men with morals? What is really considered more “high value” when it comes to attraction?

Some people will say why can’t a man be both “high value” in terms of wealth and “morals” but this opens up an interesting question- and maybe one too broadly philosophical for a gender relations sub. Can somebody actually be rich and moral in the first place? Does one negate the other? Would Jesus who said “it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a rich person to enter the kingdom of God” be considered a “high value” man or a “scrote”? If it’s the latter than any woman defining a value by his bank balance could be considered low value in the morals department herself.

ResponsibleAd2541 · 2022-01-11T14:54:03+00:00

Have you heard of the Clintons

LadyKitana · 2022-01-13T17:06:57+00:00

They always word it to make it seem like only the men are allowed to do it, they are framing in a way that took place when women were financially dependent on their husbands and couldn’t leave when he cheated. I also heard them talk about the business world were it was accepted for a man to have a mistress in the form of the assistant. Things have changed and women are more involved in the workforce and the corporate world.

As for exploring his “options” it’s called an open relationship which I can respect if it was brought up in the beginning and both people agree. They never address the fact that the women can also have a man in the side or engage in swingers relationships. They only time they address this is if it’s only with other women. Again it’s fine if both parties agree however women do have men on the side. ( pool boy) I hear someone women argue back with this idea and they lost their minds lol

The ones who go behind their back get divorced and if the women do stay it takes a toll on her emotional well being, they are not happy and lonely. Also I think shows like basketball wives, love and hip hop and real housewives encourage this idea and this behaviour make it seem like everyone is doing it.

Emil_1996 · 2022-04-07T09:26:44+00:00

Yeah Kevin Samuels is an immature boy in a man's body who puts on a posh character.

Seriously, if you ever cheat, you're not a man, you are a boy.

If you can't keep your fucking dick in your pants, man what the fuck?

If you cheat, basically what you are saying is that what is most worth it to you, is just having sex.

What happened to building your empire with your spouse? That to me is more exciting than fucking lots of random broads on the side.

He is fucked in the head, extremely fucked in the head.

When you're in a relationship/marriage you are exclusive, PERIOD.

You don't get to cheat ever.

The moment you cheat your man card is revoked, you're then just a pathetic little boy who couldn't resist his urges and who has no values in life.

No respect for people who cheat, no matter their value.

Title	Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to Cheat
Author	Wrapping_Your_OOF
Upvotes	44
Comments	44
Date	January 10, 2022 9:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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