Ah yes, open relashionships

superderpina_ · 2021-04-28T16:28:17+00:00

Last commenter has got a point though: play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-04-28T16:26:13+00:00

Fucking mess.

Hugest nope ever.

How much do you bet that if he got his open relationship partner pregnant and she wanted to keep it, that he would be begging her to stay??

aclick1999 · 2021-04-28T16:35:03+00:00

Terrible. He obviously doesn't love her (open relationship ick), and she needs to ovary up and either decide to raise the child alone, or get an abortion and move on without him. But neither scenario should involve this nasty useless man.

I'm not mad at the advice given to him. Him blowing dodge is win for this woman who will have an opportunity to fix her life and get therapy. Better than staying with a nasty, disgraceful, resentful prick.

However...dating 10 years? Living together wasn't mentioned...there might be some legal implications to separating they should both be aware of.

Baekseoulhui · 2021-04-28T16:35:40+00:00

I can never get behind open relationships. I have never seen one end well no matter how many times i hear "its consentual and we are on the same page!"..... Are you tho??? Like..... Really. If you wanna date multiple people you do you. But youre not in a relationship at that point....

radsera99 · 2021-04-28T16:47:25+00:00

Open relationships but only if it benefits me.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-04-28T16:59:57+00:00

If the baby’s not born yet, how do they know it’s not his? I know there are DNA blood tests you can get before the baby is born, but they’re super expensive and I doubt they got one. Due dates aren’t perfect, so there’s a chance that this scrote is abandoning his own kid.

With all that being said, the last comment was right. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Who tf would bring an innocent baby into their BS open relationship? Libfem pick me culture has done a number on the way people view relationships 😖

Golden_Lavender · 2021-04-28T16:50:24+00:00

Honestly she walked right into that one and either option he takes is gonna have a shit ending cause they both made a shit decision.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-04-28T16:43:38+00:00

She’s probably keeping the kid because it’s the one way to get any kind of normal family life situation after wasting her own time for 10 years in this awful garbage dump of a “relationship”. Love how all the misogynistic scrotes assume it can’t be his kid though, when it’s just as likely to be his as another man’s.

Fitncurly · 2021-04-28T17:08:05+00:00

See folks, they wanna play porn with their pornsick minds but when it gets real because life ain’t a twisted fantasy, they wanna run from the consequences. Say no to men into weird shit.

lunarfulminate · 2021-04-28T16:45:14+00:00

Interesting how it's "if we get pregnant" when it's abstract but "she's pregnant" when it's concrete.

_bethiebabes · 2021-04-28T17:33:51+00:00

was anyone pointing out the obvious truth that this relationship is over no matter what? if he stays, he’ll hate her and the baby and eventually it’ll end anyway. and especially if she gives in and has the abortion “for him” there’s no way they can stay together because she does want the baby. as always, she needs to make her decisions about her future as if he won’t be a part of it

_differentmentality_ · 2021-04-28T17:12:15+00:00

Ngl I don’t get how you can be aware that “””your””” boyfriend is having sex with other people and still manage to be attracted to him. Just the thought of that is repulsive which is why I could never be in an open relationship, it would just k!ll my attraction to my man.

excusemeILY · 2021-04-28T16:41:38+00:00

How can they be so heartless?

AlextheAnalyst · 2021-04-28T18:58:03+00:00

How on earth is that first comment (pic 2) downvoted?? That person is absolutely right - if a man tries to make you choose between him and your child (biologically his or not), HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

(Not that it wasn't already clear that he doesn't love her from the five years of time-wasting followed by five years of time-wasting with extra steps.)

Title	Ah yes, open relashionships
Author	Mcccy
Upvotes	37
Comments	24
Date	April 28, 2021 4:21 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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