Good day ladies,

Do you know what type of attachment style you have? I discovered that I am fearful avoidant.I find attachment theory to be really interesting as it seems to make sense of a lot of chaos per relationships imo.I would reckon women tend to mostly fall into anxious occupied attachment style and men into the dismissive/fearful avoidant type.

The last guy who I dealt with he was dismissive avoidant though he seemed to be secure initially.I had the classic anxious-avoidant trap as he triggered my anxiousness which just created a toxic relationship.I think as ladies it helps to know what attachment style you so you can know what wounds you need to heal per that attachment but most importantly what attachment style is healthier for you per romantic relationship.For example,if you are anxious, avoidants are not the ideal partner for you as they will trigger your wounds unless you are able to move to a secure attachment style.

I find the whole attachment theory to be really interesting and insightful.Ultimately the goal is to be a secure on my end so yea,I have a lot of work and healing to do 😊.