I’m recently single and getting back out there. I know my worth. Im stunning and I’m smart. I’m the prize.
I have a life and it doesn’t revolve around the guy I’m talking to. I have a job, I have friends, I have hobbies, I focus on me. I like talking to guys and texting and all that but it’s not my priority. They seem to EXPECT me to make talking to them constantly my #1 priority. Like we’re talking that day, I say I’m going to a friends house for dinner. I go to the dinner, don’t message him after and the next day I get 3 eye roll emojis? The last text to him read “that’s kind of annoying.” Let me just forget about you. Another time he said “no text back game strong” while I’m hanging out with my family. You think I want to message you over quality time with my family? Fuck outta here. “No text back game strong” like you’re a teenager. Another guy said “wth, all that time on my flight and no response??” Eww. Say this type of shit and I. WILL. NOT. REPLY.
What really got me was when I asked a guy for a favor, it was something that meant I’d be able to see him sooner than planned. He said I’d have to earn it. Umm...excuse the fuck outta me??? I earn you? Hahahaha nope. You do the favor so you can earn me.
I do text...when I have the time and fucking feel like it. I’m not waking up thinking “oh I better send this guy a text, oh I better stop what I’m doing and reply, oh all I think about is whether he’s gonna text me.” It’s like they expect me to sweat them? No, they sweat me....clearly. And i love being wanted and being the prize BUT I do not like having expectations set for me, the rudeness when there’s no response, the possessiveness and neediness. It’s gross and such a turn off when I see this type of reaction. They must be total betas. Like they’re really sitting around just texting and thinking about me? Pathetic. They don’t have their own life and shit to do? Like I said, I’m newly single. They are aware of this. They think I wanna be tied down to someone right now? No. They are play toys and there’s a line of guys jumping at the chance to replace them. I’ll reply when I want them, and they’ll leap at the opportunity. But when I am ready for a relationship, I don’t want someone like that. I don’t even want a fling like that. I want someone that is also busy and focuses on their life, not sitting around waiting for a damn text.
Anyways, I just wanted to bitch. As soon as I see this type of behavior, I cut em off. I immediately lose interest.