Comments on a post discussing about how men have unrealistic and unfair expectations for women. The guy’s comment is EXACTLY the reaction pickmeisha’s crave when they they claim “men have it just as bad!” I’m glad I am past my pickmeisha phase.

ManchurianCantaloupe · 2020-06-20T02:29:37+00:00

Really? Because just about every man I know could go out today and find a stable, committed relationship with a HVW if they wanted to.

The most accomplished, beautiful, intelligent women I know have to try so. fucking. hard. just to find a man that won't treat them like absolute garbage.

The only thing men have a "hard time" doing is finding unlimited casual sex with women who look like supermodels. Boo hoo.

Men should shut the fuck up.

anxiousanxiety_ · 2020-06-20T02:33:57+00:00

How do men have it as bad as women?? Literally women have a list of standards they must reach aka perfect makeup, hairless as a baby's bottom, be slim yet "thicc", etc. Yet men are told they can have their "dad bods", grow untrimmed beards, be hairy af, no skincare, etc. The expectations of women and men aren't even close to the same level, women obv have it way worse :// and don't even get me started on how women get hated for "basic" hobbies or when they like other hobbies that are male dominated they're questioned for it and basically told to prove it with some dumb trivia questions. Total bs.

WeWereOkay · 2020-06-20T06:54:03+00:00

Anytime a dude tells me I’m a keeper I know I did something wrong.

bye-raspberry · 2020-06-20T05:38:10+00:00

Imagine falling over yourself to achieve male attention, the most abundant resource in the world

Sage_Planter · 2020-06-20T04:48:19+00:00

I hope she gets picked! 🤡

Bovvsette · 2020-06-20T07:11:47+00:00

The only things men complain about are teenager and 20 year old supermodels not being interested in their dusty expired and underperforming ballsacks, abuse and depravity not being totally normalized and women not accepting below bare minimum standards and being domestic slaves for peanuts, because women are so sHaLloW and gOlD diGgERs! If the economy doesn't let you be a full-fledged provider, you can High Value in other ways, be handy, crafty, do chores, put some effort into making your woman's life and workload easier and her feeling loved and protected. But no, any effort is too hard for them and everything is woman's fault so she should sacrifice everything and carry the weight of the world alone. The standard bar for men is in hell, yet they still whine and complain. They couldn't handle 5% of what average woman goes through and the standard she's being held to. Tell me more about their ”just as hard” life.

adertina · 2020-06-20T02:26:15+00:00

she’ll turn around, she just needs to discover her worth

bqluoeoedn · 2020-06-20T02:27:36+00:00

Boys definitely have their own set of problems but become men as they work on them in a healthy way. Meanwhile, we ain’t doing that shit no more—2020.

umbralgarden · 2020-06-20T13:37:03+00:00

All the struggles men complain about like their suicide rates and custody battles and war drafts are caused by OTHER MEN and toxic masculinity. They refuse to get therapy or talk to each other about feelings unless it's about how much they hate women. They still want to be manly men and then look jealously on all the "privileges" women have but refuse to become more like us. ?!?

Anonsubordinate · 2020-06-20T12:48:18+00:00

Me too, I'm so glad that phase is over! I used to be such a 'cool girl' and I cringe when I look back at the disrespect I put up with. The guys didn't treat me any better, they just felt more comfortable showing their proverbial asses in front of me.

AyemHerself · 2020-06-20T09:38:37+00:00

She looks young. She'll figure it out later.

xosunnybunn · 2020-06-20T19:54:13+00:00

he's a tosser this one