There's a common brand of pickmeisha - ones that outwardly claim to be feminist and hold their equalness with men as the only thing they have to offer.

I recently got back home with the guy I'm dating after buying a lot of groceries. He lifted all the bags, of course. Didn't have to ask him to do that, he did it of his own accord as he should. He put them down in the hall, and started picking bags up one by one to put them in the kitchen, my room, etc. My housemate barges in and starts lifting bags. I told her to let it be, as my boyfriend will do it. She immediately chastises me and asks "Why? Because he's a man?" and proceeds to struggle with the heavy bag and quickly bring it to the kitchen. I roll my eyes and say, well, it's more so because he's obviously stronger than me and finds this task much easier than we would?

She is the same brand of woman who believes in splitting the bill, isn't like other girls, etc. Anyway, she can continue picking up heavy bags for her boyfriend while also picking up after him constantly, and expending the emotional work that is needed to just be with a dude. Not my problem.