For real though

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2020-12-11T14:15:36+00:00

We aren't the restoration shop or dumping ground for poorly raised men. We have enough on our plates, we don't need to add raising a man child to our list of shit that needs getting done.

PeachPitiless · 2020-12-11T16:26:49+00:00

I'll never forget my girl friends telling me that I shouldn't have dumped this "great guy" because he said something racist. It was a "teachable moment" they said. Lol no ma'am. I'm not teaching a man to not be racist.

C_Haggy · 2020-12-11T15:04:13+00:00

"Date that man who categorically is not the man you want" is some trippy relationship advice. Roughly 3 billion men in the world are the kind of man I don't want. How do I pick which one to date?

Zayelle · 2020-12-11T14:37:08+00:00

Well technically it was even his PARENTS' job. Stop blaming women everytime a man doesn't have his shit together.

lskfjd743 · 2020-12-11T17:18:43+00:00

"teach him to be the man you want" - who is going to leave your ass for another woman who will then reap the benefits of your scrote rehab project????

LadyGrimes · 2020-12-11T14:44:41+00:00

Being a good man should come natural, not be something he has to fucking learn.

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2020-12-11T17:48:56+00:00

This is not "build a boyfriend", they better come preassembled or they will be promptly returned.

localgirlcult · 2020-12-11T18:29:16+00:00

No, it wasn't just his "momma's" job to raise him. I'm assuming they all have fathers. Or excuse me...dadas? Daddies?

SuitablePerformance3 · 2020-12-11T18:01:46+00:00

No should of been his daddy's job. But all these losers have daddy issues because they're dad's are just as scum as they are.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-12-11T19:14:50+00:00

Men - “boys need to grow up with a male role model so they can learn to be a man”

Also men - “I shouldn’t be responsible for that kid if she won’t have an abortion like I demand. Women are trying to oppress me!”

Also also men - “it’s the woman’s fault that she’s a single parent, she should have magically known that the guy lying to her was going to bounce and be a shitty dad”

No accountability anywhere

Squidwrd_Tortellini · 2020-12-11T20:28:38+00:00

Oh look at that, NO ACCOUNTABILITY FOR FATHERS. where the fuck are the men???? its his mommas job to raise him, and his girlfriends/wifes job to continue raising and teaching him while he's grown??? fuck outta here.

Longjumping_Ad_4167 · 2020-12-11T16:32:05+00:00

People only change if they want to change. You can't change him to be the man you want. It's just wasting your time.

2020-12-11T15:19:44+00:00

Communication is a two way street

2020-12-11T17:24:26+00:00

No thank you, I rather have a cat

seraphinelysion · 2020-12-11T16:03:13+00:00

Sorry, doesn't work that way.

_continental_drift_ · 2020-12-11T15:15:37+00:00

Omg my ex mother in law used to say you have to teach men to treat you how you want to be treated - not surprising why she's my ex mother in law

mashcraft4 · 2020-12-11T21:22:34+00:00

Mom AND DAD's job.

lellanc · 2020-12-11T17:19:58+00:00

do men want to be projects or do they not want to be projects????

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2020-12-11T21:37:33+00:00

They never change

Swoleunicorn · 2020-12-12T05:39:15+00:00

It shouldn't even be just his parent's job to teach him to be a man. Even if his parents didn't teach him he needs to teach HIMSELF to be a man.

pinkcloudzzz · 2020-12-12T06:28:20+00:00

And his father’s

Title	For real though
Author	CreativeInitial2
Upvotes	679
Comments	22
Date	December 11, 2020 1:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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