Self-Described Incel Is Upset At Male Beauty Standards Despite Men Being The Creator

I want to preface this by saying that this is a pro-cosmetic procedure discussion and talks about obtaining beauty without catering to men.

Intention is behind everything. Why we mentally, emotionally and physically blossom. This sub gives us armour and insight so that we can grow to understand ourselves and the respect and compassion we deserve from others. So that we may become bold and brilliant HVW.

I don’t see a lot of talk on physically levelling up, with is VERY understandable. For one, what is considered beautiful is so coloured by the male eye AND women are told that it is vain to care about their looks, or to even change how they look.

I will say this once, IT IS NOT VAIN TO PHYSICALLY LEVEL UP AND YOU CAN PHYSICALLY LEVEL UP WITHOUT CATERING TO MEN.

The importance in the intention is to level up so that you feel happy and content and beautiful with yourself. Physically, the place you feel beautiful is solely for you to decide, society’s standards be damned.

Now, onto my main point of this post.

I can confidently say that all of us ladies here are introspective. We are actively taking the time to read, learn, digest media and seek education that caters to our perspective or goes against it, so that we can be challenged and supported into growing and levelling up.

I and my friends have all attended some form of therapy, the gym, the library, doctors and more to do so. We are becoming more confident in our emotions and mentality and we are learning where we hold ourselves back and where we flourish. We are levelling up so that we can be comfortable accepting what we deserve and taking up space in this world as we rightfully can.

For so long, I would go through days where I would either feel like beauty was all I had (because I wasn’t intelligent enough or funny enough or SOMETHING enough), or I would feel like I was everything but beautiful which meant I was then nothing. I have put work into overcoming this. I am intelligent and hilarious and so clever and quick with my responses, I’m deeply caring and charming and my parents have taught me all the ambition and humility one can have. I love who I am. I am also and always was pretty.

But it was difficult wanting to be pretty and prettier without placing such importance on beauty, and seeking beauty without catering to men and without feeling like I was letting my fellow feminist sisters down.

What made this easy for me was my pansexuality and realising that despite not once finding beauty in myself, I often found others of amazing physical variety very attractive. So I decided to look at myself the way I looked at others and I began to fall in love with myself. It suddenly became easy for me to compliment myself and before I knew it, I was flattering myself.

I was able to restart my exercises in a new light. I wasn’t going to focus on my arse for some LVM, I wanted to be strong and quick like an Amazon. I felt self-love when eating healthier because I knew I was doing it for my own nourishment. Buying expensive shampoo and conditioner felt amazing and well-deserved. Saving up for procedures so that I could enhance the features I already love so much is freeing because I’m not trying to be anyone else anymore.

I am a HVW and I am capable of this.

And here we have a self-described incel blaming women for standards that men themselves have created. Crying to me goo goo ga ga jumby wumby fumby and having the audacity to ask me to delete my previous post! 😂

Men decided for other men that it was attractive to be strong and tall and macho, because that’s a “real man.”

This isn’t a guide to men on how they can level up, they are capable of picking up a book or googling an aesthetician. This is more of a PSA. Men can improve their appearance. They can improve their mentality and emotionality and physicality (although I think we all know here how male-loving men are, so everything they do is likely for other men).

The fact is, men have gone to the moon. I am certain they can muster up the initiative to physically enhance themselves if they really wanted instead of complaining and blaming women for their downfalls.

So dear incel, I will not delete my post to coddle you. Stop being so emotional, calm down, get over it. And if you truly wanted to, work on yourself.