Fuckboys and value

hoIds_up_spork · 2019-12-05T04:04:53+00:00

being a fuckboy is the opposite of high value......

soxychamp · 2019-12-05T05:32:19+00:00

TIL most people think high value means money, job and looks.

No it’s not. It’s not about appearances, it’s about character, and you can only suss that out by seeing the man in different environments, facing different situations. You can’t know if somebody is high value in two or three dates.

PlatyupsCommittee · 2019-12-05T04:45:01+00:00

This is a complicated one...

But what I feel pretty sure of based on my observations and what I've experienced in my own life:

It's actually possible for a man to be an excellent partner even if, in the past, he simply wanted to just have sex with many women. However, the very moment he meets a woman he takes seriously, his fuckboy days are OVER. Like the flip of a switch. He never looks at another woman again.

This process does not take time. It's not a thing where you sleep with him or date him hoping he falls in love. No. He's either dedicated to you immediately or he never will be. (Note: Respect is also profoundly important. A man who seems dedicated to you immediately but who pushes you too fast is an abuser. You want one who's dedicated immediately while recognizing that taking it slow is still important, and who never pushes you on anything in any way. True dedication includes patience.)

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-12-05T05:18:37+00:00

Someone on FDS recently posted an AMAZING breakdown of what constitutes a high value man. I thought it was dead on. Here’s the link:

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e2gjzi/the_characteristics_of_a_high_value_man/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2019-12-05T16:38:07+00:00

This is a garbage stereotype pushed by TRP losers and ugleoids. This "dating advice" is authored by men, for the exclusive benefit of men. It's goal is to make more women swipe left on handsome, successful men, and swipe right on ugleoids, incels, unemployeds, and losers.

It's NOT true. There are fuckboys at all attractiveness categories. Fuckboys are nothing more than men who want only sex. Your job as a woman is to swipe left, and block them. Not every handsome, successful man is a fuckboy but incels are very invested in destroying "chad" so there's a mass push of "dating advice" out there that's sold to women which tells them to settle for uglier men. :/ this advice only works to the benefit of getting as many ugly men laid as possible.

Besides. Most of the women reading this have given ugly men a chance. I WILL BE THE FIRST TO TELL YOU THAT AN UNEMPLOYED MAN HAS MORE TIME TO CHEAT ON YOU THAN AN EMPLOYED ONE, AND IT HAPPENS. They'll cheat on you the same and sleep around on you the same. ALL MEN WOULD BE FUCKBOYS IF THEY COULD, IF GIVEN A CHANCE.

Don't let that get you down. Simply block him and move on. Or swipe left when you see it to begin with.

AdonisBelter · 2019-12-05T15:27:27+00:00

Being a fuckboi makes him low value.

Title	Fuckboys and value
Author	lauralurk
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	December 5, 2019 3:53 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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