“Guys make better friends” 🙄

Sage_Planter · 2020-11-30T17:19:20+00:00

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needsmoresilk · 2020-11-30T18:49:17+00:00

Women have rich, colorful internal lives. Most men are socialized to have disagreeable / violent personalities (but this is lauded by society). Take away the violence and rage and you are left with ... nothing.

2020-11-30T19:18:12+00:00

"men are less drama" Men: goes into screaming fits over losing a game, starts fights over sports, attempts femicide over rejection, starts actual wars.

dollymyfolly · 2020-11-30T19:27:51+00:00

Men are less drama? This sub is only women and it’s the most supportive and open place I’ve posted in on reddit. It’s like this because men aren’t allowed. 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

entpgirl415 · 2020-11-30T18:27:42+00:00

They can only be mad, so they stay mad. 🤣💀

localgirlcult · 2020-11-30T20:36:42+00:00

I KNOW many men fear deviating from what other guys say because I've heard stories from women about guys who were ashamed of them and wouldn't bring them around their friends even if they were attracted to them. Because they didn't want the "friends" to make fun of them since the woman deviates in some way from what the gaggle of LVMs say is attractive in terms of looks, style or whatever. Sad.

Now, about the drama thing. I have known it to be absolute bullshit since I was a child because my father works with all men. They are all on the phone to each other all day, gossiping about each other and overdramatizing small things just to have something to talk about.

Helpful_Stock · 2020-11-30T21:04:21+00:00

They aren't less drama. The worst place I've ever worked at was a place with all males, I was the only female. There was constant ego trips, arguing about petty things, if someone had a problem they would talk behind their back instead of confronting them and working through it like adults. Never mind the perverted discussions I was subjected to. I once brought it up to them that it was disgusting the way they talk about woman and they hit me with the "you're working with men, that's what we do, if you don't like it then leave"

romantickitty · 2020-11-30T20:51:29+00:00

I don't think I've had good guy friends who weren't gay. I've had a lot of male acquaintances who I've had pleasant interactions with. But there was no depth to our relationships. We didn't talk about anything compelling or meet each other's emotional needs. And I just hung around other male "friends" in my young pickme days hoping one of them would ask me out. I wouldn't consider any of that real friendship. It did give me a lot of practice in coaxing boring guys into having a conversation which turns out to be a useful life skill.

KateJ1982 · 2020-12-01T00:28:42+00:00

Women's drama = expecting respect, kindness, basic decency.

Men's drama = porn induced sex problems, filth, laziness, violence.

VanessaViews · 2020-12-01T01:22:03+00:00

Guys aren't less drama. They just don't hold each other accountable for their shitty behaviors. Guys have no problem staying friends with rapist cheaters and abusers.

cicerii · 2020-12-01T06:44:19+00:00

Men watch their behavior around other men because they know that physical repercussions happen if they don't. They don't have these type of consequences when it comes to women.

LeyMio · 2020-12-01T14:13:17+00:00

Why does this society insist on telling obvious lies? I have only seen much more drama caused by guys. Guys are so emotionally unstable and self-conscious that they become hateful over the dumbest tiny things. Whenever a guy's feeling is hurt, they want to bring other people down to their own level of misery.

lvoncreek · 2020-12-03T18:18:27+00:00

Most men I know are terrible at holding interesting conversations. Earlier I thought it was because they dont do that with women (because women=sex in their eyes) thats why I couldnt talk to them properly. Ive realized since then that their convos and topics with other men are also very boring and one dimensional. Its like hehe Id fuck that bitch hehe your momma hoe hehe playstation

About the drama: they are dramatic but not the same way as women are. They are more violent and they randomly compete with each other over the most insignificant things because of their very fragile masculinity.

2020-12-01T16:41:53+00:00

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Some-King-3636 · 2020-12-02T00:35:14+00:00

Males are more jealous and talk more shit behind each other’s back than women do... surely I can’t be the only one that’s noticed that everything they hate about women is a reflection of what they hate about themselves right? Backstabbing, jealousy, cattiness etc.

Title	“Guys make better friends” 🙄
Author	Bluemonroe26
Upvotes	447
Comments	27
Date	November 30, 2020 5:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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