I Don’t Know Wether To Laugh Or Cry. Article Says “Why Dating Is Better For Everyone When Women Make the First Move”. So Much Nope!

volcanic_equation · 2021-03-06T04:12:53+00:00

By “Everyone”, they mean men. It’ll be better for men.

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-06T04:36:40+00:00

Anytime dating is described in positive terms, it means the lowest effort, weakest-willed men are benefitting. I don’t endorse anything that benefits them. Dating is exhausting, degrading, demoralizing, and dangerous for women. It is not the least bit enjoyable if you actually want marriage.

EarthKveik · 2021-03-06T08:06:08+00:00

Should be titled "How to get used as a sentient fleshlight"

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-06T11:07:06+00:00

The entire dating advice/coaching industry relies on convincing the collective of straight women that we need to eliminate our standards and make things as easy as possible for men. And if men hurt us, it’s always our fault. Dating advice is usually predatory and anti-woman. Why get a real job when you can set up a blog or webcam and solicit women who have survived sexual assault, domestic violence, and emotional abuse to pay you to shit on them for simply trying to find a man who will love them, while attempting to protect themselves from being abused again? None of these people are trained psychologists or sociologists. Just communications majors in button up shirts and blazers. I cannot wait until that bubble bursts like real estate in 2009.

Weekly-Choice8407 · 2021-03-06T05:19:02+00:00

One more thing they can expect from us...and can blame on us when it doesn’t get done

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-06T04:52:06+00:00

Eeeeeewwwwww

MrsJohnMarston__ · 2021-03-06T08:47:19+00:00

Yeah... Nah.

So my fiancé and father of my beautiful daughter, asked me out first. It just doesn’t happen the other way around.

shockingupdate · 2021-03-06T04:22:44+00:00

Okay so, question. I understand why it’s a good idea to let men initiate planning dates, but what’s so bad about us making the first move? I’ve found that I get more attractive, interesting dates when I suss them out myself, and they tend to be perfectly happy being alone, while the dudes who approach me are often desperate, lonely, and not my type physically. Plus, I can insist on them planning on the first date whether I initiate contact or not, and if they’re low-effort/interest/value I can just walk away. Could just be my inner pickme talking, thanks in advance for the insight.

Kristeninmyskin · 2021-03-09T16:27:58+00:00

Do you all realize how many woman’s magazines are out there spewing crappy dating advice? You don’t see any men’s magazines out there with articles like “The fastest way to her heart!”

If they did, they would be called “Shortcuts to her pants”

Title	I Don’t Know Wether To Laugh Or Cry. Article Says “Why Dating Is Better For Everyone When Women Make the First Move”. So Much Nope!
Author	Twolipz_78
Upvotes	177
Comments	23
Date	March 6, 2021 4:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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