In need of solid advice ladies

dior-not-war · 2020-09-03T14:30:32+00:00

Please tell me this is a joke. This man is an abusive rapist. And a predator. He purposely targeted you because you’re young and he thought you’d be easy to manipulate. Please get yourself and the baby out of there. Do you have any family or friends you can stay with?

NetfluxAndDistill · 2020-09-03T14:36:10+00:00

Girl. Please reread through your list of cons.

This “man” forced himself on you while you were intoxicated as your first sexual encounter. He doesn’t respect you or your boundaries in the bedroom, or in general. He talks to other women and clearly doesn’t respect or honor them with his language.

This person does not deserve you, your time, or your precious child. Think about if this is really the type of person you want to help raise your child. Do you want this to be their father figure?

My advice? Get out and leave the NVM for good. No amount of money or laughs is worth the mental and emotional abuse you’re going through. We’re here for you and will support you through it!

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-09-03T14:41:35+00:00

This has to be another troll attempt.

Why...are you here?

purrlikabaws · 2020-09-03T14:28:54+00:00

Girl, what? I'm so sorry that you've been through this. This is absolutely awful but to put it plainly you've been raped, abused and used and you're still sticking with him? Why? Since day 3 he has disrespected you, from that day on that should be the last time you see him... He is using you only for his pleasure and to sum it up, you're his sex slave. Theres just so much going on here. I think you need to seek a professional, theres a blatant cry for help here.

2020-09-03T14:47:55+00:00

> I'm 20 years old, married with a man 30 years my senior

That alone is a huge red flag. Old scrotes prey on younger women quite often.

I feel bad for saying that since you have a baby already. Only gets worse to see that he also sexually abuses you and emotionally abuses you. It doesn't matter how much money he provides you,there is no price he can pay to get away with abuse. And abusive people often times cycle through "nice" times and "abusive" times to try to confuse you into thinking the abuse isn't abuse even though it is.

Getting out of abusive relationships can be difficult. If you need to use a women's shelter, use it. Don't announce you are leaving because abusive people will show their really ugly side when they feel that you are going to get away.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-09-03T15:15:41+00:00

Sorry but this feels really off, troll?

alichuchu · 2020-09-03T14:45:33+00:00

He raped!! you, and constantly pushes your boundaries. Also, the age gap between you two is alarming. He will NOT change over next few years for anything, not for you, not with therapy, nothing. He’s a rapist, a predator and a cheater. It’s going to be like this for the rest of the marriage. That is why you should listen to what everyone is telling you here, and LEAVE. Take the baby and leave.

Cautionary_Legend · 2020-09-03T14:40:13+00:00

Secretly make a solid plan to leave. In any way possible. I've seen this before and I know how this will go in the future... because he would marry a girl straight out of childhood and keep her.... don't leave him alone with that child ever. He's a groomer and he's waiting to hurt that baby when he gets a chance.

Merryprankstress · 2020-09-03T20:09:16+00:00

Yeah this member has only been active for one day, this is a troll.

Icchy24 · 2020-09-03T15:17:42+00:00

i'm 20 years old, married with a man 30 years my senior and we have a 3 month old baby.

I only skimmed after this part. Girl..no, just no. There could be nothing positive about a relationship that started like this other than "he occasionally gives me the bare minimum"

hongkonghenry · 2020-09-03T18:38:28+00:00

If you're not a troll, this man should be in jail for raping you.

FireflySky86 · 2020-09-03T18:10:59+00:00

You're his kept pet in a gilded cage, a breeder, and sex toy. He groomed you, raped you, continues to rape you/ assault you sexually, and will trade you in for a younger and dumber model when he's worn you out (with the same care and consideration of a dirty gym sock).

Listen to your gut and heart. You're not happy, you shouldn't settle for this just because he offers you "security." You do not owe him sexual favors and it's disgusting that he acts as if he's entitled to your body like that.

Title	In need of solid advice ladies
Author	Celesteisme
Upvotes	0
Comments	22
Date	September 3, 2020 8:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ilpq8r/in_need_of_solid_advice_ladies/
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