It's not complicated; it's simple

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-07-19T21:56:36+00:00

Did this before with one of my girlfriends. We both got dressed up for the heck of it and both bought expensive dinners and went shopping for makeup bags later. I even offered to pick her up- and she’s my friend. If a man can’t get it, he just thinks too high of himself

talldrankofH2O · 2020-07-19T21:46:30+00:00

Exactly. I don’t even bother responding to men who ask to “hang out”, it almost always is code for mediocre 5 minute hookup

temptressinateacup · 2020-07-19T21:07:57+00:00

If he wanted to he would. I’m not a fan of post like these that tell men how they should act it just makes it easier for LVM to hide.

pumpkin-escobarrr · 2020-07-20T05:53:09+00:00

This was all i wanted from the last LVM i fell for. For our first date, he initiated with asking when we were going to finally meet because he was excited to meet me and I was excited too. When i asked what he had planned, he answered with: “I don’t know, what do you want to do beautiful?”.

Me being a pick me back then, ended up setting a date, time and venue. Should have walked away when i realised he couldn’t put in the bare minimum. It all went to shit after that. All he could organise was last minute hang outs at his place and he flaked on me numerous times 🙄🙄

lowfattitties · 2020-07-20T03:17:39+00:00

Just had some guy that asked for my number yesterday text me this:

Him: Hey OP hope you having a wonderful day I know it’s late but I grabbed too much Ashley’s barbecue about to eat dinner

Me: Thanks I did. No thank you. I don’t do invitations that aren’t planned ahead. Hope the dinner was good.

Him: It was fantastic and of course I understand hopefully one day though You have a good night ttyl

😂😂 I could tell he’s to insecure to ask me straightforward or he wanted a ego stroke where I said something as if it was my plan. He could have used that opportunity to ask me what my schedule was like next week but he backed out. I think I hurt his fee fees 🤭 oh well. If you can’t come correct don’t come at all. In the past I was such a naive pickmiesha that I would have gladly accepted, even if he wanted me to come over. I’m really excited FDS is teaching me to spot LVM, games, and having more self respect. Edit: sent me a love bomb message this morning. I’ve had one short convo with this guy. Definitely not gonna waste my time.

warinmymind94 · 2020-07-20T11:49:30+00:00

Pickmes will think this is excessive. FDS knows this is the bare minimum. I wont "meet up" with a guy unless he does all these things. It needs to be all these things to be a date! Do not accept meetups/hangouts or fall for the why would I take you to dinner when I dont even know if I really like you (aka I dont want to invest money into you, I'm not into you enough /looking for a free prostitute)

sisterofnarcissus · 2020-07-20T06:29:19+00:00

I only would restrain from calling somebody’s friends stupid. Just for the sake of it. Classy women don’t really call names.

CassieGreen85 · 2020-07-19T22:05:46+00:00

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NotInEngSci · 2020-07-20T02:02:45+00:00

Well it's apparently complicated to count to 4

lowfattitties · 2020-07-24T16:46:45+00:00

Omg! I’m having such a hard time finding black men to date. They all act like this. Smh. I just wanna date in my own race for once 😩

throwaway23004345 · 2020-07-19T21:17:38+00:00

Chile.... in this day in age it’s called a hang out

Why is this getting down voted. I am saying men these days ain’t shit and don’t know how to court women

Title	It's not complicated; it's simple
Author	CreativeInitial2
Upvotes	645
Comments	28
Date	July 19, 2020 8:46 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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