I've most definitely learned this the hard way. Lowering your standards will cause you to lose respect for yourself in the long run, and it will never be enough for LVM. What is one dating standard you won't compromise on?

ShoshannaDreyfus · 2020-12-11T23:29:43+00:00

God there are so many lol. One I believe strongly in is I will never date someone who watches porn. Whenever I say this men tell me I am never gonna find a man like that. OK guess I'll just stay single then 🤣 idk why they think I NEED a man to live

man-in-trash · 2020-12-12T00:50:35+00:00

Personal hygiene. If a grown man doesn’t know how to clean himself, I’m sure as hell not going near him and I’m certainly not going to teach him how to wash his ass and brush his teeth. So many men can’t take care of this one simple, daily part of life.

2020-12-12T00:55:29+00:00

No abuse in any way, shape, or form.

No cigarettes. Not really into alcohol but doesn’t mind a drink once in awhile. Healthy (mentally and physically) and healthy for me (mentally and physically). He pays for everything and actually plans things. Showing me that I matter is pretty much the only way to keep me. Intellectually stimulating and more interesting than I find myself to be. No kids.

daisyinflux · 2020-12-12T01:03:42+00:00

That I’m not DOUBTING myself with him. If I feel insecure or confused, and I try to clarify, I actually feel grounded again, not just as confused and uncertain.

GlitterBrand · 2020-12-12T01:47:17+00:00

Men who get into "open relationships".

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-12T00:58:17+00:00

No abuse whatsoever, personal hygiene, a positive and thankful outlook on life and he has to be generous.

spicyspa · 2020-12-12T02:32:07+00:00

Yes if you love yourself more then wanting to be with any guy you will always be happy.

miss_peach94 · 2020-12-12T13:21:05+00:00

If they smoke pot its a dealbreaker for me. Pot turns them into nonchalant zombies.. They must also keep a spotlessly clean home

Peak_Tree · 2020-12-12T16:46:31+00:00

If he doesn't make me come he's got to go. This ridiculousness of many women "BuT i EnJoY tHe InTiMaCy" has always been foreign to me. I literally can't bond with a man through sex If I'm not orgasming, I see him not making an effort to make me come as him not respecting me.

EarthKveik · 2020-12-12T18:56:36+00:00

He's kind, fair minded and trustworthy. Looking for someone who will be a partner to him.
Porn addiction. Get that to fuck. If he's not disgusted by an industry that's openly trafficking and abusing women and children then there is something wrong with him.
He's monogamous, and isn't waiting to surprise me with a laundry list of "kinks".
He's aged 25-35. I might consider someone aged 35-38, but he'll not be older than me.
He has an income and a home he keeps clean.
Decent self care skills. Capable of staying in shape.
Decent mental acuity and a good grip on reality. He may or may not be academic, but he's got some interests/hobbies, can carry a conversation and isn't into conspiracy theories or religion.
Decent social skills.
No consumer debt. If it's not a mortgage, a loan for an essential vehicle or part of a business plan he shouldn't be taking it on.
No addicts, including tobacco and alcohol. Enjoy a drink from time to time? Great. Alcoholic? Get all the way to fuck.

imstealingcandy · 2020-12-12T00:37:00+00:00

No dating men with mental health issues, would make me feel like I don't even know the person.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-12-12T07:35:12+00:00

I absolutely cannot compromise on my income requirements. I absolutely can NEVER date a man making below $150k and have dated men who make $200k+ exclusively for the past 2 years.

This is the hill I’m going to die on.

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