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Just a reminder ladies 😘

AppointmentOver1657 · 2021-01-16T14:31:41+00:00

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January 16, 2021

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Title	Just a reminder ladies 😘
Author	AppointmentOver1657
Upvotes	358
Comments	27
Date	January 16, 2021 2:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kyjwgg/just_a_reminder_ladies/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/just-a-reminder-ladies.748210 https://theredarchive.com/post/748210

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if you want to achieve it with Minimal Styling Efforts, then it starts with getting the right cut of face-framing layers for your hair type and face shape.

if you have a cut that will support it already, I'd say the best option is to get a round-brush and blow-dryer all-in-one tools. Revlon's is really popular.

After you get out of the shower, get some of the excess moisture out and comb some heat protectant spray through your hair, focusing on the ends not the roots. Don't focus product on your crown / roots, let it stay light on top of your hair since your hair is straight.

Then take your hair in sections. I like to start by putting most of my hair in a bun on the very top of my head, and letting down hair layer-by-layer to blow dry. Focus on drying the roots first, and don't use the highest setting of blowdry / heat on the ends of your hair if you can avoid it. Work layer by layer, section by section.

technique: ROOTS:

you know in the little mermaid when ariel brushes her hair with a fork? You're channelling ariel right now. Brush through the sections from underneath, allowing the root to dry while free from your scalp. Find any sections or layers and lift with the round brush. You're not styling yet, you're preparing! If you have a cowlick near your temple that always bends out like a bizarre devil's horn? Take your round blow dryer brush and brush it through that cowlick in its opposite direction. Push that hair root around with the heated round brush to disrupt it from drying in its preferred pattern. This will take some experimenting to find out what direction you need to blow dry which hair roots to get the effect you want at the end. I like having roots that I can run my hands through and flop my curls around to different sides of my head. The lady in the tik tok doesn't have that much movement so she's probably got hair spray and a regular part she prefers to keep. By getting a lot of air and movement in the roots, it gives it that more liquid quality up top that feels free-er to me but ymmv :)

technique: CURLS:

so once your roots are all dealt with, your ends will be a little heavier than the light hair underneath. While they are heavier, you can play with a few tendrils to see how you'd like them to curl. I will often at this stage stand at the sink and wet my hands, scrunch my curl from the bottom to give it a bit of encouragement.

There are a few ways to get curls to be consistent with each other at this point. How I do it is twist my hair into a loose bun, or two loose buns (one for each side of the head, twisted in opposite ways so they both flare away from the face) and pin those buns on the top of my head, and go to sleep. Because I have wavy hair naturally, this encourages the hair to wave / curl in that general pattern and will dry throughout the morning into a pleasantly bouncy curl. It doesn't require as much heat so it's a sustainable way to curl. If your hair is reallly realllllly pin straight, you could invest in either some big curlers to leave in and pin in your hair, or find DIY alternatives if $ is an issue. (TP rolls cut up, wrapping hair around a pen / pencil).

If those low heat options just don't cut it, then you can take the round brush / blowdryer to the ends of your hair and angle it away from your head to get a flared-out-from-face curl. The lady in the tik tok definitely looks like she took a high heat curling iron with hair spray to set it, because I see the curls on the top layer near her face are very silky and have defined edges from the rest of the hair. That is like a next-level finishing touch, and I would only do it if I knew I wasn't taking away from my hair's long-term health by applying that high heat. Is the moment worth it? is the man worth it?

Takes some practice but those are how I'd try to get the look!

idk why I just went so deep on this, maybe bc it took me so long to figure it out on my own (like a decade+) so might be helpful to share. But I also enjoyed trying to describe stuff while sipping my morning tea. :)

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