We’re conditioned from childhood to ignore our gut feelings and instead be nice, polite, and pleasant, especially to strange men. Fuck that shit. Our instincts have kept our species alive for thousands of years because our ancestors listened when the hair on the back of their necks stood up.

If you get bad vibes, block and delete. You don’t need concrete proof to justify your feelings. Despite what many LVM want you to believe, your vagina is not an equal opportunity employer and you can deny anyone and everyone entry at your discretion.

Cautionary tale time: I was “friends” with a man who gave me bad vibes, but I thought I was being shallow because frankly, he was hideous. He was so nice and funny, so I must be a bitch for feeling uncomfortable right? WRONG!!! That piece of shit tried to rape me as soon as he had me in a vulnerable position. Looking back, all he wanted was to have sex with me and our entire “friendship” was him manipulating me and me feeling too polite to call him out. I’ve never ignored my instincts since.

Listen to your guts, ladies! You are too valuable, worthy, and awesome to put yourself at risk for the sake of “manners.”