ME: Systematically explains and provides several examples of the male bias, double standards, and misogyny on r/DatingOverThirty that results in poor advice for women (and sends them running to FDS)......r/DOT MODS: wHy aRe yOu a VeSsEl for HaTe? 🤦‍♀️

fdsthrowaway · 2019-12-31T22:41:49+00:00

Accusing a woman with a valid complaint as “evil”, “filled with hate” or “bitter” is standard Reddit BS. A go-to phrase that means absolutely nothing and only projects the sayer’s insecurities onto the woman.

Whenever someone doesn’t have a logical comeback I’m accused of being “hate-filled” LOL.

sweatydeath · 2020-01-01T00:35:42+00:00

That mod’s response is EXACTLY why this sub exists. Thanks for the misogyny r/DatingOverThirty mods! You made me come here when I was looking for a worthy dating subreddit, and your poor quality advice made me frequent this place so much that I eventually became a mod here. No, post nut clarity is not an excuse to treat women like garbage after getting what you want. Yes, women should be mad when men use the carrot on the stick strategy to get them into bed.

You won’t get banned on r/DatingOverThirty if you very obviously use women and promote your male self-interest, but you WILL be banned if you are a woman that’s willing to stand up for herself with logic at her side.

jetpatch · 2019-12-31T22:12:52+00:00

Add "hate" to the list of words which are now completely meaningless.

Men telling women they "hate" is now the same thing as men calling women who won't sleep with them "sluts".

And to think I knew so many people in my teenage years who wouldn't ever use the word hate "because it's such a strong word."

turquoiseblues · 2020-01-01T05:42:34+00:00

I left r/DatingOverThirty because a mod (male, of course), gave me an obnoxious "warning" for "misandry." Here's what I'd commented:

Post-nut clarity = post-nut misogyny

I love how being blatant about misogyny equates to "misandry." 🙄

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-31T21:29:28+00:00

These people are brain dead. This is what happens when you let men be "feminists", they bring their manipulative dick priorities to everything and mess with women's heads.

2020-01-01T01:25:43+00:00

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SextMex · 2020-01-01T08:33:35+00:00

I literally found this sub because people on DOT were saying how fucked up it was here. Morbidly curious, I came here, sorted by top/all time, and found myself agreeing with everything.

I posted on there once with a kind of "isn't it crazy how low the bar is set that common human decency and communication is A TREAT?" and got responses that were insane projecting (seriously filled with false details that were never in the OP...) and wildly bitter "no you're reading it wrong you're actually probably a clingy/annoying woman and this is a red flag and maybe you shouldn't be dating at all." Yes. A person does something that should be standard (communicate their boundaries and respect mine) and they somehow twisted it into me being some unstable red flag waving crazy person.

Thanks DOT, you shit subreddit. Bye.

hoIds_up_spork · 2019-12-31T21:25:28+00:00

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dackaroo · 2020-01-01T01:02:21+00:00

Lol. FDS queen attitude is the ONLY path to happiness as a woman in this world.

effinmetal · 2020-01-01T16:48:22+00:00

I watched the mods get uppity over a woman calling a guy a fuckboy. So fragile.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-01-02T02:15:40+00:00

Reinforces the fact that most of the "dating advice" on reddit is really written by men, for the exclusive benefit of men, and anything that benefits women will be removed, censored, and will get you banned. Questioning male depravity or coming to the defense of a woman who is in the crosshairs of a misogynistic social media platform will also get you downvoted, banned, and will get your posts removed :/.

I've been banned from so many subs for similar reasons, that whenever I go to comment on something, I always type " . " and hit enter. If it posts, then I'm not banned, otherwise, I don't waste time on my phone typing out an elaborate comment only to get that "sorry something went wrong" error they give you when you're banned instead of removing your option to comment in the first place :/

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