More antecdotal proof that men prioritize physical type over anything else, even if they don't know it. Don't waste your time if you're not his physical type.

nonpenishaver · 2020-04-01T18:34:28+00:00

If you're not his ideal type physically he may settle for you for a while, but in the back of his mind he's holding out for his dream woman.

rainbowshummingbird · 2020-04-01T19:07:57+00:00

Every man, regardless of his looks, believes that he deserves a beauty queen.

gursky0 · 2020-04-01T19:09:52+00:00

This is one of the many reasons we don't approach men.

JasmineDragon110 · 2020-04-01T20:17:17+00:00

So what do you do if he tells you you're his type and pretends to be really into you and crazy about you only to reveal afterwards that he wants the opposite of you. Males will say WHATEVER YOU WANT TO HEAR to manipulate and deceive you into fucking. I DONT KNOW WHATS REAL COMING OUT OF THEIR MOUTH ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW WHAT REAL GENUINE INTEREST IS ANYMORE.

ItsFreezen · 2020-04-01T20:27:22+00:00

Plenty of men are married to women or have a forever girlfriend who aren't there type. Just a place holder waiting for there dream girl to appear. Yikes.

grimreapersdtr · 2020-04-01T22:01:15+00:00

As a blonde woman, I have an extremely deep sense of cringe when I see fetishization of blond women. I also find it bizarre that men frequently assume all blondes have blue eyes.

Whenever I encounter a man who fetishizes blue eyed blondes, I immediately know he has a hardcore fascist streak going on. There’s also an element within men like this that indicate they like to infantilize women— since blond hair and blue eyes is common among young children who’s ancestors come from certain parts of the world.

GlamorKiss · 2020-04-01T20:57:46+00:00

This is so true

When men hint that you are not his type then he gaslights you, “But I chose you, even if I look at prettier women” it’s like did you really have that choice though?

And even if he had, don’t let some man tell you that you’re not the prettiest, it’s meant to make you feel less than so you’re always trying to beg for his approval. If he doesn’t always uplift you, forget him

Lily_padd · 2020-04-01T22:22:09+00:00

It's such bullshit though that all these types are high contrast extremes. The average woman is never pointed out as a type. If you have black hair, be pale. If you are blond, have blue eyes. If you are black, be curvy. If you are tall, be skinny. If you are athletic, have short hair. If you have glasses, dye your hair red. If your hair is curly, be amazonian.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-04-02T00:47:47+00:00

An "elongated dancer's torso...?" Wow.

I wonder if he has Thor's elongated torso and rock-hard abs.

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