So i’ve(20) been talking to this guy for two days and he seemed rather normal. I knew him from Highschool and he was a year ahead of me. I spoke to him once or twice in school and he was always funny and really nice, so no problem there. He added me on snapchat and we started talking and asked me out on a date! He said he was going to plan everything and come pick me up, which i thought was great. We continue to talk and I’m growing very unsure of this guy now (he just texted me while i am typing this and i am now VERY unsure)

what he’s been saying: - we were playing 20 questions and i asked him what he thinks his best quality is, he says he’s “ugly” and has no clue then asks me what I think his best quality is. I tell him to be determined because i don’t know him well enough.

  • He says i can come over to his house after we go out to see his puppy, and then says also to meet his family. This is our first date. I feel like that is WAY too soon to meet someones parents. Its a big deal to me so i’d like to meet the parents of someone i’m serious about, not just a first date type thing.

  • He says he needs someone like me in his life. Just being very “oh id never do that to you” and just has a victim mindset. Hes been cheated on so has alot of insecurities i guess, but i do too so its no excuse in my opinion.

  • He told me twice to text him in the morning. i playfully say “maybe ;)”, thinking he was kidding, and he replies with “lol cant wait to be ignored” i reply with “huh?” and he says how “i feel like im going to put effort into this and get ignored or blocked. maybe im just overthinking. i should go to bed. im sorry”

maybe im being crazy and reading too much into it? But then again I don’t want to ignore my gut feeling anymore. Im a recovering Pickme and this is my first post in here so hopefully i can get some insight from you wonderful ladies. Like, he seemed pretty cool and i was open to going on a date with him but i just feel very unsure now. Please help a girl out ❤️