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r/datingoverforty filled with bitter middle aged men as the comments in the post shows. All MEn OvER 40 OnLY DaTE 20 YEaR OLds yOu StOOpid BiTcH!

letsberealforamoment

April 27, 2020
137 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/g924rf/39f_tips_for_balancing_dating_with_a_biological/

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Can you spot the bitter scrotes? HAHAHAHA

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Title r/datingoverforty filled with bitter middle aged men as the comments in the post shows. All MEn OvER 40 OnLY DaTE 20 YEaR OLds yOu StOOpid BiTcH!
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letsberealforamoment

Upvotes 137
Comments 31
Date April 27, 2020 4:15 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g93qmt/rdatingoverforty_filled_with_bitter_middle_aged/
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Comments

[–]mightbethrowawayyyFDS Newbie159 points160 points161 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But women who are 25-35 aren’t gonna date them LMFAO. Just because they are looking for younger women doesn’t mean they’ll get what they look for 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[–]throwmefaraway85FDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao that's what I was thinking reading that 😂 I'm in my late 20s and I know myself and the women I know would not be interested in anyeone in their late 30s or 40+. Reddit is hilarious sometimes.

[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice101 points102 points103 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Its disgusting that the top comment basically told the OP to settle because she isn't going to get everything she wants. Typical male response.

[–]detectivejuiceeFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I hate how some comments tell her she might not understand what it means to be a mom..

[–]bernieorbust2k4everFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yea wtf was that all about lol

[–]detectivejuiceeFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I felt really sad for her :(

[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was so condescending! The guy that said that only had his kids 50% of the time, too!

[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie95 points96 points97 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

" Your dating pool is extremely small. Guys in the age range you specified will date women 25-35. Your best bet is a divorced Dad in his 40’s."

No a males dating pool is extremely small if he follows this advice.

[–]idiosyncrassyPickmeisha™️53 points54 points55 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. A woman's "small" dating pool is still larger than a guy's large one.

[–]MaisiebrFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The comments of men wanting a woman who is the same age and women who say that they are approached by same age/younger men prove them wrong.

[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha that’s why I don’t go on DoT or DoF. It’s like 80% dudes trying to browbeat women into dating the way they would like them to (sex on the third! date so they know you’re interested and splitting the check) and casual sexism is totally fine when directed at women (but not allowed to use the word “fuckboy” anymore because it’s sexist and meeeaan). I’m sure the men pounding a keyboard on Reddit 24/7 are the cream of the over 40 dating crop 🙄

[–]rwilkzFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That and they have some version of the ‘women who care about height are bitches’ argument about once per week. Exhausting.

[–][deleted] 46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The "women over 35 = birth defects" bullshit needs to stop. It's an arbitrary number and it's ancient nonsense.

I don't think I will ever want kids, but if I do, I'll wait until I'm over 40 just to piss people off.

[–]TheGhostProofBlanketFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mom had me at 48 and I'm downright robust, the 35 is a total lowball number

[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And it’s coming from men over 40... so delusional

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Reading those comments makes me realize how important it is to be happy with being alone. When you are desperate and lonely you pick the wrong people.

[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, great point.

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[–]throwahweigh3521FDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Your story is rarely heard in the biological clock narrative. Especially now since the cost of children is beyond expensive- and in general there’s little financial stability and many women will never earn enough to even adequately raise a child alone.

Having a child in poverty in the US means homelessness, food instability and lack of basic access to health care and adequate education.

It’s too bad there’s not a resource like FDS for women to see facts, read stories and share experiences.

The biological clock needs dismantling like cool girl and pickmeisha.

That 39 year old woman doesn’t need a date or a man or advice on how to start a love life. Like you said it’s toxic to make women believe that it’s their desire and destiny to have children.

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[–]throwahweigh3521FDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As an American that did postgrad in the UK a few years ago -aware of the difference in the social safety net. No offense taken.

Even though you have a government that has basic supports- being poor with a child it’s obviously not a good choice because there’s this biological clock belief that a woman needs to have a child.

Like you point out the social stigma marks you. While the situation isn’t as dire the results are similar to the US : it’s a bad situation to struggle in that doesn’t benefit you or the child to fulfill some “need” that’s a theory at best.

We’re not salmon swimming upstream to spawn and die. And until our governments create a system that overall supports having children the birth rate will drop. Myths like biological clock will not keep women at the baby making.

[–]Davina33FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes that's true. I'm from England, my mother and stepfather drank and took drugs. Neither of them had any business having kids but all we had was benefits from the a Government. I grew up in poverty and only had one meal a day during the time I went to school. I often went for days at a time with no food during the weekends and school holidays. Sure we had free dental care but what good is it if your parents won't take you, same with the doctors. We have and did have when I was born free contraception and abortions. There was no excuse for my parents to bring us in to the world and abuse us. I guess I'm just one of many.

[–]MitcheliaFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

What if I want to have a family and children? And what if I like men and want to have a partner? Thankfully I don’t live in the US.

[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Its problematic for sure but the OP may not be in a mindset to realize she could have a child on her own without a man and there are plenty of avenues to do that. My guess is that she has tunnel vision because of a lot of factors and sees that ever impending biological clock ticking that she just wants to focus on having a kid ASAP and it has to be with a man. There are a lot of alternatives to having a kid that you can have a kid and be a single mom without having to have a man in your life to do so. She said she doesn't have much of a support system or family around her.

[–]MitcheliaFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

OP here. You are making an assumption that I’m not able to judge character. One of the reasons I want to have a child with a partner is so that my child can have an extended family. I want my child to have more support than I can offer as a solo mum who is an only child herself which is why I don’t want to go for an unknown donor. I have a good income, I am likely to out-earn my partner. I have seen friends make bad choices because they desperately wanted a baby at 30 and are now stuck with a deadbeat dad. Unfortunately I am now at a point that I have realised that I really do want to try for a family, and I don’t have much time - that doesn’t mean I will make bad decisions. And if the universe says no to a successful pregnancy I think I will be ok - but now I know what I want to try for I don’t see why I shouldn’t pursue it with focus.

I would’ve loved to be able to seriously look at surrogacy but we found out that where I’m from, even if you take a holiday overseas, it has to be completely altruistic or everyone involved who resides in my state could be going to jail. And a few years ago I wasn’t in a position to pay to freeze my eggs as I was lower income and paying for grad school while I was working. Perhaps I would’ve been better off if my parents had pushed me to settle down instead leaving me to free roam through my careers.

I congratulate you on your work ethic and the things you have achieved to get to where you are, but I would say you are in a somewhat privileged position to be in your 20s with so much wisdom and this kind of insight. Don’t let time slip by if you want to have a family. It can happen before you realise.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My mother married a man in his early 40s when she was 50 🤣🤣, and my grandmother was four years older than my grandfather.They really need to stop with the bullshit.

[–]Time_BarracudaFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The real world is full of couples like this. I've known twice as many older woman- younger man couples than the inverse, and real love matches too, not trophy wives like older men end up with.

[–]bernieorbust2k4everFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Im older than my bf :)

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, men that age end up dating women their own age and want is to feel damn lucky they ate giving is the time of day.

[–]DaeYeNoKenKINKmeisha™️ on parole7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Any yet when I look around my family and friends I've yet to see the 40 something with a 20 something trope happen. Like, where are they all? Pretty much every couple I know are within about 10 years of other or less.

The sad thing is that these old scrotes choose to try to bully women online instead of working on themselves and becoming someone a woman near their age might actually want to date.

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