Read it. Digest it. And never forget it.

BlueSeaWilt · 2020-04-25T22:41:11+00:00

Great point, but I think another one is that you aren't obliged to forgive. There are people I won't forgive but it doesn't consume me - I've made my peace with what happened and I can put it behind me.

Goddess422 · 2020-04-25T23:25:14+00:00

I just had this exact thought in the shower. So true.

nopuedeser818 · 2020-04-26T00:34:21+00:00

So true. You can let go of the anger without making yourself vulnerable to being victimized again.

plantbitch45 · 2020-04-26T03:28:02+00:00

Forgiveness is a personal choice.

It is the choice to forgive those who have hurt you that gives you power and freedom to move on.

Delicious-Scholar · 2020-04-25T23:16:52+00:00

!!!!

TheFullMountie · 2020-04-26T16:05:41+00:00

Wow, this was powerful. It reminded me of an ex-friend who was physically/emotionally abusive and a message from her a year later after cutting her out offered no apologies, just a “it’s all water under the bridge” and “i miss you”. Thank god I knew better. I wrote back that I forgave her but have grown a lot and wished her the best for us to move on in separate ways. She called me a bitch and raged in response. Year later, same thing, new message. Mutual friend is like, “maybe you should reach out to her...she misses you and she’s working on her issues”. Nope. Good for her, but hell no.

jen388 · 2020-04-26T00:05:41+00:00

!!!!!!!!!!

CSardothien_1 · 2020-04-25T23:31:05+00:00

Low key feel attacked but okay sometimes we need to hear things out loud for them to hit.

NotTakingUrBullShit · 2020-04-26T03:34:47+00:00

I learned this when I was 24 it blew my mind

itsjustathrowaway147 · 2020-04-26T12:06:34+00:00

I need to get this tattooed on me 😂

Title	Read it. Digest it. And never forget it.
Author	starsheepie
Upvotes	873
Comments	22
Date	April 25, 2020 10:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g82qol/read_it_digest_it_and_never_forget_it/
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