Solid breakdown of the Madonna Whore Complex. HVM don’t separate women into categories for sexual use or for true love. They respect us as individuals & they are able to connect their sexual desire 2 the woman they choose 2 commit to and cherish. LVM label us and hate both women in different ways.

yoursultana · 2022-03-25T05:10:16+00:00

Removed bc she’s an idiot for claiming a man can respect you and degrade you sexually.

shutup201 · 2022-03-25T00:45:13+00:00

This makes perfect sense. Damn! I've never really thought about the complex but she explains it perfectly. Great video!

This is also one of the reasons why so many women are having unfulfilling sex with men. How can you have great sex with someone who doesn't desire and respect you? It needs to be in alignment...respect, consideration, desire, etc.

Really, it all comes down to a lack of emotional intelligence in lvm. They are stunted by their selfishness, insecurities and entitlement, and it manifests in the dumbest and cruelest ways towards women.

Platipus6 · 2022-03-25T00:25:40+00:00

And then they cry for years on deadbedrooms that their wifey won't turn into a whore on the end of his magical penis.

But he won't leave or cheat because muh vows muh kids.

So he keeps her terrorized over being made homeless if she won't put out and become more enthusiastic :) Even though he rewarded her with a ring, house, car and stability for being demure and chaste :) And keeps triangulating her with his wild ex-girlfriend and stories of how amazing the sex was :) But he dumped her :)

djfrankenjuice · 2022-03-25T00:54:44+00:00

I was onboard until she said men who don’t want to do BDSM with their partners out of respect are suffering from the complex as well.

Idk maybe he just doesn’t want to inflict violence upon something he loves…

alpinepunch2021 · 2022-03-25T01:12:17+00:00

Somewhere in the middle of this video she suggests that a boyfriend who can't degrade you during sex (even if you like it) because he feels weird doing it to you has a madonna-whore complex, but I entirely disagree. I'm pretty sure that's just a symptom of not being pornsick and respecting your gf. Degrading sex =/= sex.

makeawomancum · 2022-03-24T23:51:47+00:00

“Men with the Madonna Whore complex cannot equate loving someone and desiring them for a relationship with sexual desire. Because they equate sexual desire to disrespect. That’s what it really comes down to. Men don’t equate sex and sexual desire to respect and consent. They reserve their sexual desire for women they inherently disrespect and do not like… so they can treat her however they want to fucking treat her. So when they date a woman that’s a ‘wifey type’, they don’t really sexually desire her. And the other tea is this is exactly why these types of men end up cheating on their wifey type with women they actually sexually desire.”

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Edit: LVM with this complex are also what make me worry so much for women in prostitution. Those sickos can reserve all their depravity for the “whore” they pay for. Some lvm may seem normal to their partner, but secretly let out their abusive side in bed with prostitutes because they don’t see them as human. Then they go home and blame their wife/gf for their broken wrinkly dicks not working.

Edit 2; one thing I don’t quite agree with her on is that men who don’t want to degrade their partner in bed even if she likes it have the Madonna/Whore complex. If he doesn’t otherwise fantasize about it with women who are not his partner, that just means he doesn’t like bdsm/degrading women at all. I think that is a sign that he is capable of cultivating healthy monogamous intimacy with a woman.

seraphinelysion · 2022-03-25T01:54:32+00:00

I said it before and I will keep saying it again: A man's sexual attention is completely worthless. And here is the proof. When they sexually desire you, it's because deep down, they don't respect you at all let alone see you as an individual with personhood. They see you like they see that porn star on the screen; as a "thing" to be used and abused then discarded.

Do not be flattered by a man's desire for you. That's just the lust speaking. And it is as useless as it is worthless.

elainejay82 · 2022-03-25T01:44:38+00:00

Dating a dude like this is one of the most irritating and awful things ever. You are constantly flipped back and forth between the two categories with these fuckers.

If you do or want something sexual, he starts thinking you "must not be it." If you are too chaste, don't want to have sex, you are a bore to him but he keeps you around to appear normal.

These guys always have the ex they can't let go, some magical unicorn of perfection (who dumped his ass lmao) that you can't live up to. Madonna/whore complex dudes run the GAME with triangulation.

I could just never get it with these types. You feel diced in two, and like they just never are actually seeing you as you are and if you spend enough time around it, you start to feel invisible and like you're disappearing.

Seriously, never again with these types. They're damaging af.

Jay-Qualin · 2022-03-25T00:14:09+00:00

The so called "LoGicAL" gender has the most illogical oxymoron complex. The maddona-whore complex.

A long time ago I read men's answers to a question (don't remember what was exactly) on yahoo answers about how they had no problem masturbating to stranger/random women they don't know...but find it hard masturbating to their girlfriends or to women they "loved" ...and I was WTFing while reading those answers...why would it be a problem to masturbate to a woman you love? Aren't you sexually attracted to her? Shouldn't it be natural to think of her while doing it? It made no damn sense to me at that time....and now I know why...it's the stupid maddona-whore complex that these dumb irrational manlets have! (And it STILL don't make any damn sense to me btw lol)

It seems that men view masterbation as degrading, impure, dirty and offensive? Thus they refuse to do it, thinking about women they love and respect...so instead they do it to women they don't know or care about.

It's a whole mind fuck! I swear men are so fucking weird and irrational!

deepdarkocean · 2022-03-25T03:10:43+00:00

and hate both in different ways

chainsawbobcat · 2022-03-25T01:39:46+00:00

Why use wanting to be degraded as the example women's sexual desire.

Also, love the birds?

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