Still working on this one, but 💯

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-08-14T12:10:12+00:00

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Sage_Planter · 2020-08-14T14:12:32+00:00

Closure is a myth. All you need to know is that he took a look at you and thought to himself "nah, I'll try my luck elsewhere."

2020-08-14T12:08:14+00:00

Silent dignity feels so much better long term

LittleBitchyBanana · 2020-08-14T12:04:26+00:00

Exactly, why do you need more or this BS? If it’s done, it’s done. Do not write long paragraphs, messages, calls etc. Keep your head high and leave, queen. 💁‍♀️

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-14T12:04:53+00:00

Needing clarity is just another way to cling

Summerisle7 · 2020-08-14T15:07:52+00:00

I mean, the fact that he hurt you, insulted you, ghosted you, used you etc...that's quite a lot of clarity right there, what more do you need to know?

throwawaynevermindit · 2020-08-14T18:54:20+00:00

I have something I call the 1 cry rule. If they make me cry (with them or just alone upset about something “small”) I’m done.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-08-14T16:51:51+00:00

One of the biggest obstacles to moving on is this desire for closure or to make sense of things. Sometimes it just doesn't make sense.

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-08-14T15:35:10+00:00

Thank you. Let's get rid of the concept that you owe or are owed closure.

lskfjd743 · 2020-08-14T15:09:22+00:00

That't right! Don't give anyone in either romantice, friendship, family, or career relationships a reason to minimize their damage through half-asses lies.

2020-08-14T18:11:57+00:00

Closure is bs.

michelle27519 · 2020-08-14T22:31:35+00:00

Such truth

Title	Still working on this one, but 💯
Author	xoladybugxo
Upvotes	391
Comments	24
Date	August 14, 2020 5:20 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i9g2wy/still_working_on_this_one_but/
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