The Accuracy 🎯

officernice89 · 2020-03-03T16:16:32+00:00

all of those describe my narcissist ex

fdsstudent · 2020-03-03T20:13:36+00:00

Also, look out for these red flags within yourself. When I was with a lvm, his manipulation was causing me to ask him to cut people (“female friends”) off, dress differently (dressing up and buying all new clothes for nights out with the “friends”), and giving him minimal privacy because I had a gut feeling something was going on.

aclumsygirl · 2020-03-03T15:47:13+00:00

Inability to apologize. Huge red flag. My ex literally could not say the words "I'm sorry." He would sometimes ACT sorry by trying to fix whatever he did, but he just couldn't apologize. Going forward I'm fully prepared to launch any and every man interested in me who can't say a sincere "I'm sorry" when he's clearly and objectively fucked up.

pinkyberries · 2020-03-03T16:38:27+00:00

GURL i just sent it to my best friends and we played it like a bingo in our groupchat! each had to mark the flags her ex gave her LMAO!

Careful-Economy · 2020-03-04T01:02:30+00:00

Also see: - making jokes at your expense - making you feel guilty about money, your success, etc etc - keeping relationships with other women regardless of your gut instinct (your gut is always right) - blaming alcohol or substance abuse for behavior

InayahDaneen · 2020-03-03T18:19:41+00:00

I used to overlook all of these red flags but not anymore 😎

scandalousandevil · 2020-03-03T15:45:21+00:00

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AntiCircles · 2020-03-03T18:48:09+00:00

Great illustration

Shearay752 · 2020-03-04T13:46:32+00:00

I thought red flags were gestures that signify danger ahead. Some of these are just straight up dangerous from the get go.

asoww · 2020-03-03T17:51:02+00:00

How would you describe "playing games"? For example, if a guy does things indicating he wants me to pursue him, would you say it's "playing games"?

I actually didn't fall for it so I find the situation kinda hilarious because I did the equivalent of leaving him on read but irl lol which is even better (new found self control)

Title	The Accuracy 🎯
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	440
Comments	26
Date	March 3, 2020 3:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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