The men are projecting again!! Why does it bother them that women are 30 and single?

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-08T16:17:45+00:00

You’d think that they’d love it when women are single at any age, because it means more potential partners for them. They’re so weird.

Determinedblonde · 2021-05-08T18:56:50+00:00

I think they hate 30 year old single women because they’re upset you all didn’t get desperate by 29 and grab the nearest man.

Oh no! A woman who stayed single by choice. Who will wash me and feed me? 🥺

level_up_always · 2021-05-08T16:53:12+00:00

they don't understand the more 'pressure' there is the more we're just going to go the opposite direction

lucidlotus · 2021-05-08T19:08:07+00:00

The men who've expressed dismay/surprise/judgment at me being single are also deeply unhappy in their relationships. I don't think it's a coincidence. I think some people judging women for being single, not having kids, etc. are unhappy with their lot in life, and pretending everyone else should do the same thing they are is a coping method.

stealthcalmer · 2021-05-08T17:31:08+00:00

'heavy breathing in my mentions' - filing that one away.

veniphyl · 2021-05-08T20:46:07+00:00

I've done everything from ONS to marriage and everything in between. I've come to conclusion that having none of those is the best. I'm fucking happy with myself now.

laurencetrishburn · 2021-05-08T19:37:10+00:00

Almost 30, newly single and loving every minute. 💞

CovertGiraffeHut · 2021-05-08T18:03:58+00:00

I'm 30 and a single parent, never been happier! Literally struggle to even see myself in another relationship, I see absolutely no benefits.

lasilevolbuterol · 2021-05-08T20:49:32+00:00

I’m thirty, single, about to start my first big girl job making six figures x3...

Real talk, why do I even need to try dating again? I can do everything I want without a man emotionally abusing me, telling me who I can/can’t spend time with, and where I can/can’t go.

I’ve deleted all my OLD profiles. I have my own perfectly organized house with my pretty things and it’s clean. I have a great circle of friends and fun hobbies. I might even find a sperm bank and raise my own kids with the help of a nanny and a personal assistant. Get angry, scrotes. You suck and I don’t want you around.

LevellingUpTime · 2021-05-09T03:43:23+00:00

It's always single men who do the hating, I don't know any happily married men hating on single older women. I think these men hate single older women because it's still easy for older women to date and older women set much higher standards for their partner because they are capable of living alone.

But older men who are still single can't date easily and they have trouble at home because they don't cook or clean or do anything for themselves except their mediocre job. They want their bangmaid to help them in all areas of life but younger women are avoiding them for being old, ugly, broke, and predatory so they try women their own age thinking they'll be desperate for any man that looks at them, but women their age avoid them for being low-effort and unambitious slobs

Title	The men are projecting again!! Why does it bother them that women are 30 and single?
Author	Solid-Liquid
Upvotes	637
Comments	23
Date	May 8, 2021 3:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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