This is either pick me mentality or a man talking

LevelTurbulent · 2020-08-25T07:33:55+00:00

Even if they marry you, that won't get you anything but dumped at 40.

It's all a fucking joke.

Flufferly · 2020-08-25T07:56:05+00:00

Uh huh, so what are his husbandly duties then?

CommercialCamel2 · 2020-08-25T07:57:05+00:00

🤢🤢🤢 no thanks I'd rather be alone than be a servant

fiercefinance · 2020-08-25T07:44:35+00:00

Surely this is satire. If not, it's definitely a man.

lasolterita · 2020-08-25T10:09:36+00:00

"From the onset"? Uh, no. Once he proves himself? To an extent.

"Easy approval" - Not what I'm interested in, though? I want a man as thoughtful and cautious as I am, someone whose approval means as much as mine. I want a relationship where our approval of each other is special enough for us to conclude, "This is the person I must marry."

"Your heart tells you is genuine" - Replace 'heart' with 'brain. Hearts (feelings) lie.

"60% of what you're looking for" - Depends. They MUST meet ALL of my nonnegotiables. If he meets 60% of my overall preferences but not all of my nonnegotiables, then my moving on is nonnegotiable.

"Submission" - Lol. My freedom of speech and will bow to no one. Compromise is to be obtained following respectful and reasonable discussion.

carameals · 2020-08-25T09:41:28+00:00

LMAOOOOOO. Millennial generation??? Men back then had to give land and jewelry to the woman's family to even be able to take her out lol

Scotsburd · 2020-08-25T10:42:48+00:00

If you want to marry a sexist pig and be his mummy, then yes, great advice. If you want an equal partner in life, start as you mean to go on and always be prepared to walk if you need to.

llamasinspace420 · 2020-08-25T11:54:02+00:00

And what the fuck do I get out of it? No thanks.

kikii07 · 2020-08-25T09:49:29+00:00

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purasangria · 2020-08-25T13:14:03+00:00

Sure, makes sense. So he'll be paying my bills and providing for me as a show of what a good husband he will be? /s

Somehow I think there's a double standard here. Men love it when we try to "prove" ourselves to them.

GTFOH with this BS, please.

IamfromCanuckistan · 2020-08-25T15:06:06+00:00

Blah blah blah wifely duties blah blah prequalifications blah blah corrects you blah blah you do it as a duty or a calling blah blah do it as a duty or normal activity blah blah respect him blah blah good food x2 blah blah submission blah blah blah

~ An excerpt from the How to be a Good Little Slave Handbook of 1764

Applegooglepear · 2020-08-25T07:57:15+00:00

for some reason I couldn't read this without getting tongue tied.

A clear indication for me that it's all bullshit and that it's okay not to proceed. 😂

7Cuervos · 2020-08-25T13:45:10+00:00

This was written by a man that watches way too many PUA vids on youtube but wants to pass it off as a woman saying this so it comes off as genuine.

Guaranteed.

th3n3w3ston3 · 2020-08-25T17:21:15+00:00

I don't even like doing wifely duties for my own self, why the hell would I do them for someone else if I'm not getting something out of it?

ItsFreezen · 2020-08-25T11:24:11+00:00

Because Scrotes are always husband qualified /s

vmuzondi · 2020-08-25T12:47:39+00:00

Wow. People get really bad dating advice. It’s crazy that there are people who give advice opposite to us, but I guess that’s why there’s a pickme epidemic.

feminologie_ · 2020-08-25T14:43:48+00:00

LMFAO this is definitely a man talking. Of course they would preach this bullshit because all they want is to use women to the fullest extent while offering nothing but the audacity in return. The funny thing is, they don't provide "husband duties" before marriage either, they're so commitment-phobic and hate spending money on you or giving you the emotional support you need. Why the fuck should I be held to a higher standard and give things he would never give me? Lmao. The delusion.

Wait__No__What · 2020-08-25T13:49:34+00:00

A fucking scrote wrote that. You can tell by how everything is phrased "do TO him". Fucking porn sick retard.

kikii07 · 2020-08-25T14:52:10+00:00

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kikii07 · 2020-08-25T20:43:24+00:00

What a joke

2020-08-25T07:39:02+00:00

Meeting 60% of what you're looking for😂😂

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2020-08-25T22:46:25+00:00

They don't need a free sample of your vagina, a free sample of your maid skills, a free sample of your cooking and mommy skills. If you are a functional adult woman, those things come standard. If they don't think a woman can accomplish basic things, it's on them for engaging with those women in the first place--and plenty of them deliberately do engage with unstable women, then whine when it bites them in the ass.

slothsomesauce · 2020-08-26T03:07:09+00:00

Wtf is this nonsense?! Hell no.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-10-13T19:19:19+00:00

...submission and humility?

this is a man giving bad advice to naive women. this is a male fantasy. just no.

Title	This is either pick me mentality or a man talking
Author	kikii07
Upvotes	61
Comments	57
Date	August 25, 2020 7:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ig7i67/this_is_either_pick_me_mentality_or_a_man_talking/
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