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This just happened to me. I don’t know why I’m surprised!!

All4Goldie

November 17, 2021
70 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
https://www.kqed.org/pop/52170/sexual-harassment-in-words-with-friends-is-a-microcosm-of-male-entitlement-and-female-frustration
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Title This just happened to me. I don’t know why I’m surprised!!
Author

All4Goldie

Upvotes 70
Comments 23
Date November 17, 2021 12:34 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qvmk7c/this_just_happened_to_me_i_dont_know_why_im/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-just-happened-to-me-i-dont-know-why-im.1083731
https://theredarchive.com/post/1083731
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He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂

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November 28, 2021
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A friend I shared FDS with sent this to me today! Great reason why men should pay for dates!

355 upvotes
October 27, 2021
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This seems to go with posts today, so, I thought I’d share facts. As other have said, stay vigilant! This is why we use FDS!

326 upvotes
October 15, 2021
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A friend I shared FDS sent me this today! Great reason for men to pay on dates! (Disclosure: I’m TikTok illiterate lol)

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October 27, 2021
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“I’m a sugar baby because it’s fun!” Sure thing, sis 👍

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Comments

[–]randomgirl34861FDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I used to play this game! I also got unwanted messages after uploading a selfie as a profile picture. I quickly took down my picture and replaced it with a picture of something random (can’t remember if it was food or a Pokémon). I remember feeling stupid for uploading a picture of myself (even though I was just smiling and normally clothed), like I brought it upon myself. Pretty sure I was like 19 or so?

My first thought was to replace my picture with a cat or a flower, but because those things are traditionally associated with women I decided on something like a burger or Geodude

Also, why are they making a distinction between trolls and the "men's rights" activists? They’re the same thing lmao.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just started playing this year to play against my brother, who, of course doesn’t have this issue. I just changed my username and made my profile pic a no clown symbol lol.

The one that really is sick are the ones with porn as their profile pic??!!! This article is old now so I hope that isn’t still a thing!

[–]SpittensFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anytime I have to have a profile picture of some kind, I use a random picture of cartoon characters. Not even a cartoon I watch.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Strategy is to always have your guard up! Before FDS I may have giving this scrote my time, but, since FDS I blocked and deleted! Can’t even just play a damn game! Ridiculous.

[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

‘The chat feature is there for a reason’ Fuck off prick! This reply would have pissed me right off! I play this game every day and I only do matches against other women. I learned this lesson a long time ago.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I just made my profile neutral but I might change it back if I decide to play strangers again and I’ll do this. I just started playing this year. I just wouldn’t have thought. Ugh.

[–]crapeescapeFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I know right. How sad. I’ve had a stalker, another guy saying ‘I was asking for it by having a profile picture. Lately I’ve been getting scam game requests from random profiles only on level one. It’s so annoying and you have to go to the website to report, so I just keep declining. I hope they address these issues soon

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Might be worth going to the website. Even though this article is older, they did make some changes that helped and the author encourages us to continue to push back. I was able to block the scrote and it automatically deleted him too! I was at least glad I didn’t have to resign and lose, but still. The audacity!

[–]insurrectionaryINTJFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Scrotes are sooo desperate to have just a bit of female attention to boost their ego.

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So, Words With Friends is actually a known hunting ground that cheaters use for finding affair partners, too. It’s up there with a middle aged man using snap chat or kik. It looks innocuous and innocent for a guy to be playing online Scrabble for hours, so his wife often doesn’t catch on. A friend of mine discovered several of her husband’s affairs were started in this app. And several folks in an infidelity forum reported the same.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. See, scrotes are willing to put effort into some shady shit, but, not to be HV. What a fking joke.

[–]Aromatic-Owl8808FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm surprised for you since this should have been dealt with years ago as the article is from 2016, with an update from 2019. This link should still work:

Update, 2019: If you are experiencing harassment in Words With Friends, you can now also send details and screenshots direct to Zynga at: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I found this article after I had blocked him. I’ve only been playing for five months so it caught me off guard. I learned that this was a thing and they did make the change where if you block someone you don’t have to resign the game so I was happy about that! Next time I’ll definitely take screenshots and report it.

[–]Aromatic-Owl8808FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I understand! I'm not blaming you. I'm agreeing that it is surprising because they should have fixed it years ago.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh no, I didn’t take it that way at all! It’s crazy how long this has been happening. I saw another article from 2019 talking about the same thing.

[–]blackmetalbettyFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol they'll message you on Draw Something, ask how I know..

[–]KindredMaximusFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What is wrong with men? Everything they touch turns to shi*. It's also the reason I use -user-names that are masculine, most men assume I'm a man. I get talked to entirely differently.

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I totally understand why! I did change my profile after this. I’m usually more careful online but since it was a game, I was a little less on guard. So stupid that this is how it is.

[–]galian84FDS Apprentice 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They literally will do anything for female attention, ugh! I’ve gotten messages from scrotes on Twitter (which I use exclusively for connecting with other writers and only post writing-related content…and FDS) AND Goodreads 😒

[–]AmeliaEmiliaEmmaFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to play poker online. It was a struggle until I found a fun group that was always at my table and they didn’t stay quiet when someone started being creepy.

[–]backforbeskarFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

wow can they do Yelp next? I am literally getting harassed by a local cop on there and it’s terrifying

[–]All4GoldieFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Really?! I’m sorry that’s happening. The internet is a dark place SMH.

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