Truth

cosmic-rebirth · 2020-08-14T16:50:19+00:00

Plus race!

Davina33 · 2020-08-14T16:54:44+00:00

God forbid you are also black as well as a woman too. If you even just say no then you're seen as aggressive.

royaldetour · 2020-08-14T15:31:19+00:00

Ugh. It is true and such bullshit.

ardiana_hautmann · 2020-08-14T18:14:55+00:00

I‘ve been called my entire life aggressive, fierce, rude by guys. To the point where I started doubting on myself, now whenever I speak something I have to think twice if my voice is being high.

NonRedittor · 2020-08-14T17:32:11+00:00

Plus being assertive doesnt mean rude... You can impose your boundaries firmly and call someone on their bullshit and still be classy about it, if Mr Scrote can't take it then it's too bad ✌

seraphinelysion · 2020-08-14T16:31:11+00:00

Question for you ladies. Do women view other women as aggressive when they are being assertive? From your own experience, how do you feel about women who are assertive?

DashOfParsley · 2020-08-14T16:28:23+00:00

As soon as a woman won't tolerate bullshit and knows what she wants she's labeled as bitchy and bossy, it irritates me to no end

Novemberinthechair · 2020-08-15T05:13:45+00:00

Your sex.

Sabina33211 · 2020-08-14T17:02:03+00:00

When I swear online with a boy username no one gives a sht but if I swear with girl username everyone is like she just said a swear word omg!!!!

so_crat_ic · 2020-08-14T20:05:53+00:00

disagree. I studied this for years because of some narcissists in the family. and while women are less likely to use dominance and intimidation, they can be quite toxic in the realm of passive aggression or "hooking people" where they appear helpless under the assumption someone will step in.

passive aggression is ALSO a form of aggression in that it's the opposite of assertiveness. and assertiveness is actually communicating your needs and expectations. but also accepting "no" as an answer. which does not come naturally to everyone. regardless of their gender.

Title	Truth
Author	AotearoaCanuck
Upvotes	1255
Comments	29
Date	August 14, 2020 3:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i9nkyy/truth/
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