refuse* *demand

So I see this often on this site men who cannot stand the very image of themselves. They groan, bitch, moan, and detest the very thought of being single. If they were a woman, and they met their male form on the street they wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire. So WTF is up with this logic that even though they don't love themselves they expect a random woman to?

Men starting off conversation with trauma bonding, coming to reddit to tell everyone how much they've been through. But NONE get help. It's too hard, I cannot find anyone, I don't want to talk about my feelings. But your punk ass just brought a 600 dollar PS5. Make it make sense. You want a girlfriend? You want a woman to come into your shit show of a life. Where you are mentally, emotionally, physically unstable. On top of that hell wouldn't be deep enough for how low your self esteem is. How is that fair? How do you think you are ready for a damn relationship.

I truly don't get what people have against loving yourself first? Do they expect someone else to complete task you yourself find too difficult? Loving yourself is beneficial because a person who loves themselves is less likely to accept disrespectful, demeaning, belittling, and or abusive behavior from a partner. A person who loves themselves will also not allow dating or lack of dating to dismantle their entire lives. A person who loved themselves is also less likely to be insecure, controlling, and abusive themselves. You don't like yourself, you don't want to date yourself, you downright detest spending time alone with yourself but you expect an outside individual to do that?

WTF is wrong with men?

*rant over*

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Wait and another thing. Why are they all in a circle chanting women are so low. But literally they expect a mother that can give them sex and children. I need answer. These m-fers got a lotta nerve.

*Now rant is over*