Don't fall for this subtle and common neg. They'll use this at every stage:

Before the date: "Why should I ask her out? SHE should be asking ME out."

During the date: "Why should I pay? She hasn't showed me what she has brought to the table."

In a relationship: "Why should I do the chores? She should be the one mopping and cooking, not me."

In marriage: "Why should I be the one proposing? It's 2020 and sexist for me to be the one proposing."

With children: "Why do I have to take care of the kids? I changed the diaper that one time three years ago"

I had what turned out to be a useless redpiller who came to me on a venting site yesterday complaining that the woman he liked ghosted him after showing signs of interest. Why? He NEVER asked her out. When I pointed this detail out and said Ive done the same before, he devolved into a blubbering mantrum.

He was a Trump supporter (in Canada, no less), proud red piller, and every single insult he threw at me was all surrounding one thing (I'm sure you all can guess!).

Sis dodged a bullet ghosting him and you all should too if he can't even ask you out. Friendly reminder!