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[–]foieblahFDS Newbie162 points163 points164 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can’t find that on pornhub, it’s too niche.
Probably why men never do it
[–]Leilani29FDS Newbie57 points58 points59 points 6 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Someone tell me the signs that you are not a man's priority, besides the obvious not making time for you 🤔 I feel like it's more complicated than that.
[–]redbirdfliesFDS STRATEGY COACH[S] 132 points133 points134 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you have to wonder if you are a priority to man, then you’re not. A HVM will never leave you feeling confused.
If you haven’t read the handbook yet, please do so now.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, if you have any doubt, that is your answer.
Any of my long terms I never doubted it in any way, he showed up. I knew 100% I was his lady.
[–]greatmanatee2FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
On the flip side, we gotta watch out for “love-bombing.”
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[–]ZeroNineOhNineFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahaha oh wow, wtf. Not at you, at him.
[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
He goes silent- days/weeks go by you don't hear from him then suddenly he pops up and acts like nothing happened. He only calls or text you late at night. He suggests FWB, casual, see how it goes. He doesn't pay when you go out. He takes hours or longer to text you back or drops off in the middle of a conversation. Those are some of the big ones.
[–]Leilani29FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
But what if the man actually expresses interest in a relationship, comes off as secure & confident about it, then starts falling apart at the first little bump in the road? Lol. Seems like he's holding back all of the time?
Suddenly flips the script and starts acting super anxious & insecure within himself. Randomly says that he's bad at relationships?
Acts well-mannered with you but then tells you "I don't mean to be rude, but I have a life" when you ask for some more time from him? Says he feels attacked when you raise a concern about his behavior/relationship?
I don't know why some men crumble once they actually have you, but come off as confident prior to things getting real. Told me he wanted a serious relationship, but then seems not at all healthy/ready for one.
It's like they wear a mask to get you and then you realize how hypersensitive and insecure they really are! It's fucking annoying lol.
[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They all (breadcrumbers) say they want a relationship in the beginning pretty much, that is how they hook you in. If they didn't love bomb you in the beginning you would just drop them. They get you invested and then the games begin. They ARE wearing a mask to get you! Then when they start acting a fool that is who they really are. See this is how it works, they spend a month to three months getting a girl on the hook, then they ghost, but they come back- that was a test. IF you let them come back they know they can hot/cold you and you will tolerate it, they know they have you. That is why you never allow a guy who ghosted you to return. So while they are ghosting you they are lovebombing some other girl, and so forth. They rotate girls, if they are ignoring you they are talking to someone else, while they are being nice to you they are ignoring and being a jerk to some other poor girl and none of you know about each other. It is sick and they think it is funny. Look up future faking, intermittent reinforcement, word salad, love bombing, triangulation. I think it will help you with this guy.
[–]pickmieshaexorcistFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Another big one is he’s silent or takes hours to respond...unless the talk is sexual! Then he’s Johnny on the spot!
[–]bootybootybootymeowFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh don't remind me how many times I would turn it sexual just for a crumb of attention over text 🤮
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[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes. This is a guy who is breadcrumbing you. He is not worth your time and the longer you stay the less he respects you and the worse the treatment will get. They will always keep pushing to see how far you will let it go. Once you cut a guy like this off one of two things will happen. Either he will suddenly start lovebombing you to get you back on his bench or he will just move on like you never existed, either way you can do better. But be prepared for him to try to tell you you ain't shit right at first bc how dare you respect yourself and stand up for yourself just fyi so don't let anything this guy says to you get to you.
[–]Solid-LiquidFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good thing this sub was recommended to me so I could recognize the signs. When I broke it off with my ex, SUDDENLY he wasn’t busy anymore and he missed me and loved spending time with me
[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Typical! Too little too damn late. Fuk him. He won the lottery and threw his ticket away, he shouldn't get a second chance at it.
[–]LattikaFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
God all I do on this site is bash my exes, it's embarrassing. But here's a rundown of a low-value male and what he's done to make my life miserable as a pick-me option.
Pickmeishas have it hard, yo.
[–]throwaway-786786FDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Got me one present for Valentine's day - a chocolate bar. He ate it.
Oh my god, girl, I'm so sorry, but this made me laugh. The audacity of this guy.
[–]LattikaFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It went like... we went on a date. We went into a convenience store, he got me the chocolate. Went to a cafe, he opens it up, takes a piece. And another. And another. And then it was gone. xD
[–]HoneyNJ2000FDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My favorite position is being handed his Amex card. :-)
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