Yes you!

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-06-11T14:32:40+00:00

Sometimes you're not even intimidating, you just don't perform all the cutesy and extra saccharine behaviours for men. I've seen the same guy not be bothered at all by how his friend spoke, but when I spoke in a similarly direct manner, he didn't know how to answer and later said that I was intimidating.

It reminds me of all the guys who said they like strong women who are intimidating and know what they want. What they actually mean is that they're lazy and they want her to make all the decisions in the relationship, instead of it being a partnership.

PrettyAlien · 2020-06-11T14:53:17+00:00

Nothing wrong with being, in fact, intimidating. You are not supposed to be prey.

CedarBrush01 · 2020-06-11T14:06:12+00:00

I ran into a former high school crush of mine yesterday. I didn't even recognize him because The Wall hit him super hard, but figured he was still a chill guy. Then at some point he said I was intimidating and I remembered exactly why I lost interest all those years ago lmao

Gaki-fan-too · 2020-06-11T19:18:34+00:00

Men are so used to being dominate over women that they perceive any woman who won't lie down as a threat.

Chancedizzle · 2020-06-11T13:22:26+00:00

Everyone here is Strong and Beautiful!!

Whateverbabe2 · 2020-06-11T19:24:07+00:00

I always thought it was stupid how being intimidating was thought of as an insult. Being powerful isn't an insult.

greenshadownymph · 2020-06-11T20:23:24+00:00

Lol I love intimidating men it's my favorite thing.

Title	Yes you!
Author	Lavender_flow
Upvotes	436
Comments	12
Date	June 11, 2020 11:46 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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