Not only suitors — people in general.

I see women on this forum, still impressionable and green, carelessly tip their toes back into dating — only to be told that they are yet to be ‘ready’. Rightfully so!

Whilst this community is about learning, understanding FDS in theory is not enough.

It is your job to be very “hard-to-get”.

You need to calibrate your ability to stay calculated, detached, and hard-headed when it comes to your ideals, values, and boundaries.

It should be extremely hard for any man to pass through your filters. Ensure that is so. Otherwise, you will pay with your safety and well-being.