Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.

arnezuara · 2021-09-29T01:54:29+00:00

• Link: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6595871/Online-porn-horror-Girl-16-forced-colostomy-bag-attempting-group-anal-sex.html

«A 16-year-old girl will need to use a colostomy bag for the rest of her life after suffering severe injuries while attempting group anal sex.

Teen boys and men are developing dangerous attitudes towards sex as a result of their compulsive consumption of hardcore and violent online pornography, experts have warned.

”Cyber safety expert Susan McLean said many high-school aged girls have suffered injuries trying to replicate porn scenes.”

‘It tends to be using objects. It does *tend to be quite violent** or being tied up, and the girls often feel very powerless to say no,' the former police officer told the ABC.»*

quasarbar · 2021-09-29T05:19:27+00:00

"Rough group sex" almost certainly means rape.

Nonsluttymen · 2021-09-29T02:09:17+00:00

Another vote for gang rape here.

Whatever degree of depravity this is, this is horrifying. Ladies, don’t be afraid to post these gruesome headlines on other social media. Our silence is how they pervert our dating culture like this to the point of killing us.

HereForTheFreeFoodOk · 2021-09-29T04:58:03+00:00

We need to start opening the discussion around childhood sexual abuse and risky sexual behaviours later in life.

An emotionally healthy woman, who was not exploited and raped as a child, DOES NOT go on to make decisions like this.

Men abuse children - and these victimised children form their identity around their sexual utility then on to become fodder for depraved men.

The the cycle repeats itself.

Make it stop!

From the article.

"One woman - Sarah, 41 - spoke about her own horrific experiences as an unwilling part of porn-fuelled fantasies.
She was seven-years-old when her brother began molesting her, inspired by magazines he would steal from shops.
In 2015, she was raped by her ex-boyfriend. They were having consensual sex before he forced her to have anal sex, despite telling him she didn't want to.
She suffered nerve damage and was so shaken by the incident that she fears physical contact, now unable to even hug her mother.
'In pornography, it's not how it is in real life. It's just not how it is,' she said."

goon_goompa · 2021-09-29T01:57:48+00:00

Teens don’t have the best decision making skills but anyone else doubt that a 16 year old girl gave enthusiastic consent to engage in group anal sex??? This sounds like gang r*pe.

In high school, I remember hearing a few rumors about a girl that let guys “run a train” on her at a party… even back then it didn’t sound right to me… I remember thinking that she must have been blacked out or coerced into it or was abused at home or something.

ccro7 · 2021-09-29T06:36:31+00:00

"Rough group sex"???

It's called GANG RAPE, you fucking morons.

No one deserves to have such suffering inflicted on them. It is demonic.

Coco_spacecat · 2021-09-29T02:07:51+00:00

Kids should not be engaging in any sex, let alone anything bdsm-like. Jesus. They haven’t even fully developed their frontal lobe and they’re already permanently injuring other kids

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-09-29T06:48:16+00:00

I guess "rough group sex" is what we're calling violent anal gang rape now?

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-09-29T04:23:42+00:00

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catlady4u · 2021-09-29T03:43:18+00:00

Horrible, I can't get past the headline.

Nat_at_all · 2021-09-29T03:49:52+00:00

Horrific, I'm so sad for her. I hope, but doubt, those men will face charges.

OrangeCatsAreNice · 2021-09-29T02:25:38+00:00

Respect to whoever made this post that calls it what it is.

Im very sad about this. I wish she can heal. We need to understand that there is people that enjoy seeing our body being degraded. No human was born to endure this abuse. This is very sad. Another reason why "dont kinkshame" people are harming people. They are not only stupid, they are dangerous.

All_Seeka · 2021-09-29T04:39:38+00:00

This article reads like forced gang rape, not group sex! Jesus Christ, it's like even when it's not our fault, those perverts make it our life burden.

I hope that girl can find a way to hold herself together with therapy and support and that the perpetrators who caused physical harm to her get every taste of karma back to them.

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-09-29T04:41:47+00:00

I hope in the future they can invent something to heal her.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-09-29T09:06:59+00:00

In 2015, she was raped by her ex-boyfriend. They were having consensual sex before he forced her to have anal sex, despite telling him she didn't want to.

"Consensual sex" = sex. Sex without consent is rape. No need for redundancy. Call things by their name. "Consensual sex" sugarcoats and thereby normalizes rape.

globalminority · 2021-09-29T06:38:55+00:00

Wait this sounds like gang rape? how can a 16 year old girl consent to this? Extremely disturbed if this was consensual and if this is happening in high schools.

lansburysoda · 2021-09-29T02:32:11+00:00

At this point, dating men is one of the most dangerous risks a woman can take. Which is sad because I do believe there are HVM out there, but we have to sift through way too many dangerous and LV men to get there.

UwU_______OwO · 2021-09-29T06:56:05+00:00

I’m sick, this headline is horrible and I can’t imagine what this poor CHILD went through. I’ve seen it briefly on tiktok and they are being groomed into more and more horrendous acts.

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-09-29T12:43:32+00:00

That is NOT SEX! that is gang r@pe and s0dmy. Regular sex does not cause a person to need a colostomy bag for the rest of their lives! She was only 16 years old. I seriously doubt this was consentual and with people her own age. These discusting sadistic predators need to be in prison! Normal sex is not enough for these sick freaks they want to cause extreme pain!

MACMUA · 2021-09-29T03:28:40+00:00

Let their the victims fathers get involved

These little f*cken bratty terrors deserve assault charges

cher415 · 2021-09-29T07:54:00+00:00

Dear God 😱😱😱

MyHonestOpnion · 2021-09-29T04:15:11+00:00

I don't understand why ppl defend porn all the time. I think if a man wants to consume porn, he needs to date sex workers or other porn addicts. Leave the rest of us alone !! It's unfair to be lured into a relationship, then find out about the porn habit. I love the advice on this sub about the casual porn conversation. Because most men will absolutely deny it, or even talk against it to lure you in. Keep up the good work Ladies and share your Words of Wisdom !!!

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-09-29T15:37:58+00:00

"pOrN iSn'T tHe PrObLeM, iT's LaCk Of SeX eDuCaTiOn"

This is the kind of comment that always springs up in general Reddit. But why not both? Provide proper sex education about respect, dignity, pleasure, boundaries and feeling safe AND get rid of a societal disease that negates every one of these lessons.

Sadly, it's not the first time I've heard of this type of horrific situation. It's not only Australia, here in Western Europe we have had the exact same scenario. I'm sick of it.

It's not just sex education. How damaged does your brain have to be to not NOTICE that you're hurting someone so much? There is a serious issue with the lack of awareness, conscientiousness and empathy that some men get away with in society.

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2021-09-29T03:19:10+00:00

So idk if I just don't hear about it but gay men don't seem to have these problems. I wonder if tops are capable of feeling empathy for bottoms considering they're both men where straight men don't give a single fucking shit about a woman's health and comfort.

2021-09-29T03:52:15+00:00

Even liking anal is a red flag

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-09-29T09:46:46+00:00

These silly little fucking loser sick dick brain dead fucking twerps. Utterly repugnant neanderthal "men" UGghhh

putequitue · 2021-09-29T06:03:59+00:00

And who wants to bet there are scrotes laughing and hi-fiving each other about this, because guys brag about sexual violence: “i tore her up” “she couldn’t walk afterwards” etc.

Carneliancat · 2021-09-29T03:08:01+00:00

How much worse does this have to get than men literally f*cking the sh*t out of women, before we collectively decide that porn is a scourge upon society?

extragouda · 2021-09-29T10:50:56+00:00

This makes me want to barf. Poor girl.

thethirdflowrisgreen · 2021-09-29T02:42:44+00:00

Wow. This is pretty distressing.

SleeplessError · 2021-09-29T07:37:18+00:00

I wasted a year on a porn addict.
He was a "good guy" treated me right but made it very clear that the years of porn addiction- of which he spoke openly- had burned his brain.
He was incapable of affection and while indeed not a bad person, it killed me inside. Never again

throwmywholeassaway · 2021-09-29T06:16:12+00:00

And the pro-pornsickness group will say that we are being ableist for thinking it’s a bad thing that this girl will have to live with a colostomy bag for the rest of her life.

Technusgirl · 2021-09-29T05:22:33+00:00

OMG this is so sad, poor girl 😓 Men don't understand just how dangerous anal sex can be. Plus it's very painful and uncomfortable. I've heard the same thing happening to gay men too who are typically the "bottoms". I'll never in my life ever do this again. I feel bad enough letting men pressure me into it before.

Davina33 · 2021-09-29T20:03:00+00:00

What the hell am I reading? That poor girl. This is terrifying. The most boys got to look at when I was a child was women in undies in a clothes magazine.

naps-seductively · 2021-09-29T18:49:33+00:00

Can you put a NSFW tag on this please?

Muffcakelord · 2021-09-30T11:43:18+00:00

This is basically the same as a group of guys holding a woman and continuously stabbing her everywhere then leaving her to hopefully die but i bet they aren't even punished

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DepressedDuelist · 2021-09-29T05:55:25+00:00

Might wanna reword your headline retard

Lake9009 · 2021-09-29T06:00:45+00:00

Really using daily mail as a reliable source lol

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Title	Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.
Author	arnezuara
Upvotes	1086
Comments	110
Date	September 29, 2021 1:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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