Just a friendly reminder. I'm 36 years old married to narcissistic woman. I sleep on a couch and haven't had sex in two years. I have a four year old son and if I want to see him every day and be a daily part of his life, I have to put up with abuse after intolerable abuse. Men, stay single. Some say, well, women can have the same problems. True, but abuse from men is illegal and for the most part an abusive husband will be cast out of the home by law and possibly incarcerated for his offense. On the flip side, the state actively assists women when they choose to abuse through the family courts. My wife knows for a fact that I want to see my son every day. So she knows she can kick me from pillar to post because if I leave, the state will give her at least 80% of the time with our son and charge me 17% of my gross income for that luxury. Men, when you are married you are entering into a one sided deal. Just beware. The only thing that separates you from all the other burned men out there is your wife's benevolence. She needs only choose to do these things and you'll be right here with me. If a man beats his wife or drives her out through emotional abuse, the state will take his children and make him pay his reparations. If a woman does the exact same thing, the state will do the same thing to you. Law does not protect men from marital abuse or parental alienation, only your wife's unwillingness to do those things stands between you and us. Beware. Until the laws change, beware.
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You cannot sacrifice your life to an physical and emotional abuse from your wife in order to protect a child. What kind of a parental are you doing that's influencing your son to accept this kind of behavior? Know that it will only damage him in the long run.
You need to get a divorce ASAP before it gets worse. And cam record and document everything. I understand that your son's life is important but yours is way more important because he needs at least a healthy dad who can take care of him.
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Haven't you got a room in which you could put a single bed? It's demeaning for you to sleep on a couch.
I can only imagine what your young son makes of this spectacle...
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...And what, if any, would be the consequences of your deciding simply to sleep in your own bed?
I had my own little bundle of psycho a couple of years back, but thankfully I ditched the bitch as soon as the love-bombing turned into the silent treatment.
And if you're dealing with a narc (as you surely are), you might find A Shrink For Men helpful:
https://shrink4men.com/index/
Pretty much the entire site is dedicated to helping men who are dealing with narcs.
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