Can I get a amen,

milordi · 2019-08-14T18:09:59+00:00

Every time someone talks about bullshit "body positivity" it's always only about female land whales. Nobody ever said that a fat man is "handsome".

GoMake_me_a_sandwich · 2019-08-14T17:13:34+00:00

I work hard for my fit body. I would never get with a fat chick.

SirDuLeon · 2019-08-14T18:30:18+00:00

Even though i am a fat man myself,i am currently working to change that and i dont expect praise or help from anyone on the matter. I train my body the way i trained my mind and i will help myself become a better man. I hope a guy who is obese like me sees this and understands that when you set the goal to change,even if you have not completed the said change,the whole mindset of how you see the world begins to swift. You control your own destiny,you cannot change the way people act or react but you can change how you act on things and understand when to take action or take a few steps back and reconfigure yourself and your beliefs. The world might not believe in you because you are a man,but i do. If you set your mindset and dedicate time to yourself with the utmost discipline while respecting your time,You will bring change!

x6x6x61982 · 2019-08-14T20:03:43+00:00

I have had this convo before when I was chatting with women.

Her: I am a bit fatty side, but I don't have time to workout etc etc.

Me: so what yo doing right now? (around 7pm)

Her: watching telly

Me: so why not work out?

Her: . . . .

TigPlaze · 2019-08-14T18:18:46+00:00

But a feminist told me if they just keep publishing images of obese women that that will eventually be seen as attractive.

The5Gecko_ · 2019-08-14T17:13:38+00:00

A whale may flop around out of water, but I wouldnt flop around on a whale

Her0_0f_time · 2019-08-14T18:15:01+00:00

Speaking as a heavyset guy. Being fat is a good way to see the shallow behavior of humanity. Seriously, its crazy how differently people will treat you just because of your weight. At least I dont pretend its good for my health.

Necrojerk · 2019-08-14T21:57:19+00:00

Overweight guy here, the body positivity movement is cancerous. I’m unhealthy, I should lose weight. Most women hardly care, but there’s no reason I should be this big. It’s not “beautiful”, it’s unhealthy. I’m 26 and I have a dad bod to the extreme. I actually like bigger women, but there’s no reason we have to pretend it doesn’t go against the general/universal standards for attractiveness.

lulusalem · 2019-08-14T19:01:14+00:00

Looks match but it today's age its a 7/10 man going for a 4/10 women

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-08-14T18:52:14+00:00

Big women were praised back in the day when food was scarce, leading to healthier children being birthed. We dont need that now.

Tyler_Golemon · 2019-08-14T19:17:43+00:00

If you are a man with an obese gf what does that say about you. What does that say about your worth your standards.

xXShadowz11Xx · 2019-08-14T17:13:06+00:00

Amen

Helikzhan · 2019-08-14T18:34:41+00:00

Yes this. Stop approaching me already when I put the time and effort in to be fit and you don't.

GreenMile83 · 2019-08-14T21:36:06+00:00

Be good looking as a man: constant working out, maintaining diet and exercise, iron self discipline and dominion over your own weakness and inner demons.

Be good looking as a woman: don't eat like a fucking hippo.

One of these is substantially easier than the other, and the easiest path is the one filled with people who complain the most about not being able to maintain it.

247spyz4life · 2019-08-14T21:08:41+00:00

I used to be fat but I wasn’t ugly so I’d go after chubby girls with cute faces. They always went for skinny, ugly dudes. Then I lost weight and decent looking women were attracted to me...along with fat chicks. When you’re a fat chick there’s always gonna be dudes that think you’re hot, not the same for a guy.

Scienceguruuu1995 · 2019-08-14T19:02:10+00:00

I do sometimes pump and dump them or play mind games, it’s cruel but women are cruel

sscoconutree · 2019-08-14T20:48:04+00:00

The fact that these fat thots setting up what they want on men in dating sites makes me wanna puke.

asuvalskas · 2019-08-14T19:57:18+00:00

Damn if I had a twitter I'd follow this man. But I'm done with Twitter. All social media is a superficial place where above average people thrive and average people like me just get depressed from it. If someone wants to know how I'm doing they can text me.

lilmsaj · 2019-08-14T18:48:37+00:00

Less youre into that

Graypube88 · 2019-08-14T19:01:44+00:00

Amen to that.

Natuasi · 2019-08-14T21:21:40+00:00

Fat bitches give the best head....its fact, look it up.

FishWhisker · 2019-08-14T19:40:19+00:00

Ok ok you're beautiful, sure you can identify however you please. Now let's set aside your narcissism and separate health from aesthetics. You are "beautiful" and you are dying.

NYCCOOP · 2019-08-14T20:41:11+00:00

Equality: same praise as an obese man

As a former skinny-fat man I see no problems here.

MuchIndependence · 2019-08-14T23:29:38+00:00

I hate fat bitches so goddamn much, they have the worst attitudes and act sexually aggressive. I must remind them of food somehow, they're always on me like glaze on a doughnut

Crankshaft1337 · 2019-08-14T22:51:56+00:00

Being fat is a disease. Our bodies are not designed to carry that much adipose tissue.

LOIKDU · 2019-08-14T23:02:11+00:00

Amen.

I'm disgusted by fat women, that's a fact.

But aren't we here just like women who are disgusted at poor/weak men ? The same women who brought us to the redpill ?

[deleted] · 2019-08-14T20:28:41+00:00

The problem is that this is still paying attention to them. That's what women want: attention. If they can't get positive attention then they will take negative.

So just ignore fat women. If pressed just say "not my type" and refuse to go into detail.

kayfab · 2019-08-14T21:41:36+00:00

hahah RIGHT ON

TrueLoner · 2019-08-14T21:44:46+00:00

Obese deserve a amen because they are men woman are scum but if you come to me with body positivy or some shit fuck off

MayorPufnstuf · 2019-08-14T23:20:41+00:00

In my experience, overweight men take accountability for their weight and don’t try to make excuses for it or try to normalize it. The same cannot be said for women

BlastedMTorr · 2019-08-15T00:01:29+00:00

Is this about that Lizzo I keep Hearing about? People really wanted me to say I find her to be 'beautiful' during a work break conversation the other day, &... I really really do not.

I work with too many idiots.

Greeneyeball67 · 2019-08-15T00:08:20+00:00

I bet someone was aggressively eaten a cookie while reading this post.

HiImIncel03 · 2019-08-15T00:37:18+00:00

obesity is mental illness

Aashami · 2019-08-15T00:47:38+00:00

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HostileCamper · 2019-08-15T01:23:50+00:00

But... Vagina.

rukbin011 · 2019-08-15T05:07:58+00:00

Correct!, obesity is not fucking healthy, you don't look pretty and you don't look handsome. And there's a higher chance that you will get sick or die early.

papabearcat · 2019-08-15T05:10:05+00:00

Shout out to all my curvy fellas out there!

Revorob · 2019-08-15T05:45:46+00:00

100% agree. If women were shamed for being obese, they would quickly get in shape. Women (much more than men) respond to shame.

Cordigrass · 2019-08-15T11:30:37+00:00

Oh-Beast!

Obese women will just destroy a man's knee joints and pelvic bone during sex. Too much fat between dick and pussy making it hard to penetrate obese women . And too much fat is not good for pregnancy. Obese women also consume too much making it financially burdensome on a man.

The good side is obese women make excellent life rafts in a boat emergency. They're more likely to float with all the fat containing oil on there body. They also make good pedestrian blocks against rowdy people.

olsing · 2019-08-15T18:56:43+00:00

At my work one fat women singed up on date site. I'm so shocked how many messages she receives. It's like 2 per day from boys from nearby area. She often reads and show this messages to coworkers. She had guy that wrote to her 3 times in 2 days, she said he must be desperated so she insta blocked him. She herself only write to very handsome men that have some small companies.

Man if 2 women wanted to date you every day your standards would rise much too.

RobinPassio · 2019-08-14T17:48:14+00:00

Not interested in FlabbyAbby or ObeseDenise.

somber_smiles · 2019-08-14T22:55:53+00:00

God damn Right!

sk1239 · 2019-08-14T22:58:19+00:00

You gotta check comment sections under this guy's twits. Almost every single one is winrar

Penitent-Sinner · 2019-08-14T23:13:39+00:00

Only in the west the lack of discipline and self control celebrated as beauty 😂

RadicalREDPILLERZ · 2019-08-14T23:32:19+00:00

AMEN brother

likwid2k · 2019-08-15T01:32:37+00:00

If you’re really fit, fat girls wont dare initiate anything with you. It notice they become very self conscious about their bodies.

Gingham_Argile · 2019-08-15T01:58:12+00:00

Damn sure I'm working on my own shit. No F'n doubt. Got my diet right. Just need to keep pressing on my exercise and developing my mind.

And Amen.

[deleted] · 2019-08-15T05:26:41+00:00

Lizzo makes me cringe

goldielocks169 · 2019-08-15T05:59:46+00:00

Men arnt sookie enough to demand equel rights

stent00 · 2019-08-15T13:24:37+00:00

driving to work today i was amazed at all the ham beasts walking around... only 1 out of 6 was a normal healthy BMI.

Silversiberia · 2019-08-15T13:58:38+00:00

I feel sorry for short guys, but not for fat women. You can't change your height, but you can change weight.

Blackkillerjoe · 2019-08-15T16:59:46+00:00

Preach bro, fucking whales thinking they’re as hot as Kim K. Give me a break

[deleted] · 2019-08-15T17:29:35+00:00

Amen

thevenimo · 2019-08-19T13:34:07+00:00

I personally praise men of all body types because body positivity is important for not just women but all people... But go off I guess.

PresumptuousLogos · 2019-08-21T13:53:10+00:00

I think the problem here is that men and women alike tend to think that the opposite gender thinks like them. Men forget that, compared to them, women rarely suffer from the male equivalent of ED (something that prevents penetrative, Penis-in-vagina sex), and women forget that men can't have penetrative sex with their penises unless they can get it up in the first place - which does NOT happen on demand.

The result is that you have women unconsciously assuming that men COULD have sex with fat women and would want to date them were it not for how socially unacceptable or ridiculed it would be, and you have men unconsciously wondering how a woman could even imagine them 'getting it up' for obese women, and not considering that this misunderstanding exists.

I'm attracted to a pretty wide range of bodies, even chunky or curvy ones, but past a certain point where a woman goes from chubby to feedee-sized, I literally cannot get it up for them. The thought of their naked bodies literally makes my penis shrivel up on its own and my gut turn. Honestly, I'm not shaming them - this is just how it makes me feel, and it's something I cannot control. If they say I'm still obliged to treat them like the skinnier women I'm attracted to, they're implying that I should force myself to get erect (maybe use a penis pump, a cock ring, and a chemical cocktail to keep myself erect), and fantasize about other women if necessary to achieve ejaculation.

niaballew · 2019-08-23T20:13:38+00:00

oh yea there’s absolutely no way obesity is a medical condition that makes it hard to lose weight but easy crazy...unless

Melody195 · 2019-08-24T22:23:09+00:00

A lot of people here are saying they would never date a “fat chick” and at the same time are saying they would never date an “obese” chick like it’s the same thing.

Fat /=/ obese

You can be fat even though you go to the gym and eat relatively healthy stuff (with the occasional treat because why not)

You can be plus size even though you have more muscle mass than someone else who is thinner.

Not all people are built the same, so healthy for someone looks like a chubby tummy or chaffed thighs, because under neath that they don’t have health issues and are healthy. For some people it’s impossible to have the “ideal” flat stomach and tigh gap, and when they try to get that they get health issues and eating disorders

However, obeseity is a health problem, and should be taken care of. No one is “healthy” when they aren’t able to walk up the stairs withough getting extremely tired, or whenever they stand they get a head rush.

Fat and thin are good, as long as the person is healthy withough health problems and is physically active

Extremely skinny or overweight is bad, because it’s unhealthy and can be signs of not being physically active enough.

It’s okay to prefer to date a fit woman, but make sure that you don’t actually mean a underweight woman.

Fit and healthy are good, blob and bones aren’t

Murkywater01 · 2019-10-01T00:58:03+00:00

Fat guys get hella pussy though so....

cjreviewstf · 2019-12-11T23:57:05+00:00

They deserve the same praise as an obese man, which means praise for their accomplishments. Attractive people deserve the same

matjessill · 2020-01-24T09:13:48+00:00

They shouldn't be shamed, shouldn't be praised

JeanPTY507 · 2019-08-14T22:57:12+00:00

TerraFx · 2019-08-15T03:20:40+00:00

Does personality not have a play in any of it

XOXOSONYPONY · 2019-10-28T03:15:26+00:00

But all the men in this sub are obese and unattractive. Which is why they are on this sub! The double standard!!!!!

A12yoredditkid · 2019-12-28T00:39:35+00:00

Well, im a fat man and you can go to fuck yourself.

ILikeMapslul · 2020-01-02T23:12:52+00:00

instead of shitting on people for promoting body positivity for women because men get none, why not also promote body positivity for both women and men?

munt4life123 · 2019-08-15T01:58:21+00:00

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unp0ss1bl3 · 2019-08-15T03:09:05+00:00

Oh come on guys. I’m trying to give you a chance, and open to being converted. I’ve said so on other posts.

But how is this at all Men Going Their Own Way? Its just groupthink, again.

Downvote me if u like, I’m still trying to get the best perspective of this whole thing you got here.

munt4life123 · 2019-08-14T18:45:00+00:00

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Title	Can I get a amen,
Author	munt4life123
Upvotes	4743
Comments	269
Date	August 14, 2019 5:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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