He did the right thing.

PipBoyTInkerer · 2020-01-28T23:51:16+00:00

If they are asking you to open the relationship, they already have a guy lined up (or is already fucking him). He absolutely made the right move.

He could say no -> she cheats on him anyway, they eventually break up
He says yes -> she fucks the guy, becomes a rabid slut while he continues to pay relationship-taxes and get sloppy seconds (or thirds...or fourths), they eventually break up
He dumps her -> only way he leaves with dignity

Tosinone · 2020-01-28T23:18:28+00:00

Finally someone with a spine.

tommy5alami · 2020-01-28T23:19:35+00:00

10 shekels he fucks all her friends now

tedshreddon · 2020-01-28T23:50:25+00:00

She's a whore. You were smart and honestly, my guess is she was already cheating and felt guilty so suggested her whore idea.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2020-01-29T00:19:12+00:00

First of all, just don't date girls at all.

But if you do, her asking for an open relationship is her declaring to you that she's already cheating on you and just is trying to frame it in a way to clear her conscience. When she asks for an open relationship, it means she's already fucking another guy. The only men who disagree with this are virgins who have never actually had a girlfriend.

The correct thing to do when she asks for an open relationship is to dump her on the spot. The guy 100% did the right thing.

ron191 · 2020-01-28T23:37:54+00:00

You did the right thing. Don't let her friends gaslight you. If her friends texting you bothers you block them. It's your body and your choice. Don't let her give you something that you have to live with the rest of your life.

GmanRaz · 2020-01-29T01:04:00+00:00

My ex wife attempted to do the same thing before leaving. I told her straight faced that it was me or not me at all, ever again in any capacity.

She chose poorly.

ghebert001 · 2020-01-29T02:29:07+00:00

When a woman wants to open the relationship she is already cheating on you...she just doesn't want to hide it anymore.

MisterInspector · 2020-01-29T00:43:28+00:00

She asked for permission but she was already cheating.

screeching-tard · 2020-01-29T03:10:22+00:00

When women suggest this only means one of two things

1.They are already cheating

2.They already have the guy lined up

Purplmonky · 2020-01-29T03:11:19+00:00

To whoever did that: great fucking call. Reminds me of when my gf started mentioning some guy I had never heard of before and out of the blue as soon as she turned 21 wanted to have girls nights out and get even more tattoos. I dumped her and she said I was too jealous and two days later she said she wouldn’t talk to the guy and not drink and do whatever I said. She called me crying begging me to take her back. Her harpy friend who is a massive slit told her to just take her location off and to do whatever she wanted. Not gonna happen you broke trust in a way where there’s no going back.

CyberSmith34 · 2020-01-29T00:03:48+00:00

One of the few last men in the western simpdom, godspeed to you, good sir.

skeletonshorror · 2020-01-28T23:42:41+00:00

You did the right thing but why have a girlfriend in the first place?

CerebralAbrasion · 2020-01-29T03:14:12+00:00

The hive almost always plays a part when she decides to ruin things.

grizzer99 · 2020-01-29T04:39:34+00:00

Women wonder why men don't want marriages or even long term relationships. They pull shit like that nonsense then get all angry at men when we walk away. Good riddance. I'll never do an open relationship in my life

kingjohn1919 · 2020-01-29T01:34:18+00:00

100% right...run as fast as possible from THOT

_MCMXCVI_ · 2020-01-29T02:37:09+00:00

She would have done it regardless. Any time a bitch has the audacity to suggest an open relationship I suggest you learn something from this guy and BAIL.

DarkboneZ89 · 2020-01-29T05:11:07+00:00

smart man. i lived before the age of 'poly' normalization. ever time i see a man with some poly girl, even if she's hot as shit, i just look down at him like a cockroach. even in my MOST blue pill days, i would've NEVER even allowed that for one second.

_MCMXCVI_ · 2020-01-29T02:38:02+00:00

In this situation, dumping her on the spot is the only way you can exit that relationship with your dignity in hand. This guy did the right thing!

SeptetRa · 2020-01-29T02:15:09+00:00

You're good Brother

everydaygreyman · 2020-01-29T03:19:07+00:00

He had only one play and he made it.

Mitchel-256 · 2020-01-29T05:04:40+00:00

His girlfriend was pressured to continue the whore culture, and he was pressured to accept it. To hell with it, anon. Reject it. Stand against it. Tell her what she is for even considering it.

Considered_Dissent · 2020-01-29T09:59:01+00:00

I asked my girlfriend if she was cool with me randomly drugging her meal one night so that she'd wake up to discover that I'd permanently sold her into slavery on the other side of the world.

Now she's refusing to eat anything i cook for her, wont stay over at my place and wants to end the relationship. What a bitch! Seriously what's her problem?? I was just asking!!!!1

Once Trust is broken, it's impossible to put back together. And there certainly are unforgivable questions, or at least ones that come with severe consequences. These idiots want to magically lock in everything they currently have, while also greedily seeing how high they can stack all sorts of extra goodies for themselves; when it inevitably comes tumbling down and they lose it all then all the blame is laden on the stability/sturdiness of the platform they were stacked on, or on whoever failed to rein in her greed, her greed itself is never to be discussed.

carter_pride · 2020-01-29T05:32:57+00:00

She was already fucking. The “ask” was an attempt to get her dying conscience to scream “Yasss Queen!” in line with the feminist egomania of our day and age.

Paladin2903 · 2020-01-29T05:22:19+00:00

A man with a spine in the Ununited Simps of Amerihell?? Let me call the newspaper.

voncloft22 · 2020-01-29T10:25:39+00:00

Woman asks for open relationship... MAN NEEDS TO MAN UP AND LET HER EXPLORE!!!

Man does the same to his woman... OMG MEN ARE PIGS!!!!!

Solution is to just pay for a hooker, no drama, no emotion, just pure lust.

VenumEagle · 2020-01-29T09:01:23+00:00

yep, fuck the thotroach

sd4c · 2020-01-29T09:26:57+00:00

There is no such thing as an open relationship.

That's the whole basis of "relationship". We talk and hang out with other people, but only have sex with each other.

If one party (or both) wants to expand that to we talk, hang out with AND have sex with each other and other people, that's called "fuck buddies" or, "friends with benefits".

*Not friends but have sex: Anonymous Hookup

*Friends but don't have sex: Platonic Friends, aka Just Friends

*Friends that have sex with each other and 3rd parties: FWBs

*Friends that have sex with only each Other: "In a Relationship"

YOU CAN'T RE-NAME FRIENDS-WITH-BENEFITS TO "OPEN RELATIONSHIP" BECAUSE THEN WHAT WOULD FWB BE????

(This is the part where she or he will attempt to lie about only having "true" feelings for you, and merely being physically attracted to others. Which is perfectly normal, but the voluntary refusal to indulge in those urges, and thus accepting the risk of missing out on a better deal, are in fact the defining sacrifice of an intimate relationship! Open relationship's self-contradictory, like "open borders" or "vegan meat".)

purplebank · 2020-01-29T01:22:35+00:00

Good luck indeed

Another_Human_Bot · 2020-01-29T03:11:12+00:00

Thats a smart guy.

Janiz112233 · 2020-01-29T04:55:39+00:00

I like this doomer dude

kayfab · 2020-01-29T05:54:07+00:00

Shaming tactics another great women quality

Kylepoma8587 · 2020-01-29T07:15:15+00:00

“Geez relax” is a standard modern female reaction to try to manipulate you and get out of trouble. Get away from her and her friends ASAP

thehedgehawg · 2020-01-29T07:55:49+00:00

He opened the relationship WAAAYYYY the fuck up....

ResultsoverExcuses · 2020-01-29T03:39:56+00:00

Smart move

DreamDelving · 2020-01-29T07:07:47+00:00

Look up the cuck Jidenna. Dide is a handsome black guy and allows this cuck behavior simply because he thinks its unfair for him to bang other women while expecting his girlfriend not to do the same.

A man sleeping with multiple women isn't the same thing as a woman sleeping with multiple men. Society does not see men as whores for sleeping with multiple women and that's the honest truth. Ladies stop being hoes.

MASTERoQUADEMAN · 2020-01-29T08:17:32+00:00

It’s hard finding a good woman to stay with. Finding a good pounding isn’t though.

pfresh331 · 2020-01-29T09:22:37+00:00

Would've only been a matter of time

Taeqwondeles · 2020-01-29T09:55:05+00:00

at that point i feel she's voided the relationship contact and is opening negotiations for a new one, so there's no foul in simply walking away.

[deleted] · 2020-01-29T10:08:20+00:00

That's a shit test and this dude passed it with 5 stars!

Never give a whore a free pass, put her in her place and walk away.

Guitarpeace · 2020-01-29T10:44:30+00:00

Good for you for ending it. Who in their right mind would even question that when they’re in a relationship with a nice person. What a dingbat and I’m very proud of you, you walked away. It’s good you dated for two years and then found this out it’s good you don’t have kids with her. There are a lot of crazy bitches out there and I have warned my sons. i’m trying to teach them about personality disorders like narcissism, borderline and bipolar disorders. Everyone has got to know about these disorders and study them. The narcissists are the worst along with the borderlines because they are the hardest to decipher at first.

Blayne-Tomari · 2020-01-29T10:46:16+00:00

He avoided a world of pain and drama.

No man with even a shred of self-respect would agree and put up with that.

He chose the path of dignity by giving her the flick.

electronicoffee · 2020-01-29T09:59:13+00:00

As pipboytinkerer said: " If they are asking you to open the relationship, they already have a guy lined up " 100% facts.

PatnarDannesman · 2020-01-29T10:45:03+00:00

He did the right thing. It is the way.

ruifaf · 2020-01-29T10:52:57+00:00

That last one sentence resumes it all

puppy_monkey_baby__ · 2020-01-29T11:27:19+00:00

Good for him really. I would've maybe hired an escort for a threesome if I had money and dumped her right after. Only if I had money and was able to emotionally disconnect which isn't necessarily easy. Dumping right away is definitely the only option for a good man and strong one.

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2020-01-29T12:09:56+00:00

She already cheated on him.

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boihuh58 · 2020-01-29T00:54:30+00:00

Well done! You are showing her that you have standards.

Bad_Routes · 2020-01-29T02:14:39+00:00

She asked my guy, just say no??? Like that's an option

acal1995 · 2020-01-29T06:03:06+00:00

Truuuu

jeembhumba · 2020-01-29T06:28:59+00:00

I just hope the person didn't turn to alcoholism or substance abuse, really hope his life changed for the better.

DispairKing94 · 2020-01-29T06:33:19+00:00

What a hoe

Bpinchosrep · 2020-01-29T06:42:45+00:00

If she even speaks about it that means she’s already did it.

DreamDelving · 2020-01-29T07:04:21+00:00

Don't worry about it playboy you got this. Plenty of more fish in the sea.

KaitouNala · 2020-01-29T12:51:51+00:00

Lol asking to cheat? you mean she has already cheated behind your back and now just wants permission to do it openly.

More importantly, she wants to fuck other guys without giving up the benefits of you paying for her everything.

LOL no.

x6x6x61982 · 2020-01-29T13:43:49+00:00

The best story for me ever is where woman suggests poly shite and the man says yes, and then starts to get some mad side puss.

And the woman is like, oh no that's against the law LOL

Or the one where man starts to bring in some hot trannies LOL, no u!

lazercrazy3 · 2020-01-29T16:58:20+00:00

Good ridance.

sebastian0801 · 2020-01-29T17:50:59+00:00

Well done.

Chanschansu · 2020-01-29T02:53:46+00:00

Womens

ImAllegory · 2020-01-29T03:03:48+00:00

Asking for it or mentioning the idea of it two very different things but it doesn't matter AWALT, be happy you didn't get married or have kids involved.

Soldierbosh · 2020-01-29T06:10:58+00:00

It's the only way they'll learn. I personally would just hard pass, but not immediately dump the ho. But that's kinda beta.

Also fuck her whore friends. Of what value is their opinion? Zero. Block.

tufffffff · 2020-01-29T07:00:37+00:00

Fucking whores need to all be shot

gbevans · 2020-01-29T07:15:35+00:00

what you showed was true self respect, good on you.

DiddlyBoBiddly · 2020-01-29T14:16:27+00:00

She crossed a boundary. Nobody gets to say you have to tolerate it. They don't have your best interests in mind. Head up. Fuck that noise.

expendablekerosene · 2020-01-29T18:00:37+00:00

I know a woman who requested this from her husband. It was 100% because she was already cheating on him with some cat from her gym. She's only with him because she doesn't want to work, live with her mom, and still try to raise her kids. Emotional tamponing will get you a PhD in AWALT.

She tried to justify this by saying he can do it too. They're both overweight but there's always someone willing to go for a moist hole with a fat ass attached to it. She said he can fcuk whoever he wants as long as he doesn't spend money. I explained that she hamstrung him because part of his SMV comes from his 'power' as an earner/provider but he can't use it so his small pool of potentials is basically subordinates at work. She acknowledged the imbalance but is still cheating on him anyway.

Stop to listen long enough and they'll feed you red pills unwittingly.

Saturn1981 · 2020-01-29T19:35:45+00:00

Tell this dude to get a STD test soon.

She’s been fucking around on him for quite a while

LuvJoyMuzik · 2020-01-29T20:07:23+00:00

Id have pushed her out the window! You did the right thing bro.... Peace Of Mind Over Piece Of Pussy

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-01-30T00:13:01+00:00

Well done👍

[deleted] · 2020-01-30T19:31:51+00:00

Why the heck would anyone say yes? Why would anyone even consider to continue this farce? You know sooner or later she will do it anyway. Women always think they can get away with everything when no one is looking.

RepresentativeData5 · 2020-01-31T17:46:09+00:00

The same happened to me. I reacted in the same way. LOL.

Halewynn · 2020-01-29T17:24:35+00:00

Bossmove my man

Wtfbyamey · 2020-01-29T04:02:19+00:00

They still could have remained Fwb tho

kuku321321 · 2020-01-29T14:56:21+00:00

Actually, why not? It’s just a little fun

heartfelt24 · 2020-01-29T06:49:04+00:00

As a poly guy, I believe in equal opportunities for the women too. But I guess monogamous people will be offended by that.

stickmaina · 2020-01-29T07:10:58+00:00

This might fall on deaf ears but I just because someone broaches the idea of opening a relationship doesn't ALWAYS mean they have another person lined up. I opened my three year long relationship without someone in mind. I was reading up on different relationship dynamics and found some non traditional types of dating that I wanted to try. Now if this person truely feels that monogamy is for them, they totally did the right thing by dumping this girl. That isnt what happened with me, we dated for a few months after that before something else broke us apart. That being said, If this girl wants to explore that she really doesnt have the right to complain about him leaving. It looks like she tried to bring it up in a rational way, but became emotional when she didnt get what she wanted.

jself1234 · 2020-01-29T05:30:08+00:00

Ya some guys just don't know how to have fun

Sloth_Demon_685 · 2020-01-29T00:13:44+00:00

OP probably could have talked her into a threesome with another girl.

Possibly fucked up

Title	He did the right thing.
Author	the_ultimate_salvaje
Upvotes	2310
Comments	184
Date	January 28, 2020 11:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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