The Truth About Single Moms...

Volcanic-Penguin · 2019-06-30T10:03:16+00:00

I stuck around for my child, just not for her. She would prefer if I was gone entirely.

ShogunRonin1 · 2019-06-30T13:15:01+00:00

Uk is currently under a epidemic of single mothers... everywhere you go is trash pushing prams..looking after the criminals of the future.

RedPilledLife · 2019-06-30T11:13:38+00:00

Single moms are the cancer of western civilization.

RealBiggly · 2019-06-30T10:09:32+00:00

Nope, most of the time the man wants to and tries but gets pushed away.

lulz3r · 2019-06-30T13:17:07+00:00

The kid? What about the taxpayer subsidizing everything for the little bastard? Society will have to deal with a maladjusted individual with a propensity for crime. The consequences of her bad decisions don’t end with her “struggles”, aka consequences. Everything else is spot-on.

mangoapplepear · 2019-06-30T12:49:03+00:00

My country once had a single mother who has 3 children from different fathers appear on the news and front page of the main paper because she was “independent” and “strong” for raising the children on her own.

SS-Imperator · 2019-06-30T12:46:05+00:00

What is with single moms where the father died (because of an accident etc.)? These moms are true heros for raising their children and still being loyal to their dead husband.

juicyjerry300 · 2019-06-30T13:47:19+00:00

this isn’t true in every case, sometimes the father dies, or turns out to be a piece of shit and the mom does whats best for the children.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-06-30T13:24:50+00:00

As if women think about the kid?

savourtheflavor · 2019-06-30T14:59:19+00:00

“You cannot subsidize irresponsibility and expect people to become more responsible.” -Thomas Sowell

I believe he was speaking about the welfare state as a whole, but it’s clear this applies to single mothers 80% of which, statistically speaking, initiated the divorce.

Daddy government built the safety net for whenever they decide to pull the ripcord on marriage.

[deleted] · 2019-06-30T15:45:25+00:00

Most single moms are single by choice. They got pregnant because all they care about is babies, and had zero intention of staying with the father. They chase the father off for BS reasons. They’re not victims

stupidmunk · 2019-06-30T13:45:06+00:00

What about if their husband died, or the father was abusive, or rape victims who didn’t get an abortion, or the father just decided to leave?

[deleted] · 2019-06-30T13:59:38+00:00

Came here to say I tried to stick around. Even have to sacrifice some of my dignity to get to be with him. I will do everything in my power to be in my kid's life

mackshacku · 2019-06-30T14:02:24+00:00

This post seems to blame the man, mostly its the women who sends HIM packing.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-06-30T15:23:24+00:00

I find the assumption that the man didn't want to stick around a bit too much. There are tons of simps who try to be around the woman who birthed their child. One should consider why the man didn't stick around instead of automatically assuming the man is a douche if the woman is a single mom.

Especially MGTOW should know better.

bkolson · 2019-06-30T15:28:39+00:00

I would guess that most of the time these cunts run the Father off.

kaolin224 · 2019-06-30T15:38:26+00:00

I've had an ex flat out tell me she wouldn't mind being a stay at home mom and giving up her six figure career if she was bank rolled.

Single moms are the same way, except they don't have the ability to get into a six figure career, nor will they ever, because they fucked up and burned their potential too early.

You can't have your cake and eat it, too. That's just not how life works... but you can cheat the game if you know how alimony and child support works.

Kronosfkg · 2019-06-30T16:02:45+00:00

Child of single mother here : this is true

MiniCager · 2019-06-30T12:49:27+00:00

What if the dad died?

BushcraftHatchet · 2019-06-30T13:43:31+00:00

"A" poor choice?! And the one choice is to pick the wrong man because HE left her?

How about the fact that in 70% of divorces it is initiated by the woman? Sounds like she is choosing him, choosing to get pregnant and THEN choosing to leave him.

EconomistMagazine · 2019-06-30T16:37:46+00:00

I disagree with the post because that's not the only side to the story but don't disagree that single mom's have issues.

A woman can have sex with diaphragms, birth control, Plan B, or get an abortion or adoption after. Men can... Use condoms. The woman has no excuse and CHOOSES TO KEEP THE KID.

Sometimes the man is an awful man and the woman SHOULD leave. In such a case why did she sleep with him and keep the kid?

Sometimes women just want to have a kid, any kid, and get extra money for it. The man got swindled and the woman treated him, AND the child, like they were completely there to serve her self interest.

templarinferno · 2019-06-30T16:41:02+00:00

How does her making her own decision of wanting to have a kid NOT her fault? Goodness take ur responsibility and stop trying to ride another dick and expect financial support, we all know they materialistic as hell, don’t fall into this men.

Gbobby101 · 2019-06-30T17:36:00+00:00

I think most guys step up and help with the child. It’s the Moms that drive the dads away.

Kenith-Keniff · 2019-06-30T19:02:41+00:00

Not all dads are deadbeats I left my partner because she cheated, she destroyed a family unit because she was the deadbeat.

TheObelisk · 2019-06-30T15:55:45+00:00

From what i tend to see, it isn't the man not wanting to stick around, but the woman who wants to leave the man and take his child with her.

hakoonamatata9 · 2019-06-30T16:22:40+00:00

Theres literally 3 things you need to do in life to live a middle to upper middle class life. 1. Finish college. And I dont mean fancy shit. I mean learn a skill, trade or get into a field which is in high demand. 2. Dont buy shit you cannot afford and save 10-20% of your earnings. 3. DO NOT have a kid out of wedlock.

And yet most people fucking fail at it. I blame the culture and the fucking trashheap celebrities for spreading the plague of hedonistic lifestyle.

FritzLn · 2019-06-30T17:06:40+00:00

Just further proof that women are implicitly accepted as perfect and men are to be blamed for everything.

These women opened their legs and allowed scumbags to ejaculate in them because they're stupid or they were so physically attracted to them or both.

Nothing more nothing less.

The celebration of women for merely existing, the dismissal and/or forgiveness for every bad decision they make all the while expecting men to be perfect and pay for everything either directly or indirectly will cripple this country.

No one will see it coming because men don't matter.

Keep slaving for society and women boys!

Oh, don't forget you're not entitled to anything!!

You weren't born with a vagina.

drmangrum · 2019-06-30T19:12:03+00:00

I would add that she could have chosen to leave the father, not because he mistreated her, but because she was "not happy."

In most cases, single motherhood is a choice they make because there are no negatives to their choice. The father will still have to fork over most of his cash and there are numerous government programs to fill the gaps; especially if she's black or Hispanic

bushwicksick · 2019-06-30T19:50:13+00:00

Single mothers are among the worst of the human race.

EffinWhiteMale · 2019-06-30T20:29:37+00:00

Lol @ all the simps in this thread... Welcome to mgtow, get comfy you'll be back here when you see the true nature of women/single mummys (no we're not talking about widows 😂), it's only a matter of time. Not even worried, see you then!

incelposter · 2019-06-30T20:37:36+00:00

Women have their pick of men from late teens to mid 20s. The stereotypical single mom (ie no widows) have no one to blame but themselves.

Ladies, you're the gatekeepers to sex and marriage. If you intentionally ignore red flags because the guy is hot, that's on you.

ironiksteel · 2019-06-30T20:44:10+00:00

Men have a choice to have a kid, oh wait, they don't.

Makonar · 2019-07-01T06:32:54+00:00

To be fair, I think a lot of single moms are single by choice. They either chose the man they knew wouldn't stick around or they did, but it's the mom who didn't stick around... only the mom took the kid and the child support with her as she went.

BandFreakSnatch · 2019-06-30T13:45:48+00:00

Yeah cos people are honest and truthful all the time. The father may have died, or the father may have promised her the world and screwed off. How would any of that be the woman's fault?

Sid_Vichous · 2019-06-30T16:30:09+00:00

Making too much sense.

xXx_turtle69_xXx · 2019-06-30T18:12:27+00:00

Surely it's the Dads fault for leaving the mother to raise the kid alone?

JAVSTER10 · 2019-06-30T19:25:06+00:00

Not only that, most of these single moms are #Mommypreneurs - collecting government subsidies and/or child support.

itsforhismum · 2019-06-30T19:42:59+00:00

Or they are so fucked up that a man leaves bis child behind to get away from her

Butwhohurtyou · 2019-06-30T19:52:27+00:00

I haven't seen my son for almost 3.5 years. I'm abusive, controlling and mentally unstable. Yet the "child" support arrives on time, every month. That's all they care about.

All supported by social workers, solicitors, family courts and wider society as a whole.

Quite sickening to think about the scale of it. The millions of kids missing out on guidance from a loving Dad.

The only option now is to let it all burn. I'll see my son when he is 18 and hopefully he wont be too far brainwashed.

Lurkers: don't give women your seed, not in these corrupt times. You'd be a fool.

fasterfind · 2019-06-30T23:01:58+00:00

If your partner isn't going to stick around and you choose to keep your pregnancy... that's your choice, not his. That's on you. And it's an incredibly poor choice because you probably don't have the money to do that on your own, you definitely don't have the time.

Agreed, single parenthood is a terrible fucking decision, and it should be frowned upon. It means you're stupid.

meisannpc · 2019-07-01T02:43:33+00:00

Glorifying gullibility is just moronic. People who get impregnated by someone who leaves are just gullible.

FitCorner7 · 2019-07-01T16:21:32+00:00

True but they are many dads who the moms refuse to let the dad have a decent relationship with their child. Then cry a river when the next guy doesnt want to step up

mgtowjoe · 2019-06-30T11:44:02+00:00

My ex used to tell me how awesome it was going to be once she was a single mom. I predict she's going to right the 🐓 🎠 for the next 4 years and come crawling back when she realizes that she had an honest to god hard working man that loved her. Truth be told I can't wait so I can tell her to fuck right off.

Going to court next week for joint custody of my son. Once thats settled I just have to wait for her to fuck up a few times then go for full custody.

Then I will raise my son to be MGTOW and he will be the first generation of cradle to the grave MGTOW!

pangolin001 · 2019-06-30T12:48:16+00:00

Some chick asked "How is it her fault if he left" but before I could finish typing my reply she deleted her comment. This is what i had to say:

She chose poorly. It's the womans choice. It is always the womans choice. If you don't know this, know it now, it's the womans choice.

So, if she choice to fuck Billy bad boy, tattoo Tim, lazy Larry, Macho Mike, Stupid Steve, Under Achiever Edward, that's HER fault.

Also, if she had a child too young, that was her choice, but yet she's going to act like one of the aforementioned guys were going to 'grow up' at fucking 18 years old, then she's also a fucking idiot.

And this also leads too the thing that happened more often than "he went out for a pack of smokes and never came back": She tried to change, mould, control, and hen peck the guy while she laid around on her fat ass going "look at the baby everybody, look at the baby everybody" and it squeezed him out because of her "I've got you now mother fucker" attitude. Then when he left (or she threw him out) she goes "See! He was a piece of shit, I told you he was a piece of shit" and we MGTOW are standing there going... "oh, this again, maybe it was YOU and your poor choices because Nathan the next door nice guy was in love with you and would have done everything for you, but that was too easy, you wanted Billy Bad Boy because he got your motor running and in your hubris you thought you'd be able to change the lion into a fucking house cat while using his child as leverage to control him so that Lion went Lion and said FUCK THIS, I'm an alpha, no one controls me! Especially not a female... and left"

RixDixRox · 2019-06-30T13:14:35+00:00

Awesome

Strtwrktguy · 2019-06-30T14:07:17+00:00

This logic can be applied to fat acceptance too. "I can't take care of myself, celebrate me because my poor choices made me a victim."

Vorobubumgtwanyan · 2019-06-30T15:44:46+00:00

1) Being raised like you're a girl because a woman doesn't know what being a man is like.

2) Being angry at you for not acting like a man.

3) Punishing you whenever you do something manly because of her protective instinct.

4) You believing that woman are goddesses, end-all-be-all to your life and that you should feel honored they even bothered talking to you before abruptly leaving.

5) Hating men for doing the slightest manly stuff because that's bad.

6) Refusing to swear, spit, show emotions, show needs, develop ambitions or any develop goals or purpose for yourself.

7) Believing that you're bad for having needs, desires and emotions, even though you're suppressing them.

Does this sound fun to you? Would you like to live your life this way? Do you know what it's like to be in your early 20's and have spent 3 years so far battling against this programming every single god damn day and slipping frequently back into it because of how familiar and 'right' it feels??

By all means, I'll switch places with you.

banqu0s_gh0st · 2019-06-30T16:46:25+00:00

Lol what about those mums who's huspand died or cheated on them?

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-06-30T17:10:59+00:00

The father suffers too, whether he's the father or not.

[deleted] · 2019-06-30T17:35:59+00:00

Glorifying a single mom is like praising an unemployed father. And people don't praise unemployed fathers, they get the kids taken away until they can find a job while still being expected to make support payments.

Feminism: All the benefits, none of the responsibilities.

sstasia · 2019-06-30T18:39:23+00:00

Fun fact: widows are single moms too

Obscure- · 2019-06-30T19:21:46+00:00

I don’t see how it’s solipsism?

DojoDodo · 2019-06-30T19:51:16+00:00

As a kid of a very caring mom and a dad who dont wants to have contact with me after after i tried it multiple times to get in contact with him, i find this a little bit one sided..

AntiAbleism · 2019-06-30T20:10:21+00:00

They went for pussy tingles and not logic.

RegiusGeralt · 2019-06-30T22:55:43+00:00

I wish people value family than other things but seems everything was meant to fall apart because of agendas.

godworksout · 2019-07-01T02:49:52+00:00

I have always told them they made a poor sexual selection and watch while they squirm and get offended.

Explicit_Tech · 2019-07-01T23:53:49+00:00

My dad was a deadbeat alcoholic. Drank to his last drank. Total kids: 15.

My mother on the other hand...broken childhood with a broken adulthood.

Me: PTSD

mgtowjoe · 2019-07-04T15:35:36+00:00

Good man I just want my son to know one day the hell I went through to make sure I was a part of his life.

StreepSheep · 2019-06-30T21:07:40+00:00

Surely leaving the child is worse than “choosing poorly”....??????

liam909mam · 2019-07-11T23:18:11+00:00

Alright, this pisses me the fuck off. My mother and my father didn’t work about because he rather buy booze then anything for a child? My mother receives no child support etc and my dad doesn’t want anything to do with me. My mother is carrying me and her all on her own, so there ya go that’s why they are glorified.

BandFreakSnatch · 2019-06-30T13:46:42+00:00

Some of you people are actually horrible. Jesus

Disposable__Male · 2019-06-30T13:58:25+00:00

If he really was "the one" she wouldn't have had to lock down the relationship with premarital sex/children. He would have seen some spark in her that made him want to simp.

Gents, always ask, would I still love her if her vagina turned into a beartrap?

Sp0kySc4rySk3l3t0n · 2019-06-30T17:17:49+00:00

Gee maybe they died... Do you all hate women or something?

asiansrtasty · 2019-07-01T02:01:20+00:00

My mother was single my entire life

My cunt of a father acted "nice" until they got married, then they had me.

Then that cunt left my mother, y'all incels still gonna blame my mom?

QueenSlapFight · 2019-06-30T19:15:23+00:00

I mean, couldn't we blame all the men who have been divorced raped for "picking a bad women"?

And why are we assuming the "man wouldn't stick around for his child"? Most "single moms" I've met have basically used the courts and their personalities to run off the father (and still collect child support). This is just a veiled message that children with single mothers are such because of the father, when in reality the father is often times powerless to demand meaningful time (or any) with his children.

Siv4Akawine · 2019-06-30T13:53:21+00:00

Yeah, fucking attention whores.

If your husband died you obviously made a very poor choice.

Crazedkittiesmeow · 2019-06-30T14:12:39+00:00

Some single moms do this but what about the ones with bad and abusive husbands?

k995 · 2019-06-30T21:31:34+00:00

So anything that happens in a relationship is the women's fault? Lol talk about being childish.

StubbyHarbinger · 2019-06-30T12:50:40+00:00

Yes because no one here has ever been fooled by someone....

CaptainNessy2 · 2019-06-30T16:46:19+00:00

So its the womans fault the man left, ok

Grekem · 2019-06-30T18:41:41+00:00

“The celebration of single motherhood is solipsism” Does he know what solipsism means?

DangZagnut · 2019-06-30T11:30:38+00:00

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Title	The Truth About Single Moms...
Author	RedPilledLife
Upvotes	1921
Comments	253
Date	June 30, 2019 9:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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