Before checking out of the dating game I used to take women out on “dates” that were based around my hobbies. Rock climbing, shooting range, camping, etc. every single time they wanted to take selfies and post them to social media. At the time I thought little of it because it was simply a byproduct of getting laid. Inevitably I would lose interest and they would go off into the wind.
What I later realized was that these experiences were used by them to build their thot resume to lure in more guys. Their instagrams and facebooks are simply adverts for gash. Some even pretended that the dates I took them on were their hobbies.
I finally realized that every chick who seemed to have hobbies simply had them fucked into them by another guy. They adopted these interests to either impress the man of the moment or as bait to appeal to other men. Every interest is simply a marker of the Chads of Christmas past. None of them develop on their own. If she has cool interests, or good taste in something, you are simply liking her for the interests of men she used to fuck.
Its no different then saying she likes to travel. She wants YOU to pay. If she has already travelled, then she no doubt fucked her way through Europe while on her parents dime or by racking up massive debt.
When ever I hear a woman at work say “I used to do this or that” I stop and think to myself NO! you used to fuck a guy who went and did this and that. Its never their idea. Left to their own devices they could hardly be bothered to leave their widow pads except to stuff cock or pizza down their gullets.
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Eating out, Traveling and Watching netflix are not hobbies.
A Hobby is supposed to be something that is usually constructive. You're acquiring a skill of some sort or building on your creativity.
It always cracks me up when I see guys post Tinder profiles on Reddit where women list their major hobbies and they usually involve consumption instead of creation.
Stay safe boys.
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A friend of mine broke up with a chick after dating for six months. Low and behold another guy we know starts fucking her. I was at a party while this guy was talking about how cool this girl was. ALL the things he liked about her, were the interests of my other friend. . . He may as well have been dating him. It was fucking surreal.
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At first glance it is frustrating to see. Further thought actually shows it as a great teachable moment. If they lack any hobbies of their own and instead morph as needed by adopting the habits of their prey; then they reveal themselves as resource predators.
There are a massive amount of men who have not YET had that “oh shit” MGTOW moment where a woman tears them apart and it all makes sense. Getting to that place can often be a painful process. Unfortunately, without first hand experiences many guys still believe NAWALT.
You cant always convince a guy that any given woman will likely ruin him if givem the chance. You can’t show them direct evidence in their lives. Your, or the strories of others are simply anecdotal to them.
But! If you can point out the hobbies she had fucked into her, and the chameleon type behavior needed to get into that headspace . . . then you are on to something. The wheels can start turning. What else is she hiding? Then you have to ask. . . Is she even consciously doing it. The answer? Maybe yes, but generally no. They don’t know why they do it. Its hardwired software.
Then you realize that she liked those hobbies because she liked YOU. Once shes done with you, she will no longer like those activities or you. (Unless, those hobbies get her male attention on social media).
She means what she says at the time she says it. She really believes she likes those things. She may even believe that she likes or loves you, in the moment. If your beliefs are based on feelings and emotional stimulus; how long can that last without a core set of moral beliefs?
Answer? It can’t. Thats why women are entirely unsuited for marriage. Men can endure based on an enduring sense of morals or idea of honor. Every one of us knows, or are aware of men, from previous generations that stayed with a harpy out of loyalty or some innate sense of honor. Women lack that loyalty component.
If they cant tell you their likes with any honesty, how can they ever like or “love” you? They simply cannot.
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Women, particularly attractive women, have no personality. They have been chased by men so much based on gender and appearance that they haven't had to nurture a personality and hobbies.
Every attractive woman I know that has hobbies was once fat or a dork.
As the OP explains, they must adopt your hobbies to look like they have substance over what they normally do: Talk, eat, text, fuck, watch shitty TV, listen to mainstream music.
Vapid.
Men have character. Women have men.
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Okay holy shit i've just had like 10 realizations after reading this
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Cheers mate. Gotta ride the lightning and go your own way.
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