I see a lot of posts on here from guys who say something along the lines of "I was in a dead bedroom for years and then I found out my wife cheated on me years ago. Now I've gotten my shit together and we're having great sex but I'm angry at my wife for cheating on me years ago when I was a faggot."

These posts bother me a little bit because the poster is upset at his wife, when in fact AWALT. Any other woman would have done the same damn thing in that situation. If you stop being a man for years, of course the wife is going to run off and get some action on the side.

If you fell into a coma for a decade, and the doctors said "We don't know when or if he'll ever wake up" would you really be mad at your wife if she had sex with somebody else five years into your coma while you were effectively dead to the world?

If it makes you feel better then go get some of your own cheating action on the side to "get even" but don't be upset at women for being women. It seems to me these posters are upset that "their wife did something wrong" and don't realize that all women in that situation behave that way. It's not a case of "your wife is defective" it's a case of "you were defective."

Channel your anger into improving your lifts.