Apparently, women can’t be rapists

petrel5 · 2020-04-03T18:43:56+00:00

Considering the amount of criticism directed towards current rape laws for being too one-dimensional, it's funny how sometimes it's those same critics who are seemingly willing to pull out the outdated "penis forcibly pushed into orifice" definition to narrow it down to men like it's no biggie.

4l0N3D · 2020-04-03T20:02:36+00:00

What if a woman prevents the male from withdrawal at the point of climax? & prior to preventing, the agreement was to be ABLE to withdraw?

C0II1n · 2020-04-03T20:34:58+00:00

imagine being such a smarmy fuck that you put an acute accent in actus reus, even though it's latin and those accents don't exist. jfc

runningeagle01 · 2020-04-03T21:32:21+00:00

That guy is a nutcase. They said that erections are voluntary as a justification for their “men can’t be raped” claim. It’s ridiculous. I really hope they’re trolling

Edit. They replied to me saying a that erections aren’t voluntary saying “That’s not what the law says.” I’m just dumbfounded

Likooria · 2020-04-03T20:28:05+00:00

Fucking imbecile feminists dont realize if you force unwilling mans penis inside a vagina, that IS a forceful penetration of vagina, it speaks nothing about who is forcing the penetration, they just assume, because theyre fucking illiterate.

duhhhh · 2020-04-03T18:30:04+00:00

What is the context? The poster above you is correct about the legal definition in about half of jurisdictions and the criteria used by nearly all social science studies. Men also commit a slight majority of sexual offenses.

Stasio300 · 2020-04-03T21:45:59+00:00

In the UK law, it does say that only people with a penis can rape.

fd0263 · 2020-04-04T03:41:46+00:00

Consent is informed and enthusiastic. If one party is purposely mislead by another party about a major detail in the sex, eg. Birth control, the sex is not fully consensual.

smolboi69420-57 · 2020-04-03T20:36:36+00:00

Lying about birth control isn’t rape but it’s definitely wrong, manipulative, and just shitty

*its technical term is reproductive coercion

timeslidesRD · 2020-04-03T21:24:03+00:00

That dictionary.com definition is fucking stupid. So if I shove a carott in your mouth against your will apparently I'll have raped you.

Egalitarianwhistle · 2020-04-03T20:21:25+00:00

If one demographic keep pushing for harsher sentencing, lower thresholds of evidence, and more of another demographic in prison,

and they are immune from prosecution or consequences for doing THE EXACT SAME THING, that is the definition of tyranny.

Zero_Life_Left · 2020-04-04T04:37:58+00:00

Viagra isn't even necessary. You can still be attracted to/aroused by someone and be raped by them. I'm sure if you were tied up, and a woman was grinding up and down, you would still naturally get aroused, even if you didn't want it.

chambertlo · 2020-04-04T07:33:49+00:00

Women are rapists, and i’d argue that women rape men at a much higher rate that the opposite. They get away with it, and have been getting away with it since the start of civilization.

Society ridicules and belittles men who expose their female rapists.

Washys_finest · 2020-04-03T20:18:50+00:00

I know this isint a laughing matter but I tried to downvoted that comment. Some people just don't understand rape.

ShivasKratom3 · 2020-04-03T21:32:16+00:00

Based on his definition literally any sex is rape.

C2074579 · 2020-04-03T20:46:49+00:00

I don't think it's rape but that's seriously fucked up. It fools the man into risking a pregnancy that will impact his life forever. Should be a crime honestly.

tranedecoy · 2020-04-03T21:38:13+00:00

You don't even need Viagra. I had a stepbrother for sometime that gut raped by a Woman as a Teenager. The Penis reacts to to touch quite strongly. You don't have to bei aroused to get hard. Especially as a unexperienced man. Just being confused about the Situation and in stress can lead to an erection

arturo_tamburo · 2020-04-03T22:01:57+00:00

Laws tend to define rape as being done with specifically a penis and arguably that needs to be updated.

It needs to be updated because morally, you don't need a penis to rape someone. Laws, like dictionaries, get used by people with bad moral standards to defend those bad moral standards.

Ret1nic · 2020-04-03T22:38:56+00:00

Wow the person who responded to you is one of THE most toxic people I've ever experienced (I'm not saying that there aren't more toxic people, this is just my experience)

I'm talking about when she(?) responded down in the comments, and later deleted them. I read those comments, and it's awful. To quote:

"God you're such a pathetic little bitch. I'd love to give you a bear hug and hug the bitch right out of you. Trust me mate, being a little faggot like this will just get you knocked out or ignored your whole life. Incel. "

It's truly disgusting that people like this exist and decide to propagate their ideas. And the fact that people like that seem to make up the majority of interactions between us and antiMRA's(?) Truly gives an awful impression of everyone on our opposing side.

808picklejuice · 2020-04-04T02:29:58+00:00

ThE dIctIoNaRy iS SeXist

Brandwein · 2020-04-03T22:49:57+00:00

Even a woman putting her finger in your mouth could be rape by that definition.

point5_ · 2020-04-03T23:09:39+00:00

English is my second language

Is birth control with the pills to not be pregnant?

rabel111 · 2020-04-03T23:21:27+00:00

Most of the jurisdictions that have amended gendered rape laws, no longer define rape at all. Rape is replaced in many places with "sexual assault".

Trouble is that the definitions of sexual assault are frequently flawed and continue to apply a gendered definition of sexual assault, even when using terms like he/she when describing the offender. The acts described are often only physically possible for male anatomy.

CorianderTastesBad · 2020-04-04T01:04:13+00:00

When women try to sound smart but it backfires lol

2020-04-04T01:48:22+00:00

Story time:

About 17 years ago this chick I was fuck friends with used to give me blowjobs while I was asleep. I only found out because my roommate asked me to stop (we were in a barracks scenario). I had no clue she was doing it because I never woke up (apparently I have some sort of sleep disorder). Anyway when he told me I asked how many times and he said “many.” Honestly, it surprised the fuck out of me and it wasn’t cool at all. I have a problem with people touching me when I’m conscious so this really wasn’t cool. Had she woken me up, maybe a different story.

Fast fwd. We distanced as a result. She then stopped by drunk one night. She wanted to get laid and I wasn’t having it. I began to close the door and she stuck her foot it to stop it. Next thing I know I open the door, move to get her foot out of the way and all of a sudden her drunken ninja moves grabbed my arm and pulled me out of the room. She jumped on my back and before she could continue choking and start hitting me I backed up hard against the wall 2 or 3 times. She bit down hard on my neck and I pulled her by her hair and tossed her off of my right shoulder onto her back. I landed down on her and held her down while cocking my fist back to knock her out. I held back and first asked her to calm down twice before my buddy came out of the common room, saw us, and started laughing. We looked at each other, got up, and that was it. I didn’t see her until maybe a year later and she was getting out of the military for being gay. No lie man, unbelievable.

The long and short of it is I’ll never forget that shit, and everyone can get raped and assaulted.

I don’t believe that the majority of women think that radical feminism is a thing. Maybe like 10% of the women there are like big red, the rest of this there to support their friends. The problem with that though is that shitty legislation gets passed because of it.

People should think with their minds and not their emotions. It is possible, the country just needs a little bit more mental health support from our government.

jonathan_the_slow · 2020-04-04T03:21:02+00:00

And men make up the majority of all rape victims

jaheiner · 2020-04-04T03:43:15+00:00

So the woman who held her ex hostage with a machete and made him have sex with her was not rape. Just an FYI.

Empress_Rach · 2020-04-04T07:36:01+00:00

I want that bitch to tell me I wasn't raped by a woman. The woman who tied me the fuck up to the end of a hotel bed and left me there without food and only a bit of water for three days. Coming in only to use me. Ugh I just got MAJOR triggered...

cmcculloch1 · 2020-04-04T09:07:31+00:00

Am I the only one that learnt something I always thought rape was none consensual intercourse and the rest sexual assault

Lui_Le_Diamond · 2020-04-04T09:31:29+00:00

Actually women are equally likely to rape a man.

double-happiness · 2020-04-04T11:18:17+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/may/09/1

http://news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday/hi/dates/stories/march/16/newsid_2521000/2521053.stm (same story)

Alert-Form · 2020-04-04T17:59:42+00:00

If you use a woman's hand to slit her own throat then it was actually suicide and not murder. /s

BruceCampbell123 · 2020-04-03T21:44:01+00:00

rApE iS pEnEtRaTiOn PlUs PoWeR!

Dsb0208 · 2020-04-03T23:44:11+00:00

The internet is not real life.

I wouldn't use people from a comment section as a source- anyone can do it and it's always comes off as desperate or lazy.

davtov3 · 2020-04-04T01:08:55+00:00

So, this has been on my mind for a while.

These women who believe women can't commit rape, what do they think of a woman forcing herself on another woman? Because, I, and most reasonable people, know that it is rape, but both the victim and attacker are female so what do the "women can't rape" kind of people think about a situation like that?

gousaarmy · 2020-04-04T02:12:03+00:00

WoMeN cAnT bE RaPiSt!!!!!!!!!!!

2020-04-04T06:51:06+00:00

I did the unforgivable crime of diving in your profile just to find your comment so I can downvote the other idiot. You really roasted the hell out of that guy. Good job

2020-04-03T23:18:41+00:00

Respondent used Latin so they're both incredibly clever and correct.

WarOfNoise · 2020-04-03T20:43:05+00:00

said a comment with no upvotes in part of thread we're only seeing a tiny bit of

therobincrow · 2020-04-03T20:39:49+00:00

It's not rape. Doesn't mean it's okay. Don't confuse yourself.

Ineedmorebread · 2020-04-04T06:55:31+00:00

Dictionary.com is great and all but my governments definition [UK] is the former.

Edit: lol, downvoted for stating a fact

phyxiusanimus · 2020-04-04T00:31:17+00:00

The law doesn’t agree with the dictionary. From wheat I’ve read, it’s sexual assault unless you’re the one doing the penetration.

Blackjack_senpai · 2020-04-04T05:53:30+00:00

How is that even related to the question being asked? He or she deflected the question and you fell for it.

Ahh the downvotes over a comment that can't be disputed feels so good.

Title	Apparently, women can’t be rapists
Author	Dsb0208
Upvotes	2621
Comments	139
Date	April 3, 2020 6:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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