Being a man is depressing.

Otherwise_Amount9854 · 2023-10-29T21:00:01+00:00

"Men have it so much easier!" If i got the chance to be reborn as a woman and finally leave this annoying life, i'd do it in a heartbeat. That's how "easy" i have it.

SparkleCharm · 2023-10-29T16:13:34+00:00

When you understand that we are all equal under the eyes of the Universe, that's when you understand that the hate that exists in the world stems from ignorance and fear. Knowing and understanding this is really empowering because it allows you to rise above the negativity and focus on using your powers to better yourself. By recognizing that hate often originates from narrow-mindedness and insecurity, you can cultivate overwhelming strength.

They may try to repeat the false narrative and propaganda all they want and as loud as they want, but I know that they will never be able to replace the laws of morality, the laws of physics and how God sees us as men. No, I refuse to accept their bullshit narrative about how we were born in the "wrong and evil" gender.

I was born complete, just as everyone else. No one has the right to dictate my identity or determine my worth based on their own biases. It is through understanding this truth that I find the courage to embrace my authentic self, unapologetically.

Try to take some time, at your own pace to connect yourself to Nature, to learn how your mind works, and to uncover the depths of your soul. You can achieve most of your objectives and shape your life in a way to avoid negative outcomes and attract positive experiences.

You have a much better potential than you think. Don't let anyone or anything limit your dreams or make you believe that you are not worthy of success and happiness. Embrace your unique talents and abilities, and trust that you have the power within you to create a life filled with abundance and fulfillment. Remember, your potential is limitless, and the only person who can truly hold you back is yourself.

Someboxguy · 2023-10-29T20:03:39+00:00

Hang out with other men, create social groups and structures to support each other.

Women have, men tend to be more solitary.

Mountain_Collar_7620 · 2023-10-29T18:34:12+00:00

Dude your value is intrinsic and a biological reality, approval is for only fans ho’s clowns and mummers. You’re literally the pinnacle of evolution.. temporary social construct handicaps come with the territory.

You built the washing machine, space ship, contraception and nukes, electricity, the airplane, the internet, you kill (sabertooth tigers, mammoths, unwanted babies, enemies of whatever you happen to support) protect and Build.

THEY despite the propaganda .. do none of that. And, deep down in their emotionally unstable onlyfans bpd bunny “hearts”…

… they know it and resent it since the Stone Age. Mixed Olympics anyone ?

an_authetic_facade · 2023-10-29T19:29:08+00:00

Throughout human history, men have died in droves to serve as the slowly rising ground people behind them use to advance. To fail to see or acknowledge the very soul of the male population that's worked tirelessly over the millenia to bolster the position of those they loved is a cruel way to honor their sacrifices.

Dismal-Diet9958 · 2023-10-29T22:49:43+00:00

Hate to say it but no matter what you are expected to soldier on

mrmensplights · 2023-10-29T23:11:14+00:00

Everything you've said is true. It's fucking awful. It's really unfair and infuriating.

Still, there's nothing more manly than this: You've got to play the cards you've been dealt and you've got to play to win. Even if hand is lousy.

Each man must seize happiness for himself.

And you can win: The culture we live in is toxic, delusional, and oppressive but there is still opportunity, and you also have benefits as a man and strengths as an individual that you can rely on.

Business_Tax288 · 2023-10-29T22:31:11+00:00

Stand tall. Master yourself and your shadows. Always show love to the things that want to break you the most.

Delicious-Agency-824 · 2023-10-30T00:35:26+00:00

You just need to learn how to live like a man.

We are blamed for everything.

So?

We have 2 options

Ignore the phenomena and appease. Be a man. Take care of someone else's children bla bla.
Realize that most people are assholes. Most see us as competitors. Most women see us as some other dude to loot. So realize it's what they want and AVOID any circumstances where you can be forced to support someone else children. There are many.

I chose 2nd one all the way. Realizing people will hate me anyway allow me to be invincible.

Be aware that people want to exterminate us even if we do nothing. If we have sex consensually people would want to portray that as non consensual anyway. Instead they want to ensure that the woman has big incentive to backstab. Even if women defraud us we are the one to blame.

In one case a 16 years old pretend she is 18 falsify government ID and be a porn star. The woman get nothing. The man go to jail even though they couldn't possibly knows she is 16.

Why?

Doesn't make sense?

Because of you are winning the rest lose. They don't want you to win.

Why do I make sex transactional? Many reasons. I got far prettier smarter women that way. But one benefit I love is I no longer waste money on useless women.

Everyone would advice me not to pay and make her like you. Lots of wasted money on women that's not even pretty and just keep scamming. That's what society wants. Women scam men.

Marriage,dinners,welfare alimony, palimony, child support, are all ways women get money by suing, leaving, and hurting men. Society doesn't want women to be nice to men and be rewarded for it.

Realize

Ambitious_Surround36 · 2023-10-30T01:18:53+00:00

Things that SUCK about being a man:

• Our value is based on what we DO, and it's not intrinsic like women, so most of us take on back-breaking work or take on highly technical jobs

• We are perceived as aggressive, so if it was a domestic dispute, men are always removed

• No one gives a FUCK about our emotional health and well being, we're expected to just carry on

• We're always seen as the bad guy (i.e. if I'm around children at the beach, I feel like I'm being seen as a pedophile)

• No one gives a fuck about our personal drama, so let's just say we are receiving fucking death threats it's not an excuse to leave work, but for women if your child is sick everyone knows about it (which is why women are perceived as more dramatic)

Overall I just learned pretty quickly I am to shut up and bottle in my emotions from a young age, mostly from high school peers I learned that pretty quick.

Forget getting any emotional support from anyone else.

Anyway I literally pay a therapist to care about my problems.

OmnisEst · 2023-10-29T16:31:59+00:00

Being a man is incredible. Bad aspects of being men are purely constructed by a social structure and are, in truth, just fictitious.

You are physically stronger and can do things that seem superhuman compared to kids and women. You are also smarter in all areas that don't involve emotion and have a much easier time understanding science and very abstract concepts. You can do whatever you want at night with much less trouble. Your mind is not subject to a million hormonal variations, and you can think more clearly without fearing your own shadow all the time. You don't get pregnant and don't menstruate making you vulnerable for a long time. You age at a slower pace and can keep your mind and strength well into more advanced years.

Undermining your great physical and mental potential because it is more "socially acceptable" to promote women will not take away the incredible talents and abilities we have as men.

JuNkHeAdDeD · 2023-10-30T04:24:46+00:00

I wish a woman would step up and take care of me like men supposedly all did in the past. I'll cook clean and fuck hell yeah. I'd be happy with that arraignment, say what u will. I can cook and clean and still have the rest of my day to do my woodworking refinishing, drink beer, shit with the door open and whatever else I want when she's not around!

Shit I forgot, I guess we are still holding them back is why this hasn't happened...

Otherwise_Amount9854 · 2023-10-29T21:00:07+00:00

"Men have it so much easier!" If i got the chance to be reborn as a woman and finally leave this annoying life, i'd do it in a heartbeat. That's how "easy" i have it.

Buckowski66 · 2023-10-30T01:40:15+00:00

You’re a monster, guilty of inherited sins like the “ evil male patriarchy” BUT , you’re also expected to be a provider, pay for everything and assume the most financial risk in a divorce. So yeah, it’s not a great time to be male unless you’re rich.

TimmyTurnersDad6 · 2023-10-30T02:35:51+00:00

As we get closer to the end of the road that is peak of our toleration for bullshit, we need to lean on eachother a little more.

This goes especially for men who don't have anyone.

As you have claimed, we men are indeed bashed for everything.

And it's getting worse.

There are men's circles for men and only men, for a reason. Here for ya.

Futureman999 · 2023-10-30T04:24:26+00:00

It's like assuming all black people are bad because one commits a crime.

I think there's a word for that. What is it..?

SeaZookeepergame8394 · 2023-10-30T06:29:04+00:00

Yes yes, this new generation of men is completely f*cked however look at yourselves and don't blame women...don't fall into modern women's traps .

The idiocracy of modernity and the loss of purpose. A defenseless soft and unprepared generation, socially inept and confused. Who cares what women think ? Who cares about this insane society? Pick your friends, family but most importantly, work on yourself..

As an older guy I say go and get your purpose, your first priority, don't get involved with females in steady relationships before you are at least 35 and read real books..

A simple affordable apartment (rent) with just the right amount of stuff in it, good clothes and a good bed near a good boxing gym, a few good books (meditations/victor Frankl/enchiridion/the way of the superior man etc..) is what you need.

You don't need a woman that will want a big house, with a lot of things in it, with a huge garden, lots of decoration, complicate the hell out of you, get some kids and divorce you and will take your kids and half your sh*t... Guys...grow tf up...

Xsmoothie · 2023-10-30T10:09:36+00:00

A lot of this propaganda is on Facebook and other social media, make your facebook completely private, block old people, shitty people. Bullies, idiots and only keep close friends and family there.

167167167abc · 2023-10-29T18:05:14+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-Gt9rny_F0

Watch these kinda videos everyday.You'll feel so strong as a man.

Aria0nDaP0le · 2023-10-30T00:45:20+00:00

I dont think all women are feminazis. Most women want to just be around normal people. I've actually been assualted but I don't think its all men.

My advice if you feel like people prejudge as that is to work on your charisma. Invest in good clothes, grooming products and colognes. Learn how to be funny and the most likable man in the room. Increase empathy. Alot of guys I know who do this dont feel like the world looks at them like a social pariah.

No-Cable7745 · 2023-10-29T23:58:33+00:00

Are you an individual or part of a hive mind? I don’t get your problem. The only thing you have in common with other men is the sex between your legs.

Usual_Willingness_67 · 2023-10-30T01:37:34+00:00

Of course it is. Grow up. Change it.

Carpeaux · 2023-10-30T05:14:38+00:00

At least you get to face reality in the face, reflect on it, consider it, arrive at your own conclusions. If you were a woman, you could do none of this. If you'd rather be blissfully unaware of the truth as long as you could spend 10 years being a whore around town, then the problem is with you, not with "being a man".

Yesterday I saw a youtube video of some guys riding bikes down a mountain. Here it is: RISKIEST Mountain Bike Ride of My Life 1000ft Drop - YouTube

If you're feeling depressed, go do that. Or you could just lift weights. You're a man, you can do anything. If you're young, join the French Foreign Legion. If you're white, get an Asian girl pregnant, shouldn't be too hard, get your life going, it will give you something to live for. You're a man, you can do anything. Go do it. Imagine being a woman, the whole world conspires for you and still you're capable of nothing worthwhile, in 100 years this farce will be over and they won't have one good book to show for a century of "liberation". I'd rather be a man for 18 years and die in a ridiculous unnecessary war than be a woman for a 100 years.

Auggiewestbound · 2023-10-30T16:24:55+00:00

Dude sac up. Being a man is easy as shit.

Fit-Bandicoot6489 · 2023-10-29T21:26:49+00:00

Considering males are the cause of every single issue in the world and commit the vast majority of all violent crimes…then yeah. Instead of whining over what feminists say, focus on what males do.

HiveMindKing · 2023-10-30T08:34:25+00:00

The most depressing thing is when I think back to the way my personality and expressiveness was twisted. I’ve always been a passionate person who loves and enjoys people and I can distinctly remember being shamed for early romances and made to feel dirty for having crushes and it never really faded. My expressions got caught inside myself and twisted.

Just in case it’s confusing I’m talking about little crushes as a 11-12 year old with girls of the same age in which we innocently kissed or held hands and my parents and hers treated it like I was some predator, when the reality was I was entirely following her lead.

ThrowawayLetterSlide · 2023-10-30T09:59:09+00:00

It's impressive how many men seem functional and aren't just breaking down publicly, it would be completely understandable after constantly hearing they are all evil.

revonssvp · 2023-10-30T10:04:02+00:00

Yes. As men now we have only the right to take it and carry on with our pains or isolation or fragility. For society and medias we do not exist, or just to be mocked.

jmkiser33 · 2023-10-30T13:19:14+00:00

You just have to stay away from online bs and urban bs. Yeah, it sucks to read articles of guys being asked to move seats on a plane because they sat an unattended child next to him and want to replace him with a woman as if he’s assumed to be dangerous to a random kid. It sucks to watch a news story where a dad gets the cops called on him at a park where his kids are playing because “he looks like a predator hanging around a playground”.

But IRL, maybe it’s just because I live in central Indiana, but I don’t see any of this crap.

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2023-10-30T13:30:17+00:00

is it? Since Kindergarten I had to learn that girls get a free pass all the time. It could be depressing, but I also learned if you achieve something through your own effort and not through a free pass people will recognise it.

Very early on many girls showed me how entitled their thinking is. So I put my own morals and rules over all else. Every time I violated my morals and did something to please a girl or because "it is the right thing to do" I regretted it.

Which made my morals also more solid. I'm kind of a weirdo in the eyes of the girls. But I always had the respect of the important people.

here are some quotes some women said to me in the last 15 years: "you will become a wonderful father", "I want my daughter to find a man like you", "you are so invested in your childs life. This is so nice and totally different to the men of my generation", "Take him as a good example", "please, teach my children discipline", "because of you I feel save and secure", "you are on of the reason I could overcome my fear of men"

surround yourself with people who have a positive influence on you and stay away from man hating feminists and bad influence.

I also talked with some man hating women, but the few who were able to talk properly became respectful and polite very quickly.

It could be depressing, but I always had my goals and when I saw the opportunity to get together with a good woman and she stayed with me through hard times. That's why I'm grateful for the prior hardships which made me strong and hopefully into a good man who has a positive impact on his surroundings

HistorianEcstatic555 · 2023-10-30T14:19:49+00:00

There's a lot of undiagnosed mental illness running around in the world.

I think it reads like you give too much respect to words of people who haven't earned it, and suffer unnecessarily because of this.

Men built the world. Women did not. Men tamed nature. and those wars? Many were attempts to reduce violence.

The equal capacity for evil among women is well documented.

Nolite bastardes carborundorum.

rainbowkombat · 2023-10-30T16:21:42+00:00

your perfectly right its getting so bad that i sometime think about changing gender and for love the better way is to be fictosexual like me and to have waifus.

Title	Being a man is depressing.
Author	FragrantRub9676
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Date	October 29, 2023 3:12 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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