How do you guys cope with misandry?

DryLeather2020 · 2024-01-17T13:25:04+00:00

Am I stressing myself too much over this?

In a way you are. First of all, I hope you are staying healthy and doing well in life. Please take a break from social media for your sanity and don't worry about contributing to this subreddit. Be a bit self-absorbed and do not pay too much attention to all the people attempting to put you down. They are only doing so to feel better about themselves. As a man your greatest strength is not your physical prowess but your ability to walk away. Invest in yourself by learning new things, working on your hobbies and meeting like-minded people. Help yourself first and then you will be able to help others. All the best!

lone_guy25 · 2024-01-17T13:04:36+00:00

I can't... That's the problem.

DMFan79 · 2024-01-17T13:30:48+00:00

Trust me, if you are capable of this level of introspection you're safe.

Like others said, avoid spending time in bad places on the web.

In RL you can easily spot the bad apples. Once you do, you just ignore them like they don't exist.

slashangel2 · 2024-01-17T13:25:33+00:00

I avoid and ignore.

krackedy · 2024-01-17T13:07:24+00:00

Maybe a break from the internet. Surround yourself with good people.

Frird2008 · 2024-01-17T14:06:55+00:00

Boomerang it back on them. Ask them if a man had the same mindset towards women would they think of it the same? If the answer is no, I reply, "womp womp there you go"

lostcymbrogi · 2024-01-17T13:09:37+00:00

I advocate for actual equality. It is amusing to hear misadrist advocate for inequality and claim that somehow benefits everyone. It's called taking the moral high ground.

Weary_Drawing4516 · 2024-01-17T15:37:21+00:00

I take it with a grain of salt. All these bitches are hoes anyway

Level5Clearance · 2024-01-17T14:18:37+00:00

Misandry is on the rise where I am living. If I could go back home, it would be flat out discouraged.

Nurse-Cat-356 · 2024-01-17T14:23:43+00:00

Every group has ism and ists aimed at them. Ignore it. Block content and move on

Dashing2025 · 2024-01-17T15:14:13+00:00

Take a break from social media.

redardoncomputer · 2024-01-17T14:51:29+00:00

Man I’ve already become a incel and it’s sad because it’s just a cycle. A woman rejects a man and keeps trying to get a girlfriend all while being called sexist he lashes out and then women respond the same way.

5shad · 2024-01-17T17:20:10+00:00

You don't give it power. I act as if they don't exist by not acknowledging them even if they force it on me.

fallen4567 · 2024-01-18T14:09:01+00:00

I work in an industry with almost 100 percent men, and have extended time off and don't spend my time off in the United states unless I have to. I also try to limit my time looking at social media that talks about this topic. I know most people aren't able or willing to do this so I'd say just stay off social media mainly. I wouldn't say avoid women completely but sometimes the juice isn't worth the squeeze, especially in the states.

ShawnGH · 2024-01-17T18:36:15+00:00

Unwanted women die alone in pools of cat piss. There is no good reason to listen to anything that they say.

AlexanderKrasnikov · 2024-01-17T23:14:42+00:00

I can't handle it. Sometimes when I read some of the comments on Twitter I start thinking about self-deleting myself. The problem is that I've noticed that for some reason twitter and facebook non-stop advertises to me posts about how it was a brave woman who stole a house and a business from a guy and comments from what are more hardcore feminists about how it's all literally r*pe and how guys should be hanged

Additional-Advisor99 · 2024-01-18T01:23:46+00:00

I’m just now really learning to cope because of recent personal experiences. Plenty of stuff in the past but I was able to shrug it off. The most recent things have really brought it home that men don’t truly have any friends in society. Getting closer to being ok with a collapse so that it’ll hit the reset button on that.

GamerBoi997 · 2024-01-17T15:43:00+00:00

Well Im gay for one thing. I can understand the dudes better than some girlz can. That helps. Uhhh. In part I stay out of trouble and generally ignore it

WolfShaman · 2024-01-17T18:05:51+00:00

You can't control what someone else says/does, all you can do is control how you respond to it. Decide to respond by not stressing over it.

Don't take the double standards personally. Believe me, I hate them as much as the next guy. However, you don't have to try to navigate them. When you try to play their game, you will always lose. So don't play it.

I do think you are stressing yourself too much. To alleviate feeling so anxious, maybe just take some steps to protect yourself. Like spending time around women, but never be alone with one.

land_back · 2024-01-18T03:04:44+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtfulness and deep thinking. My advice as a woman, think about your pain and consider the fact women are in pain too. I'm sorry you're hurt and have been so wounded in life but we are not your enemy. Life's painful for all of us but we can help eachother if we make space for compassion. Hang in there and keep asking the important questions. Women have very good reasons to be angry, just as men do. Let's all just stop hurting one another. Your introspection is pure beauty. I've been getting scared for myself at how much I'm starting to hate men and I am trying to stop. If you knew the story of my life, you would understand. Men and women are getting played against one another so the rich and powerful stay in control. It's unfair but so it is. We have the power to change it.

MrSaturn33 · 2024-01-18T11:57:27+00:00

Good, have hate and anger, it's warranted.

PlasticAddress8283 · 2024-01-18T05:08:20+00:00

As a man you should always know women are inferior to you. All that yapping they do is futile.

AccomplishedMovie804 · 2024-01-18T00:51:46+00:00

How do I deal with it? By never dating again and giving any of them a chance again.

ValeLemnear · 2024-01-18T06:10:45+00:00

Tbh reduce social media to a minimum as otherwise (and depending on your news sources/bubbles) you’ll get flooded with this shit which may fuel existing anxiety and anger.

Cut off the people IRL which are buying into the bullshit as having sexist, racist, etc. people around you is NEVER going to improve your life quality and will eventually cause drama.

PristinePilot6599 · 2024-01-18T19:22:08+00:00

Brother never you will spot balance in a society. We started supporting females because of discrimination and now men are facing it. Balance is never seen, boys problems aren't visible to society because we are tolerant

3DFutureman7 · 2024-01-20T14:20:26+00:00

It did at first then I learned to look at it from the outside. I did this because I got a passport and started travelling to countries where they don't tolerate this insanity.

Now I feel like I'm in the movie The Matrix. Dodging the bs bullet time style.

Agile_Potato9088 · 2024-01-20T22:21:27+00:00

I interact with Women when needed. I never let myself be in a room alone with a Woman-stranger. I don't date, nor do I seek friendship with Women. I cope by knowing my very limited rights and I do not take any chances regarding them.

As for "incel". Stop using that stupid word. It's an insult hurled at Men to take away our freedom of choice and insinuate that we are not worthy to date. It's old and tired. Let it die.

Title	How do you guys cope with misandry?
Author	Ok-Yogurtcloset7394
Upvotes	95
Comments	62
Date	January 17, 2024 12:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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